Dec. 11, 2025
Treating the Complex, the Undiagnosed, and the Misunderstood in PT
Pelvic health physical therapist Faith Stokes brings the ???? in this candid conversation on treating the misunderstood — from Hard Flaccid Syndrome to trauma-informed care. She shares her unique journey from reptile medicine to healthcare, her CSM 2025 talk, and how she handles the hard cases with heart and humility.
In this episode:
- Her journey from snake handler to pelvic health PT
- What PTs need to understand about Hard Flaccid Syndrome
- Why mentorship isn’t always formal
- Clinical reasoning when you don’t have all the answers
- Using compassion when the textbooks fail
- How to grow as a communicator, even when you miss the mark
Featured at CSM 2025:
???? “It’s Not That Hard: Clinical Reasoning in the Management of Hard Flaccid Syndrome”
Transcript
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this episode brought to you by Brooks IHL,
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Elevate your career with Brooks.
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Our episode today,
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our guest was headed for a career.
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I am not making this up, probably.
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As a reptile surgeon, yes, crocodiles,
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venomous snakes, but a spinal cord injury?
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changed the course of everything.
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Now she's a clinician for humans,
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a coordinator,
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an educator who blends psychologically
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informed care and lifestyle medicine to
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treat some of the most complex cases in
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our profession.
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She's the mentor you wish you had, honest,
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empowering, radically human-centered,
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and she likes creepy crawly things.
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In her world,
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healing is more than symptom resolution.
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It's about showing up, slowing down,
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which I need to do,
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and seeing the patient as a whole.
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She might have black coffee in one hand
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and a tangled rope metaphor in another.
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She's here to remind us that doing the
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basics really well is elite level care.
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Let's welcome Faith Stokes to the show.
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Faith, how'd I do on the intro?
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You did great.
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So I can't,
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you can't have an introduction where I
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talk about crocodiles and snakes without
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being like backstory me.
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Absolutely.
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So I was actually interested in reptiles
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since I was a child,
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as in my mother said the first time
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I tried to catch a snake,
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I was still in a diaper.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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So she actually taught me how to read
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using snake books from the library because
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it was the only way she could get
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me to sit down long enough.
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Genius.
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So I was using their Latin names before
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I was ten.
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When I went to college,
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I was interested in veterinary medicine
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and everyone that knew me said, well,
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of course, she's going to become a vet.
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Of course,
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she's going to work with reptiles.
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She's going to go to zoos.
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I was already working at a zoo.
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In the reptile department.
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Where were you geographically?
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I was a volunteer for the Chattanooga Zoo
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in Chattanooga, Tennessee.
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So I was there first and to my
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knowledge, only reptile volunteer.
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I emailed them and said,
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I want to work in that department.
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And they said,
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people don't usually want to do that.
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Especially, yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I said,
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I will only work in that department.
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That's what I want to do.
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So they brought me in.
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I worked with the big pythons and the
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big boas.
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I got to hang out with the Komodo
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dragons and the alligators.
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My son loved coming to see me there.
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So this was just a normal pace of
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life.
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My research in undergrad was on creating
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or finding antibiotic type proteins in
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snake venom.
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So using it to treat antibiotic resistant
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bacterial strains.
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So I was playing with that research wise,
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got to compete at several conferences with
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it.
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But my husband in two thousand eleven had
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a spinal cord injury and I was going
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to have to leave,
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obviously for specialized training to go
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and finish that career path.
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And I remember keenly.
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He was in inpatient rehab at the time
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at Siskin in Chattanooga.
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They were wonderful.
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And I was like,
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I don't think I'm going to be able
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to go.
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I can't leave you guys.
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And he was like,
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I think you should try PT.
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They have a doctorate program here in
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Chattanooga.
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You could stay at home with us.
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You could still be Dr. Stokes.
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It's a super stable career.
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They have good insurance.
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He'd obviously been looking into this.
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And he said the phrase,
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I see you in them.
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Wow.
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And I was like,
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I'm standing there in jeans, Jimmy.
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And I had been in a stream that
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morning chasing hellbenders,
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which is a salamander.
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I don't know what that is.
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Okay, good.
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Yeah.
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Thank you.
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What's their Latin name?
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I don't know.
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I don't remember anymore.
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Faith,
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you could have literally said gibberish.
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I would be like, God, I am not.
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No, no, I am not going to,
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I'm not going to mess that up.
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I've been out of it long enough.
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I was in a stream.
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I was in a stream.
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I had mud up like mid femur and
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I looked at him and I was like,
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they sit in a business office in business
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professional clothes.
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I have nothing in common with these
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people.
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And he's like, I don't know.
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I see you in them.
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Just think about it.
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So when I started my PT program,
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I was accepted.
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I lied on my application and told them
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I always wanted to be a PT and
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I related to the field.
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You know,
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anything that you think you have to do
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to get into a graduate program.
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You wanted to be like a Python trainer.
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So that's PT, right?
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Same thing.
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Yeah.
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No, it was a lie.
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My first day of school,
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I just remember sitting in there thinking,
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I don't want to be here.
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I don't want to be.
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You very rarely get bitten.
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It's never zero.
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It's probably a higher impedance,
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but you rarely get bitten.
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People who do herpetology do really well
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with TBI patients.
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Why is that?
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Just because the TBI patients are super
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impulsive and aggressive.
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It's the same as a crocodile.
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That was not on my bingo card,
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but I bet you a bunch of TV,
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I bet you a bunch of neuro-PTs,
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I can hear them right now going, yeah,
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that tracks, that tracks.
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I could totally tackle someone and wrestle
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them down and talk to them calmly the
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whole time and keep your blood pressure
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down and they're going to stop struggling
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eventually.
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But anyway, long story, very short.
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I was probably in my second year.
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I went on a residency call with the
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APTA to just look at residencies because I
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was like, if I'm going to do this,
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I need to do this.
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I need to like it is what it
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is.
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I'm here.
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This is not going to change.
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So who do I want to be?
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And maybe I just haven't found that
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version of myself yet.
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So that's what launched me into my
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training pathway from that world into this
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one.
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But I will say that even just the
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work that I did with reptiles,
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kind of along the lines of the
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conversation with the patient population I
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work with,
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With a reptile,
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they have no attachment to you.
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They don't have mammalian brains.
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So they could kill me.
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I could die.
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They're not going to miss me.
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They don't care that I exist.
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You take care of them because it's a
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living creature and it deserves patience,
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love, kindness,
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whether it can reciprocate or not.
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And so that was what I really pulled
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from my reptile training into patient
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cares.
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There's sometimes there are patients who
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seem,
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and I'm gonna highlight that they seem
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unlovable.
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And I just remind myself,
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if you can care for a boa constrictor
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that really just wanted you to die,
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but you did everything you could to take
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care of that animal because it was alive
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and it deserved to be taken care of,
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you can take care of this person and
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they don't have to love you back.
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And carrying that into care,
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humans respond completely differently to
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that approach than reptiles.
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I know that shocks you.
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This is my shocked face.
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I know, right?
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Humans respond differently to that
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approach when you walk into the room and
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you say,
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regardless of what I get out of this
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relationship,
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I'm going to meet their needs.
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That's powerful.
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Did you ever ask your, I mean,
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you must've asked your husband, like,
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but what did you see in me?
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Like,
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I see them and I see you in
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them.
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I see them in you.
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Did you ever ask him, like,
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what's that mean?
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Like what, like, you know,
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he could probably word it a little bit
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better,
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but Joey has had several TBIs and words
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are not his strength,
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which was why in that moment,
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that was all he could give me.
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Um, but I will be honest,
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like the people,
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this is something I tell my mentees,
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the people that know you,
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and love you for who you are will
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see potential in you that you don't see.
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And sometimes you just have to trust them.
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So now like looking at what I do
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and my identity and like,
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I hope I'm in my nineties treating
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patients.
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Like I don't, I love what I do.
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And so I don't know what he saw,
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but he was right.
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So I think that's,
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that was what I took away from it.
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Even now making career decisions,
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like I'll think, oh my gosh,
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I don't know that that's the best fit
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for me.
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Or I don't know that I should do
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that.
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And the people that love me are in
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my ear saying, no, that's you go.
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So that was my first introduction to just
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jumping blindly off a cliff when someone
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told me to jump.
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And it's been a bit of a pattern
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for me lately.
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I love that.
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Um,
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I love the fact that like we've got,
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you know, what,
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three hundred thousand PTs in the country
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or whatever.
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And there's like stories like that.
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But you'd never know.
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Right.
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We just assume.
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Right.
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I tore my ACL as a soccer player
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in high school and my grandmother.
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Those are the two cliches.
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Right.
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That's a cool story, though.
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Thank you for telling me that.
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Mm hmm.
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Yeah.
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We apparently met.
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We're going to talk about what you're
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talking about, CSM.
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The prompt I put on LinkedIn was like,
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let's put some butts in seats.
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A lot of people,
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APTA has a monumentally large job.
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Yes.
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Which essentially is like communicate,
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all of the four hundred i don't even
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know bajillion sessions at this one
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conference we're talking about csm which
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is in a couple of months i remember
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my first csm which was la and there's
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a story there which i don't remember and
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i remember my professor had asked me like
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what'd you think of csm and i was
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like it was a circus and she goes
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it was and i go with a bunch
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of circuses in it like like twenty
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different circuses in the big top and i
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remember just being like for someone like
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me
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overstimulated but i like that sort of
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thing but you leave like just spent so
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we met at csm in twenty fifteen sixteen
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whenever that was when it was la it's
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gonna be in la so faith and jimmy
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are going full circle um what are you
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you said you remember we met i don't
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remember this help me out what did i
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did i do something bad no you didn't
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You had won an award for this podcast
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idea.
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My program had won an award for a
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fundraiser.
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All of the students that had won awards
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for something,
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were all pulled together to prepare us for
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the ceremony so that we knew how to
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behave and what to say and what not
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to say and where to walk you know
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yeah they were they were corralling the
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toddlers um so we were we were all
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like grouped together at the bottom of the
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stairs talking and you started talking
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about this podcast that i remember you
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describing it with such excitement
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And you were, I don't know if you,
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I think at that moment you were saying,
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I don't know if this is something I'm
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going to keep doing,
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but it was just something you were super
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excited about.
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And then, like I said earlier,
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a few years later, I was like,
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he did it.
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It's still going because I saw it pop
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up and I thought he will never remember
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me, but that's completely fine.
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That was a decade ago.
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That was.
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I know.
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I mean, that was.
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I know.
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It's wild.
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And like, when you turn back.
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You know,
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the stupid cliche is cliche for a reason.
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It's like, where did a decade go?
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Like, it's crazy.
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And then I do the math on like
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number of episodes, number of,
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I don't really care about episodes,
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like number of conversations,
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number of people you met,
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number of stories you've heard and shared.
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And you're like something like sixteen
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hundred episodes in ten years,
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which I'm not a mathematician,
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but I'm glad it's ten.
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It's round.
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It's one hundred and sixty episodes about
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per year,
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which means almost every other day.
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That's intense.
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I need to get out more.
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I know I do.
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All right.
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So you're going to CSM.
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I am.
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You're going to be on the big stage.
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Congratulations.
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Although just because your your thing
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wasn't picked doesn't mean it wasn't a
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good submission.
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Absolutely correct.
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And I will interview anybody who had a
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great submission but didn't get picked.
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There's only so many things that they can
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put on the stage.
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They try to mix it up.
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So it's not the same things or same
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people over again.
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wanted to throw that psa in there a
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little little shot for apta to be like
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we i see what you're trying to do
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it's not easy so what what what is
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what how do we put butts in seats
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what's on the marquee what do you want
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who do you want in the seat who
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who should be there what are they going
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to get when they come see faith is
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it just you or do you have co-speakers
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i do i have a co-speaker
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So Mika and I are presenting.
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Oh, now you've got different Mika.
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Now I've got the last names mixed up.
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Well, I'm going to meet this Mika.
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I'm going to know too.
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You are going to meet Mika.
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She's wonderful.
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Um,
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she works in the residency with me and
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Mika and I are presenting.
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So we're,
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we are both pelvic health specialists and
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we're presenting on a syndrome.
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That the story behind this syndrome,
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which I think is what makes it
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interesting,
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is males were getting on discussion boards
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for years talking about this topic.
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And what we found was that in about
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twenty twenty,
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the medical community finally said we
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should take this seriously.
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This is a thing.
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Only took two decades.
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Yeah, it only took a while.
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So but in twenty twenty,
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the medical community said pelvic health
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therapists are the therapist,
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are the provider of choice to send these
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patients to.
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Guess what we knew about this population?
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Nothing, nothing.
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This was the first thing that was
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published.
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So these patients is called hard flaccid
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syndrome and it is a syndrome,
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meaning that it is not one thing.
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cluster.
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It is a cluster of things.
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Absolutely.
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And so what we started working on together
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was these patients were coming in and they
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were telling us it was just a,
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like a, just a few patients,
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but those of us that started seeing them
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started to see more and more and more.
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And I
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What I think has been interesting for me
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as a clinician,
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now I'm going to have to look up
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her name because y'all,
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it is literally bugging me because it's
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Mitchell is stuck in my head.
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I think it's Bryant.
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It is Bryant.
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Okay.
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Now I feel better.
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Mika Bryant and I,
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she practices in North Carolina.
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We started actually doing teams
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conferencing on these patients because
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there was nothing in the evidence that
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The only thing that we were finding for
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a while were case studies.
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And they were looking at one component of
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the condition,
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the pelvic floor component or the direct
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genital approach.
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And what Mika and I both found was
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that you had to treat the whole person.
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And so per my general population,
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pelvic health therapists who work with
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patients who have syndromes,
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who work with patients who have
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complicating autoimmune, orthopedic,
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yellow flag, lifestyle issues,
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pelvic floor dysfunction,
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sexual dysfunction.
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This is a patient population where all of
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those things merge together.
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And if you aren't addressing each
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component in some way,
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they do not respond well to conservative
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care.
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So what we're doing is this is our
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title is a little bit tongue in cheek.
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So it's called the syndrome itself is a
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partially erect penis and it stays that
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way.
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It never fully relaxes.
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They never get a full erection.
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So we called the presentation.
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It's not that hard clinical reasoning in
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the presentation of hard flaccid.
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No notes.
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Well done.
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Slow clap.
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Because that's the point, right?
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You got to get attention.
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I try to tell people the headline is
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to get attention.
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The sub headline is to explain the
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context, not the other way around.
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So keep going.
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Well done.
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So we came up with the title and
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we present one of my patients that I
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treated for this who got better.
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And we track how he did through treatment.
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But we talk through how do you evaluate
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each of these areas?
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How do you prioritize one area over the
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other?
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And that's where the clinical reasoning
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component comes in.
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So while it is very specifically the
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entire, I want to be very clear,
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I would welcome any specialty,
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but our entire presentation is about
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penises.
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Got it.
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What we talk through specifically is how
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do you clinically reason through a
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syndrome?
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How do you make the decision to prioritize
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the orthopedic dysfunction?
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How do you prioritize the psychosocial?
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How do you get these patients in
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counseling?
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and help them find a counselor who can
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have a conversation about sexual
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dysfunction with compassion and recognize
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there's even an addiction component to
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this.
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So that's where Mika's specialty is.
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Her background prior to being a PT was
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working in the counseling arena with
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addiction.
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What kind of addiction?
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So there's a substance issue?
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It can be substance.
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It can even be masturbation.
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So they, yes,
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this is very much a pelvic health topic,
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but I think it represents well,
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even across orthopedics,
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when we are talking about the fact that
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these patients have to be managed
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holistically.
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And as you evaluate each of these
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components,
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what Mika and I both have found is
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that the
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these patients often have some type of
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past medical history of trauma.
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And so when you are approaching the
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addiction,
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when you are approaching the issues that
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these patients face,
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the compassion has to be completely
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different and they may not tell you.
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So my patient didn't tell me his trauma
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till nine months into treatment.
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Mika's patient, it was over a
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Those are things that if you aren't aware
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that it might be there,
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or you're just assuming they'll tell you
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if it is,
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especially given that it is individuals
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likely to identify as male,
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they just might not talk about it.
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Um,
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I've never talked about this in the show,
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but I, I have a penis.
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And if I had this, like,
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I'm just trying to picture,
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cause that's what we do, right?
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We try to empathy, not sympathy, empathy,
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empathy.
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So I'm just like, gosh, that would be,
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that would be devastating.
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Right?
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Like, and what you said,
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then of course I go to what you
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said before, which is like,
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what do we do?
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We ask for advice.
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You can't ask one of your buddies, right?
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You're probably not going to, you could,
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but hopefully you're probably not going
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to, you're going to do this,
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go to the,
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Reddit,
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you're going to log in with your burner
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account, right?
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The account no one can track you with.
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And you're going to find nothing.
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And then you're going to go,
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I'm the only person who's dealing with
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this.
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Absolutely.
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And then you're not going to go anywhere
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else because no one ever put down an
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exit sign that said, actually,
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if you have this, go this way.
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So for a long time, this was happening.
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That sounds awful.
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It was definitely for these patients.
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They were having to self-support one
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another when they did find each other.
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Yeah.
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Even if you did find each other.
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So like that is sort of how the
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internet, right?
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Cause even in the,
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in the medical community for a long time,
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this was discredited and they've even
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started doing studies now and they're
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still providers who don't believe this is
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a syndrome or an issue.
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Yeah.
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And it is devastating.
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Quite literally,
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there's visible proof of this.
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There is.
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You're talking about what you're talking
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about.
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You're seeing.
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You can see it.
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You can see it.
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It's difficult to fake.
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I mean, I have one of these.
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That'd be difficult to fake.
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Correct.
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No, that's...
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I think in medicine,
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and this is a faith soapbox,
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and it's something I had to get over
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with as someone who practices in complex
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cases,
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we get really comfortable being the expert
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in the room.
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And anytime we are not the expert in
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something, it makes us uncomfortable.
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And our discomfort as a human is going
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to cause us to respond in a certain
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way.
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So each individual is going to have a
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different response to that.
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And I find that in the medical community,
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especially with sexual dysfunction,
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and that's why Mika and I were so
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excited to present this together,
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is she messaged me and said,
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Faith,
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no one is presenting on male sexual
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function.
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There's a lot of stuff on females.
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Last year, they only had,
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I forget how many male talks.
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And she's like, this is an issue.
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This is a problem.
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We've both struggled with this.
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We need to present on this.
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And so we we put in to do
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it together.
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But just the medical providers I speak to
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now,
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when they say I'm not comfortable talking
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about that.
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Mika and I will tell them, that's fine.
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That's fine.
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If they start talking to you and you're
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uncomfortable, send them to me.
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I will screen them.
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If they are not appropriate for my office,
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I will let you know where they need
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to go.
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But if this is not a conversation you're
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comfortable having, that is,
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I don't know where that provider is coming
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from,
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either from past experiences
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experiences or training.
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I am trained to talk about this.
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I am comfortable talking about this.
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So just send them to me.
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Please do not send them back to the
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internet.
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Yeah.
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So this is a talk that's going to
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be about a case study.
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This is a talk that's going to be
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about a syndrome that like maybe a lot
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of people, I mean,
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maybe a lot of people in the room
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won't know.
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But this is also gonna be a talk
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about how you reasoned your way through
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this.
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So even if you're like,
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I don't treat pelvic,
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I might never see a patient like this,
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there's still gonna be a component where
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you're like, hey,
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here's this thing that no one knew
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anything about, and here was what we saw,
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and then here's what we did,
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and here's what happened.
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And PTs, I mean, from what I know,
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PTs love stuff like that.
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So even if you're like,
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this doesn't make any sense.
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I love things that don't make any sense
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looking forward,
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like someone who's going to work with
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reptiles, but now as a PT.
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And then you look backwards and you're
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like, oh, all the dots line up.
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That makes perfect sense.
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So even if you're like, ah, male pelvic,
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no thanks.
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Feels like there's still some gems.
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There is,
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especially for the orthopedic component.
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That's something I've...
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Which section is this in?
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This is in pelvic health.
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Got it.
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Okay.
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But it's sneaky.
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Cause it's like it's in pelvic health,
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but you're like, Hey,
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just don't overlook it.
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That's the,
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that's the cool part about CSM is like
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it got,
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and for people don't know each section
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puts forth,
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there is allowed X number of talks per
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day, whatever,
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because capacity and money and that's how
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it works.
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And, um,
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Even if you're like, I'm an ortho PT,
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I would say you're doing yourself and your
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patients a disservice if you stay only on
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the ortho track.
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Right.
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Like, hey, man, you bro out on that.
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Three hundred and sixty two days a year,
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maybe it's called combined sections,
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meaning they're all there.
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dip man like touch a little like you
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know remember remember trivial pursuit
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don't just get green wedges like get a
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blue get a yellow get a pink so
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when you leave your pie is full so
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if you were considering taking jimmy's
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approach which i do i do agree with
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the reason why a talk like this can
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be so important is specifically as as
00:24:43.194 --> 00:24:46.715
someone who identifies as female this can
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be incredibly hard for male patients to
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speak with me about
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And they may talk to someone who appears
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to identify as male.
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This is a conversation these patients
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bring up.
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And Mika and I both had the experience
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where we were learning how to navigate
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these conversations to ask appropriate
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questions.
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Like these are challenging conversations
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to have with patients.
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And if you've ever had the experience
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where a patient has brought up an
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uncomfortable topic,
00:25:16.300 --> 00:25:18.823
and you didn't know how to respond in
00:25:18.863 --> 00:25:20.084
a way that was going to be the
00:25:20.124 --> 00:25:21.305
most supportive of them,
00:25:22.365 --> 00:25:24.548
that is what we go through in this
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talk is how did we learn to communicate
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to these patients to normalize what
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they're feeling, to reassure them,
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to talk them through the process,
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to get them to the right specialist,
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but recognizing that in syndromes,
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a lot of times the PT is
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becomes the PCP.
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We are the provider in the middle that
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is comfortable talking about everything,
00:25:49.688 --> 00:25:50.671
but knows, okay,
00:25:50.711 --> 00:25:52.255
it's time to send you to this person.
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Okay,
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it's time to loop this person into the
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equation.
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So I'm excited because I enjoy talking
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through clinical reasoning.
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I think that's one of those topics that
00:26:04.265 --> 00:26:05.405
we need a class on,
00:26:05.425 --> 00:26:07.165
but a class on clinical reasoning doesn't
00:26:07.246 --> 00:26:07.905
usually sell.
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And it's usually hard to frame into a
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curriculum because it's best done when
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we're doing it on live patients or on
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real patient case studies.
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So for me,
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I think the thing that's exciting about
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this is to take the patient case all
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the way through to recognize that the
00:26:27.996 --> 00:26:30.377
standard clinical presentation now has
00:26:30.417 --> 00:26:31.439
some variation.
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And to be able to reason through,
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is this condition present?
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Recognize medical providers in your area
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may tell you it's not even a real
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thing and not want to treat it.
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How do you help them find the right
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provider?
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But then for me,
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as I was in my fellowship specifically,
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I was exposed to some training.
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I believe her name was Hughes in twenty
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twenty.
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Christina Hughes.
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She did a paper on patients who had
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been in pelvic health and failed pelvic
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health like they did not recover.
00:27:07.362 --> 00:27:08.982
Sexual function, prolapse,
00:27:09.063 --> 00:27:10.183
urinary incontinence, et cetera.
00:27:10.644 --> 00:27:12.506
She took an exhaustive approach to the
00:27:12.546 --> 00:27:12.905
spine.
00:27:14.798 --> 00:27:18.040
and all of them got better.
00:27:18.121 --> 00:27:20.082
And it really challenged me to say,
00:27:20.241 --> 00:27:21.682
how good is my spine exam?
00:27:22.624 --> 00:27:24.365
And when we look at this syndrome,
00:27:25.474 --> 00:27:28.116
there are two places the spine can really
00:27:28.136 --> 00:27:29.979
begin to play into their presentation.
00:27:30.038 --> 00:27:31.680
And that's something that Mika and I both
00:27:31.700 --> 00:27:35.983
have found clinically is that we have to
00:27:36.044 --> 00:27:37.424
be exhaustive.
00:27:37.525 --> 00:27:39.686
We have to progress through full range of
00:27:39.767 --> 00:27:43.190
motion with overpressure and make sure
00:27:43.230 --> 00:27:45.971
we're addressing any type of source of
00:27:46.011 --> 00:27:48.193
those symptoms just because of where it
00:27:48.213 --> 00:27:49.015
can get disrupted.
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And again,
00:27:49.474 --> 00:27:51.196
there's a lot of wonderful researchers
00:27:51.237 --> 00:27:53.338
that specialize in sexual medicine only
00:27:54.019 --> 00:27:56.221
doing research in this population now
00:27:56.281 --> 00:27:58.123
trying to understand those mechanisms.
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I love theory.
00:28:01.152 --> 00:28:02.673
but i want to know what i need
00:28:02.712 --> 00:28:05.115
to do monday because they're going to be
00:28:05.154 --> 00:28:07.156
here on monday so there's a lot of
00:28:07.257 --> 00:28:10.180
theory going around right now um we will
00:28:10.220 --> 00:28:12.981
briefly touch on that in our talk but
00:28:13.061 --> 00:28:15.703
we are mostly talking boots on the ground
00:28:15.845 --> 00:28:17.625
what do you need to do on monday
00:28:17.705 --> 00:28:20.008
what do you need to hand them when
00:28:20.028 --> 00:28:22.410
they come in the door what message do
00:28:22.450 --> 00:28:25.152
they need to hear what's their prognosis
00:28:26.012 --> 00:28:27.634
How long is it going to take to
00:28:27.673 --> 00:28:29.795
do an evaluation on this person?
00:28:30.715 --> 00:28:34.679
What should you allocate for time-wise if
00:28:34.719 --> 00:28:36.460
they are uncomfortable with a certain type
00:28:36.500 --> 00:28:37.140
of provider?
00:28:37.180 --> 00:28:39.541
How can you supplement care in that area
00:28:39.582 --> 00:28:40.903
to keep them moving forward?
00:28:41.383 --> 00:28:42.723
So our hope is to make it a
00:28:42.743 --> 00:28:44.984
really practical approach to a challenging
00:28:45.025 --> 00:28:48.086
case, pulling all of those components in.
00:28:48.106 --> 00:28:49.268
Do you know when it is?
00:28:49.587 --> 00:28:50.189
When's your talk?
00:28:50.209 --> 00:28:52.470
It's on Thursday.
00:28:52.509 --> 00:28:53.931
I don't remember the date yet.
00:28:54.278 --> 00:28:54.678
Thursday.
00:28:55.198 --> 00:28:57.398
I think Valentine's Day is Saturday.
00:28:57.419 --> 00:28:59.279
So, fourteen, thirteen, twelfth.
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The twelfth at two.
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At two.
00:29:01.441 --> 00:29:02.422
And say the name again,
00:29:02.501 --> 00:29:03.761
just so people will mark it down.
00:29:03.842 --> 00:29:04.863
I'll put it in the show notes, too.
00:29:05.423 --> 00:29:06.483
It's not that hard.
00:29:06.663 --> 00:29:08.845
Clinical reasoning in the management of
00:29:08.865 --> 00:29:09.625
hard flaccid.
00:29:09.704 --> 00:29:11.905
You got to earn their attention to get
00:29:11.925 --> 00:29:13.047
them get butts in seats.
00:29:13.487 --> 00:29:14.346
I'm not going to lie.
00:29:14.406 --> 00:29:15.968
I was a little disappointed not to get
00:29:16.008 --> 00:29:17.949
Valentine's Day because I thought like a
00:29:17.989 --> 00:29:19.890
penis talk on Valentine's Day was actually
00:29:19.910 --> 00:29:20.730
going to be pretty fun.
00:29:20.769 --> 00:29:21.851
But I'll take Thursday.
00:29:22.474 --> 00:29:24.195
It's pre-Valentine's Day, little surprise.
00:29:24.636 --> 00:29:25.317
Yes, it is.
00:29:26.337 --> 00:29:27.117
We got to pay some bills.
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kick the tires, light the fires.
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Empower EMR.
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And we want to make sure you know
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about this organization.
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If you haven't heard about them,
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my first exposure was at an APTA national
00:29:59.566 --> 00:30:00.026
conference.
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It was called Go Baby Go,
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supporting pediatric mobility and play for
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children of all abilities through those
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little modified, you know,
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the battery powered cars.
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You modify them and make it's like a
00:30:10.259 --> 00:30:10.719
hackathon.
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And this way,
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kids have mobility devices and they don't
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have to, like,
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pay for wheelchairs that cost thousands
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and thousands of dollars.
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And they're awesome.
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And then you can help build them.
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It's all open sourced.
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Let kids be kids,
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even if they roll a little different.
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Learn how to donate or get involved at
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GoBabyGo.org.
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That was Cole Galloway who kicked off that
00:30:28.732 --> 00:30:29.133
initiative.
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And I saw him in an APTA event.
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That was the first time I ever heard
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him speak.
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All right.
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So you have a meeting.
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But I want to make sure that we
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get to this.
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I post on LinkedIn.
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I now treat LinkedIn like Twitter.
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I posted something.
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You didn't disagree with me,
00:30:43.606 --> 00:30:44.448
but you were like, hey,
00:30:45.088 --> 00:30:47.270
and I think we probably most likely agree
00:30:47.551 --> 00:30:48.432
on what I said,
00:30:48.512 --> 00:30:49.753
but we'll bring it on.
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We'll learn.
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So I will read the post.
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I said, hey, unpopular opinion.
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Nobody cares about what you did.
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Not on LinkedIn, not on Instagram,
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not on Facebook, nowhere.
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I wrote a book.
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I launched a podcast.
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I posted a video.
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Cool, great, fantastic.
00:31:03.424 --> 00:31:05.465
But what does it have to do for
00:31:05.726 --> 00:31:06.906
me?
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This is the lesson that I'm trying to
00:31:08.228 --> 00:31:08.788
show people.
00:31:08.807 --> 00:31:11.170
I'm trying to grab their attention, faith,
00:31:11.410 --> 00:31:12.470
and then teach them the lesson.
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I got to get their attention first.
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I continue to say social media isn't your
00:31:15.791 --> 00:31:16.393
trophy shelf.
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It's a value exchange.
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People care about four main things.
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Does this save me time, make me money,
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make me better?
00:31:22.435 --> 00:31:23.757
Does this make me laugh for a second?
00:31:24.501 --> 00:31:25.182
If the answer's no,
00:31:25.201 --> 00:31:26.623
then your post is just a digital pat
00:31:26.643 --> 00:31:27.022
on the back.
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And congratulations,
00:31:28.182 --> 00:31:29.443
you're seconds away from dislocating your
00:31:29.463 --> 00:31:29.763
shoulder.
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Don't dislocate your shoulder patting your
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back.
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Want people to listen?
00:31:33.924 --> 00:31:35.306
Want your stuff to sound like it matters?
00:31:35.405 --> 00:31:37.145
Stop announcing your accomplishments and
00:31:37.165 --> 00:31:38.646
start explaining how what you do lifts
00:31:38.686 --> 00:31:39.247
other people up.
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When you help someone rise,
00:31:40.867 --> 00:31:42.327
suddenly everyone starts paying attention.
00:31:42.448 --> 00:31:44.068
And then you said counterargument.
00:31:44.128 --> 00:31:44.808
And I love counterarguments.
00:31:44.828 --> 00:31:45.890
Do you want to read your counterargument
00:31:46.089 --> 00:31:48.790
in your voice?
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Expand it for me.
00:31:50.211 --> 00:31:50.730
All right.
00:31:51.131 --> 00:31:52.311
So my counterargument...
00:31:53.193 --> 00:31:54.234
was to ask,
00:31:54.855 --> 00:31:56.596
what if this individual is a minority,
00:31:57.155 --> 00:31:59.797
marginalized, or atypical in their field?
00:32:00.438 --> 00:32:02.818
So these individuals inspire others who
00:32:02.898 --> 00:32:04.619
identify with them to see these
00:32:04.660 --> 00:32:06.381
accomplishments as achievable.
00:32:07.805 --> 00:32:09.247
I often work with students who are
00:32:09.287 --> 00:32:11.269
first-generation college graduates.
00:32:11.608 --> 00:32:13.631
Posting means that our community,
00:32:13.671 --> 00:32:15.752
so our PT community,
00:32:16.173 --> 00:32:17.634
can support and cheer for them in a
00:32:17.694 --> 00:32:21.137
way that their environment can't because
00:32:21.159 --> 00:32:23.540
they don't understand their experience.
00:32:23.701 --> 00:32:25.202
And for me,
00:32:25.282 --> 00:32:26.824
this could certainly fall under how does
00:32:26.844 --> 00:32:27.684
this make me better?
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Yeah.
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But I want to see their accomplishments.
00:32:31.567 --> 00:32:32.528
I want to promote them.
00:32:32.588 --> 00:32:33.609
I want to cheer for them,
00:32:34.009 --> 00:32:35.490
especially in these cases.
00:32:36.372 --> 00:32:38.073
But then the flip side of that argument
00:32:38.113 --> 00:32:39.534
is when we're trying to fight for
00:32:39.614 --> 00:32:40.214
equality.
00:32:41.294 --> 00:32:43.454
we can't decide who that goes to.
00:32:43.494 --> 00:32:44.596
It has to be for everyone.
00:32:45.317 --> 00:32:48.179
So I'm okay with posting accomplishments
00:32:48.459 --> 00:32:50.460
and maybe that's my unpopular opinion,
00:32:50.539 --> 00:32:50.960
but if I,
00:32:51.421 --> 00:32:53.301
I don't know if someone is a minority,
00:32:53.461 --> 00:32:54.442
if they're atypical,
00:32:54.583 --> 00:32:56.183
if they're marginalized in some way.
00:32:57.045 --> 00:32:57.805
Um, so it's,
00:32:57.964 --> 00:32:59.486
it is easier for me to say,
00:32:59.526 --> 00:33:01.366
you know what you post it,
00:33:01.667 --> 00:33:02.667
what you do is on you.
00:33:02.708 --> 00:33:04.409
What I do is on me and I'd
00:33:04.449 --> 00:33:05.009
rather clap.
00:33:05.458 --> 00:33:06.077
Yeah, yeah.
00:33:06.378 --> 00:33:07.078
I don't disagree.
00:33:07.179 --> 00:33:08.279
I think we probably are more...
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So thank you for challenging me because
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I'm not here to just post stuff and
00:33:13.483 --> 00:33:14.324
have everybody agree with me.
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I agree, a hundred percent.
00:33:19.367 --> 00:33:20.107
I'm struggling with like,
00:33:20.388 --> 00:33:21.249
that's what I meant,
00:33:21.709 --> 00:33:22.750
but it isn't what I said.
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But I don't disagree with you.
00:33:24.431 --> 00:33:25.071
So I'm just like, where...
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So maybe if I had added like to
00:33:27.252 --> 00:33:28.253
motivate others,
00:33:28.874 --> 00:33:31.195
because like I did something amazing.
00:33:31.415 --> 00:33:32.596
I'm here for it.
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I guess my problem is...
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Especially PTs.
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When they wrote a book,
00:33:41.755 --> 00:33:43.296
it takes them months or years.
00:33:44.037 --> 00:33:45.637
Faith, I'm excited when I read a book.
00:33:46.398 --> 00:33:47.539
I pat myself on the back when I
00:33:47.599 --> 00:33:48.540
finish reading a book.
00:33:48.840 --> 00:33:52.545
I cannot imagine or fathom writing a book.
00:33:52.865 --> 00:33:53.566
My problem,
00:33:53.586 --> 00:33:55.067
what I'm trying to get people to see
00:33:55.768 --> 00:33:56.608
is, I agree with you,
00:33:57.884 --> 00:33:59.605
You took nine months to write a book
00:34:00.045 --> 00:34:02.086
and fourteen seconds to post about it.
00:34:02.487 --> 00:34:03.846
You said, I wrote a book.
00:34:04.228 --> 00:34:05.587
What I want you to say is,
00:34:06.249 --> 00:34:07.788
look what I'm able to help you unlock.
00:34:09.030 --> 00:34:10.311
Because that will get people to go,
00:34:10.451 --> 00:34:12.172
hang on a second, what does that mean?
00:34:12.672 --> 00:34:14.452
So you're right.
00:34:15.052 --> 00:34:17.295
Your critique of what I said was right.
00:34:18.041 --> 00:34:18.922
What I'm trying to figure out is how
00:34:18.942 --> 00:34:19.541
do I say it better?
00:34:19.563 --> 00:34:22.465
Because what I meant is if someone did
00:34:22.525 --> 00:34:24.887
something from a minority,
00:34:25.307 --> 00:34:28.570
how do we make sure everybody recognizes,
00:34:28.710 --> 00:34:31.172
lifts that person up so that what you're
00:34:31.193 --> 00:34:32.675
saying is more people see it?
00:34:33.255 --> 00:34:34.617
I was doing it more of a reframe,
00:34:34.657 --> 00:34:35.097
which is like,
00:34:35.237 --> 00:34:36.438
I see what a lot of you are
00:34:36.458 --> 00:34:36.719
doing.
00:34:37.179 --> 00:34:37.820
I wrote a paper.
00:34:38.726 --> 00:34:40.148
Tell me what I'm going to get if
00:34:40.228 --> 00:34:41.829
I give you eleven minutes to read the
00:34:41.889 --> 00:34:43.692
paper, if I could even access the paper.
00:34:45.514 --> 00:34:46.615
Please give me free access to.
00:34:46.635 --> 00:34:51.322
I got to see so much greatness going
00:34:51.362 --> 00:34:51.922
around.
00:34:51.983 --> 00:34:52.784
Like I launched,
00:34:53.063 --> 00:34:54.826
I published another podcast episode.
00:34:55.778 --> 00:34:56.798
Cool story, Jimmy.
00:34:56.858 --> 00:34:57.679
That's about you.
00:34:57.880 --> 00:34:59.639
What I want to say is we're going
00:34:59.659 --> 00:35:02.621
to make sense of lizards and clinical
00:35:02.661 --> 00:35:06.061
reasoning with mildly flaccid penises,
00:35:06.422 --> 00:35:07.862
and you're going to walk out not feeling
00:35:07.922 --> 00:35:10.242
uncomfortable if this ever comes to you.
00:35:10.382 --> 00:35:12.123
You know what I mean?
00:35:12.362 --> 00:35:13.842
I recorded a podcast episode,
00:35:14.182 --> 00:35:15.744
as the kids would say, cool story, bro.
00:35:15.804 --> 00:35:16.423
Tell it again.
00:35:16.864 --> 00:35:17.923
So I don't disagree with you.
00:35:17.943 --> 00:35:20.324
I have two thoughts for you.
00:35:20.364 --> 00:35:20.605
Okay, go.
00:35:22.532 --> 00:35:22.632
Okay.
00:35:22.672 --> 00:35:22.831
One,
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you're coming at this perspective as a
00:35:25.632 --> 00:35:26.132
mentor.
00:35:26.853 --> 00:35:28.074
You do this for a living.
00:35:28.094 --> 00:35:28.353
Okay.
00:35:28.994 --> 00:35:31.755
So you in that post were mentoring us,
00:35:32.496 --> 00:35:35.237
mentoring potentially people who do not
00:35:35.297 --> 00:35:36.818
know how this currency works.
00:35:36.838 --> 00:35:36.958
Got it.
00:35:36.978 --> 00:35:39.298
So I didn't understand the audience
00:35:39.338 --> 00:35:39.659
enough.
00:35:40.260 --> 00:35:42.840
You were mentoring to say, Hey y'all,
00:35:43.847 --> 00:35:44.967
You're coming into your own.
00:35:45.007 --> 00:35:46.088
You're doing great things.
00:35:46.128 --> 00:35:46.909
Fantastic.
00:35:47.309 --> 00:35:49.630
This is how you leverage that because deep
00:35:49.670 --> 00:35:50.592
down inside,
00:35:51.472 --> 00:35:53.034
I don't know anybody that didn't become a
00:35:53.094 --> 00:35:55.235
PT to be really good at what they
00:35:55.295 --> 00:35:57.476
do in whatever avenue they do it to
00:35:57.577 --> 00:35:58.297
help people.
00:35:58.878 --> 00:36:00.639
Like it was too much work to not
00:36:00.659 --> 00:36:01.539
come in to help people.
00:36:02.079 --> 00:36:03.842
So I think you were coming to it
00:36:03.882 --> 00:36:05.583
from a mentoring perspective.
00:36:06.072 --> 00:36:08.172
what I've had to learn from a mentoring
00:36:08.213 --> 00:36:10.434
perspective is that if someone has never
00:36:10.494 --> 00:36:11.795
had this modeled for them,
00:36:12.315 --> 00:36:14.416
so say they have never been in an
00:36:14.476 --> 00:36:16.717
environment where they've had a platform,
00:36:17.277 --> 00:36:19.217
this is the first time they've been given
00:36:19.398 --> 00:36:20.458
one and they get up there with a
00:36:20.518 --> 00:36:23.280
microphone and they're just sweating and
00:36:23.340 --> 00:36:25.380
like, they don't know what to do.
00:36:25.460 --> 00:36:25.760
And like,
00:36:25.780 --> 00:36:27.440
you're up there trying to help them and
00:36:27.561 --> 00:36:29.081
ask them questions like you're doing now
00:36:29.101 --> 00:36:29.521
with me.
00:36:30.463 --> 00:36:31.963
I've learned that when they post those
00:36:31.983 --> 00:36:34.503
things and it's really comes across as
00:36:34.543 --> 00:36:35.184
bragging,
00:36:36.445 --> 00:36:38.905
I can either walk away from it or
00:36:38.985 --> 00:36:39.646
I can say, no,
00:36:39.666 --> 00:36:41.766
this is another mentoring opportunity for
00:36:41.806 --> 00:36:44.768
me where I can get in the comments
00:36:44.907 --> 00:36:45.648
and say, wow,
00:36:45.927 --> 00:36:47.349
I can tell why you're so proud of
00:36:47.389 --> 00:36:48.389
this accomplishment.
00:36:48.989 --> 00:36:50.989
What was the biggest barrier you hit and
00:36:51.050 --> 00:36:52.150
how did you solve that problem?
00:36:52.190 --> 00:36:54.090
Help me understand how you did.
00:36:54.130 --> 00:36:54.911
Yeah.
00:36:54.952 --> 00:36:56.052
What is the biggest lesson?
00:36:56.592 --> 00:36:57.612
But I was trying to be funny and
00:36:57.632 --> 00:36:58.213
sarcastic.
00:37:01.929 --> 00:37:03.851
So now what I'm going to wait,
00:37:03.871 --> 00:37:04.771
what you said, you had two things.
00:37:04.791 --> 00:37:05.831
Was that two things or one thing?
00:37:05.851 --> 00:37:06.771
Those were the two things.
00:37:06.811 --> 00:37:07.193
So you,
00:37:07.492 --> 00:37:08.713
that was the perspective was the
00:37:08.753 --> 00:37:09.273
mentoring.
00:37:09.393 --> 00:37:11.574
And then as we try to elevate our
00:37:11.614 --> 00:37:12.215
mentoring,
00:37:12.934 --> 00:37:14.376
we can either walk away and say,
00:37:14.416 --> 00:37:15.876
I'm not mentoring this person.
00:37:16.077 --> 00:37:17.097
They're not a nice person.
00:37:17.157 --> 00:37:18.177
Or I could say, you know what?
00:37:18.217 --> 00:37:19.378
I'm going to assume.
00:37:20.179 --> 00:37:21.418
That they just don't have the knowledge of
00:37:21.478 --> 00:37:21.818
a skill.
00:37:22.280 --> 00:37:23.780
Well, I say that all the time.
00:37:23.880 --> 00:37:24.661
I used to say.
00:37:25.731 --> 00:37:27.152
When I got into this profession,
00:37:27.432 --> 00:37:28.675
I looked around and PTs were bad at
00:37:28.695 --> 00:37:29.235
communicating.
00:37:29.677 --> 00:37:31.298
And then I was like, I amended that.
00:37:31.318 --> 00:37:32.860
I was like, oh no, you know what?
00:37:32.880 --> 00:37:33.242
That's not it.
00:37:35.242 --> 00:37:35.563
Um,
00:37:35.643 --> 00:37:36.903
I think you're trained to communicate
00:37:36.963 --> 00:37:39.005
certain ways and you do those things and
00:37:39.025 --> 00:37:39.125
you,
00:37:39.244 --> 00:37:40.885
and surprisingly the things you're trained
00:37:40.925 --> 00:37:42.005
in and you do a lot, you're good.
00:37:42.025 --> 00:37:42.945
You're better at, right?
00:37:43.706 --> 00:37:44.907
And then when you look at mass
00:37:44.947 --> 00:37:46.268
communication, faith,
00:37:46.307 --> 00:37:47.887
it's almost as if it's an entire degree
00:37:47.927 --> 00:37:48.407
in college.
00:37:48.507 --> 00:37:49.728
And I have one of those mass
00:37:49.748 --> 00:37:53.030
communication, but not the same.
00:37:53.309 --> 00:37:54.030
It's not.
00:37:54.090 --> 00:37:55.550
And then I come to the defense again
00:37:55.590 --> 00:37:55.871
and say,
00:37:55.931 --> 00:37:57.532
PTs aren't bad or healthcare providers
00:37:57.572 --> 00:37:58.632
aren't bad at communicating.
00:37:58.652 --> 00:38:00.432
I'm using air quotes on a podcast.
00:38:01.273 --> 00:38:03.114
You lack the T's and P's.
00:38:03.134 --> 00:38:04.054
Did I ever talk to you about the
00:38:04.094 --> 00:38:04.574
T's and P's?
00:38:05.842 --> 00:38:06.902
I think you talked about it on your
00:38:06.922 --> 00:38:08.204
last episode.
00:38:08.583 --> 00:38:11.925
Tools, training, time, people,
00:38:12.445 --> 00:38:15.748
process to then generate the product,
00:38:16.268 --> 00:38:17.128
which is the thing.
00:38:17.588 --> 00:38:18.389
That's work.
00:38:19.490 --> 00:38:20.050
That's work.
00:38:20.090 --> 00:38:20.590
Yes, it is.
00:38:21.072 --> 00:38:23.632
And I, I recognize that like, Hey man,
00:38:23.873 --> 00:38:25.414
I'm sharing this thing and I'm doing it
00:38:25.474 --> 00:38:27.635
while I'm on the bus or just between
00:38:27.675 --> 00:38:28.155
whatever's.
00:38:29.197 --> 00:38:29.476
And yeah,
00:38:31.067 --> 00:38:32.728
I what I hope to do is not
00:38:32.748 --> 00:38:33.528
give a lecture.
00:38:33.588 --> 00:38:34.690
I want to give a bunch of little
00:38:34.730 --> 00:38:35.110
digest.
00:38:35.170 --> 00:38:36.090
I'm just going to be the guy who's
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like,
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let's make you one tenth of one percent
00:38:38.092 --> 00:38:38.653
better today.
00:38:39.434 --> 00:38:40.835
But I see where my sarcasm might have
00:38:40.914 --> 00:38:41.695
missed it a little bit.
00:38:41.735 --> 00:38:42.836
I was close.
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Here's the best part.
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Got a degree in communications in two
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thousand one.
00:38:45.920 --> 00:38:47.340
Been doing it a lot.
00:38:48.581 --> 00:38:50.603
Still a process to get better at it.
00:38:50.643 --> 00:38:51.905
You could still miss the mark.
00:38:52.525 --> 00:38:55.148
You always have to be evaluating that
00:38:55.548 --> 00:38:56.329
because, because you,
00:38:56.530 --> 00:38:58.170
even if you know the audience, well,
00:38:58.811 --> 00:39:00.632
the audience is so vast and so wide,
00:39:00.733 --> 00:39:01.994
like you're, it's not going to land.
00:39:02.014 --> 00:39:02.894
It's a bell curve again.
00:39:03.215 --> 00:39:04.797
It's going to land with a lot,
00:39:04.836 --> 00:39:05.818
but then also there's going to be, well,
00:39:05.858 --> 00:39:06.978
what F and what actually,
00:39:06.998 --> 00:39:08.199
and then faith comes in the comments.
00:39:08.219 --> 00:39:09.420
Like what I'm like, Oh, you know what?
00:39:09.501 --> 00:39:09.701
Yeah.
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Okay.
00:39:10.161 --> 00:39:10.722
No, she has a point.
00:39:11.163 --> 00:39:11.983
So here's what I'm going to do.
00:39:12.923 --> 00:39:14.744
I'm going to take this lesson.
00:39:14.844 --> 00:39:16.664
I'm going to go back to that post
00:39:16.864 --> 00:39:20.186
and I'm going to remix it as the
00:39:20.206 --> 00:39:21.585
kids would say and see if I can
00:39:21.606 --> 00:39:23.365
make it better because that's all we do.
00:39:24.306 --> 00:39:25.606
Were you great with your first?
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Do you remember your first patient?
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No, I really don't.
00:39:30.887 --> 00:39:31.467
I don't remember mine,
00:39:31.487 --> 00:39:32.628
but I remember just like being like,
00:39:32.728 --> 00:39:34.489
I would probably apologize to my first one
00:39:34.528 --> 00:39:34.809
hundred.
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Right.
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Wouldn't we all?
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No, I'll tell you this.
00:39:38.277 --> 00:39:39.518
I can tell you one of my first
00:39:39.617 --> 00:39:39.757
ones.
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And it's probably one of the reasons why
00:39:41.898 --> 00:39:43.699
I don't remember like the initial
00:39:43.739 --> 00:39:44.340
patients.
00:39:45.619 --> 00:39:47.621
He was a stroke patient and he came
00:39:47.701 --> 00:39:49.920
in and man,
00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:51.802
he was having a hard time like through
00:39:51.842 --> 00:39:52.581
his paperwork.
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When he left, I was like,
00:39:55.182 --> 00:39:56.242
he's not coming back.
00:39:57.364 --> 00:39:57.643
You know,
00:39:57.684 --> 00:39:59.623
we're almost nine years later and we still
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have lunch every month.
00:40:01.204 --> 00:40:01.864
Really?
00:40:03.072 --> 00:40:04.574
So hold on a second.
00:40:04.614 --> 00:40:05.534
You had to have asked, like,
00:40:05.594 --> 00:40:06.856
what was it to go from throwing your
00:40:06.896 --> 00:40:09.057
papers to nine years?
00:40:09.659 --> 00:40:09.759
Like,
00:40:09.778 --> 00:40:11.081
did you just give him enough compassion?
00:40:11.121 --> 00:40:11.721
Like, what was it?
00:40:13.163 --> 00:40:14.403
I didn't get upset at him.
00:40:14.724 --> 00:40:15.965
He said he was going to come back
00:40:16.085 --> 00:40:16.246
in.
00:40:16.385 --> 00:40:17.827
He was someone who kept his word.
00:40:18.608 --> 00:40:20.391
And I just kept trying.
00:40:21.231 --> 00:40:22.492
I kept trying to work with him.
00:40:22.512 --> 00:40:24.193
We ended up working together for two
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years.
00:40:25.675 --> 00:40:27.715
He had a stroke on his dominant side.
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I literally helped him handwrite and fill
00:40:29.697 --> 00:40:31.257
out his disability paperwork.
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Again, I worked with reptiles.
00:40:35.340 --> 00:40:37.442
I was used to things wanting to bite
00:40:37.481 --> 00:40:39.182
me when I was trying to help it.
00:40:39.722 --> 00:40:43.365
So it didn't upset me that he was
00:40:43.405 --> 00:40:45.947
upset at me.
00:40:46.447 --> 00:40:48.528
I was like, okay, he needs help.
00:40:48.688 --> 00:40:49.570
He's scared.
00:40:50.369 --> 00:40:51.831
How do I calm him down?
00:40:51.911 --> 00:40:53.431
What does this patient need from me?
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And he needed help with disability
00:40:54.932 --> 00:40:55.413
paperwork.
00:40:56.233 --> 00:40:58.054
That's not in the playbook,
00:40:58.094 --> 00:40:59.916
but you recognized it was necessary.
00:41:00.777 --> 00:41:03.398
Because I walked in the room and said,
00:41:03.579 --> 00:41:04.559
this organism,
00:41:04.599 --> 00:41:06.780
this living thing needs this.
00:41:06.840 --> 00:41:08.302
This is not personal.
00:41:08.422 --> 00:41:10.063
It is a response to something in the
00:41:10.483 --> 00:41:10.963
environment.
00:41:11.824 --> 00:41:13.565
And so we worked together on and off
00:41:13.585 --> 00:41:15.304
for two years and he is still one
00:41:15.344 --> 00:41:16.865
of my dearest and closest friends.
00:41:17.365 --> 00:41:19.306
So I love to tell that story to
00:41:19.346 --> 00:41:22.246
new grads because they think that when you
00:41:22.286 --> 00:41:23.387
come out of school,
00:41:23.487 --> 00:41:25.088
like you don't know anything and you've
00:41:25.128 --> 00:41:26.807
got to hide the fact that you're a
00:41:26.867 --> 00:41:28.289
new grad and you've got to wait till
00:41:28.329 --> 00:41:29.509
you get all the letters.
00:41:30.028 --> 00:41:30.730
And I'm like, no,
00:41:30.809 --> 00:41:33.550
my biggest cheerleaders to this day are
00:41:33.610 --> 00:41:35.690
patients that I treated in that first six
00:41:35.791 --> 00:41:36.090
months.
00:41:36.110 --> 00:41:37.612
There are four of them that I still
00:41:37.652 --> 00:41:38.431
stay in touch with.
00:41:39.536 --> 00:41:41.039
And like I said,
00:41:41.079 --> 00:41:43.342
they're my biggest cheerleaders and I have
00:41:43.402 --> 00:41:46.164
told them I had no idea what I
00:41:46.204 --> 00:41:46.846
was doing.
00:41:47.327 --> 00:41:48.909
And they said, we knew,
00:41:49.028 --> 00:41:50.269
but you figured it out.
00:41:51.126 --> 00:41:52.827
So figure it out.
00:41:53.668 --> 00:41:55.248
It is okay to not know what you're
00:41:55.268 --> 00:41:55.548
doing.
00:41:55.969 --> 00:41:56.668
Yeah.
00:41:56.728 --> 00:41:57.389
Ryan Clark,
00:41:57.429 --> 00:41:58.269
before we do your parting shot,
00:41:58.289 --> 00:41:59.050
because I know you've got a meeting.
00:41:59.070 --> 00:42:00.489
I don't want to be the reason for
00:42:00.510 --> 00:42:00.710
a meeting.
00:42:01.050 --> 00:42:03.650
Ryan Clark was a former NFL pro bowler.
00:42:04.032 --> 00:42:04.331
Awesome.
00:42:04.351 --> 00:42:05.711
Played for the Steelers and the Giants.
00:42:05.751 --> 00:42:08.793
I saw him at a healthcare medical
00:42:08.833 --> 00:42:10.114
conference in D.C.,
00:42:11.034 --> 00:42:12.295
he had this i forget what the condition
00:42:12.335 --> 00:42:13.596
was i think it might have been sickle
00:42:13.615 --> 00:42:15.036
cell anemia he had some condition where it
00:42:15.056 --> 00:42:17.297
was not every test he was being given
00:42:17.798 --> 00:42:19.420
you're fine man and he's like i am
00:42:19.519 --> 00:42:21.501
losing weight i can't get out of bed
00:42:21.701 --> 00:42:23.302
it's like i'm a defensive back in the
00:42:23.641 --> 00:42:28.304
nfl i can't get out of bed so
00:42:28.344 --> 00:42:29.846
this was the team dot also you're an
00:42:29.905 --> 00:42:32.108
nfl defensive back you have the best
00:42:32.148 --> 00:42:34.329
doctors in the world and this one doctor
00:42:34.509 --> 00:42:35.170
might have been great
00:42:36.101 --> 00:42:37.202
But he was like, no, you're good.
00:42:37.342 --> 00:42:37.623
Go ahead.
00:42:37.663 --> 00:42:38.043
Get out of here.
00:42:38.063 --> 00:42:38.403
And he's like,
00:42:38.744 --> 00:42:39.965
I'm wasting away to nothing.
00:42:41.788 --> 00:42:43.510
I think he said go out of pocket
00:42:43.530 --> 00:42:45.030
and go to a new doctor.
00:42:45.090 --> 00:42:46.552
And the doctors did all the same tests
00:42:46.612 --> 00:42:48.695
and said everything came back negative.
00:42:49.215 --> 00:42:50.117
And then Ryan Clark was like,
00:42:51.177 --> 00:42:51.478
and he goes,
00:42:51.498 --> 00:42:52.500
I don't know what's going on,
00:42:52.519 --> 00:42:53.460
but we're just going to keep doing stuff
00:42:53.481 --> 00:42:54.101
till we figure it out.
00:42:54.181 --> 00:42:55.443
And Ryan Clark goes, that's all I wanted.
00:42:55.963 --> 00:42:56.543
That's all they want.
00:42:56.563 --> 00:42:59.606
Just tell me that you believe me.
00:42:59.626 --> 00:43:00.065
Look at me.
00:43:00.206 --> 00:43:01.706
I'm a defensive back.
00:43:01.806 --> 00:43:03.027
I'm dripping weight.
00:43:03.108 --> 00:43:04.088
I'm dropping weight like Creed.
00:43:04.168 --> 00:43:04.648
Not normal.
00:43:05.128 --> 00:43:05.628
Everything's normal.
00:43:05.648 --> 00:43:05.849
He goes,
00:43:05.869 --> 00:43:07.030
I don't know what's going to happen,
00:43:07.050 --> 00:43:08.010
but we're going to keep doing it to
00:43:08.050 --> 00:43:09.170
figure it out.
00:43:09.471 --> 00:43:11.411
Someone just wants a wingman.
00:43:13.012 --> 00:43:14.032
It's not an assembly line.
00:43:14.052 --> 00:43:16.273
There's going to be a lot of typical
00:43:16.293 --> 00:43:18.574
things in your career.
00:43:18.655 --> 00:43:23.338
Read and recognize when it's inaudible.
00:43:23.717 --> 00:43:24.418
See, I could do this all day.
00:43:24.438 --> 00:43:25.559
Yes, you can.
00:43:26.876 --> 00:43:28.117
Are you ready to do the parting shot?
00:43:28.157 --> 00:43:28.856
Your parting shot?
00:43:29.297 --> 00:43:35.059
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It's my company.
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This is me.
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Just drop me an email,
00:43:55.463 --> 00:43:56.864
jimmy at ptpinecast.com.
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I help APTA sections and academies do
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this.
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I help private practices do this.
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We just help you make your good work
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well known.
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So your parting shot, last chance,
00:44:06.369 --> 00:44:08.030
mic drop moment, soapbox statement.
00:44:08.791 --> 00:44:10.132
What do you want your parting shot to
00:44:10.152 --> 00:44:10.233
be?
00:44:11.027 --> 00:44:12.369
I want to loop back to something you
00:44:12.389 --> 00:44:13.831
said at the start of the podcast when
00:44:13.851 --> 00:44:15.634
you were talking about the tangled rope.
00:44:15.653 --> 00:44:17.275
Oh, yeah.
00:44:27.429 --> 00:44:28.911
is what moves patients forward.
00:44:29.251 --> 00:44:30.690
And so if we're looking at a tangled
00:44:30.751 --> 00:44:32.871
rope and it's a small, simple knot,
00:44:33.431 --> 00:44:35.472
many of us feel really comfortable using
00:44:35.512 --> 00:44:37.833
our basic skills to tease that apart and
00:44:37.914 --> 00:44:38.713
untangle the rope.
00:44:39.393 --> 00:44:41.074
And a complex patient is not any
00:44:41.114 --> 00:44:41.695
different.
00:44:41.914 --> 00:44:43.335
It is a larger knot.
00:44:44.416 --> 00:44:46.137
It is the same basic approaches.
00:44:46.197 --> 00:44:47.777
It's the same humanity.
00:44:48.358 --> 00:44:50.657
It's the same skills that we have been
00:44:50.717 --> 00:44:53.139
taught since we were in PT school.
00:44:53.820 --> 00:44:54.800
It takes longer.
00:44:56.141 --> 00:44:57.302
which is what makes us nervous.
00:44:57.342 --> 00:44:59.242
And sometimes we have to have people help
00:44:59.322 --> 00:45:01.844
us hold the rope up while we're teasing
00:45:01.884 --> 00:45:02.384
it apart.
00:45:02.445 --> 00:45:04.346
But we do it the same way.
00:45:05.146 --> 00:45:09.268
So try not to make really complex things
00:45:09.467 --> 00:45:10.168
complex.
00:45:10.208 --> 00:45:11.670
Find the simplicity in them.
00:45:12.650 --> 00:45:14.550
Use your training and what you've learned
00:45:14.590 --> 00:45:15.110
to do.
00:45:15.672 --> 00:45:19.594
It just may take longer.
00:45:19.634 --> 00:45:20.313
Mike drop.
00:45:20.795 --> 00:45:21.875
Boom.
00:45:21.934 --> 00:45:23.376
Faith Stokes, we'll see at CSM.
00:45:23.416 --> 00:45:24.416
I'm going to be there.
00:45:25.358 --> 00:45:26.519
I'm going to be doing something ridiculous
00:45:26.559 --> 00:45:26.960
probably,
00:45:27.019 --> 00:45:29.161
but maybe we'll recreate like where we met
00:45:29.222 --> 00:45:30.521
because it'll be the same venue.
00:45:30.541 --> 00:45:31.302
We'll try to figure it out.
00:45:31.322 --> 00:45:32.063
That's exciting.
00:45:32.503 --> 00:45:36.445
And we'll take a selfie for ten years
00:45:36.585 --> 00:45:37.266
under the influence.
00:45:37.286 --> 00:45:39.228
That's a decade under the influence is
00:45:39.248 --> 00:45:39.827
what the podcast is.
00:45:39.847 --> 00:45:41.088
That sounds fantastic.
00:45:41.108 --> 00:45:42.969
Let's do that.
00:45:42.989 --> 00:45:43.951
FaceDokes, appreciate the time.
00:45:43.971 --> 00:45:44.510
Thanks for doing this.
00:45:45.231 --> 00:45:45.771
Absolutely.
00:45:45.811 --> 00:45:46.391
Have a great day.
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Sound effect-y.
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All right,
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Elevate your career with Brooks.
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Our episode today,
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our guest was headed for a career.
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I am not making this up, probably.
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As a reptile surgeon, yes, crocodiles,
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venomous snakes, but a spinal cord injury?
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changed the course of everything.
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Now she's a clinician for humans,
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a coordinator,
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an educator who blends psychologically
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informed care and lifestyle medicine to
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treat some of the most complex cases in
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our profession.
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She's the mentor you wish you had, honest,
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empowering, radically human-centered,
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and she likes creepy crawly things.
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In her world,
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healing is more than symptom resolution.
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It's about showing up, slowing down,
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which I need to do,
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and seeing the patient as a whole.
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She might have black coffee in one hand
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and a tangled rope metaphor in another.
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She's here to remind us that doing the
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basics really well is elite level care.
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Let's welcome Faith Stokes to the show.
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Faith, how'd I do on the intro?
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You did great.
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So I can't,
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you can't have an introduction where I
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talk about crocodiles and snakes without
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being like backstory me.
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Absolutely.
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So I was actually interested in reptiles
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since I was a child,
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as in my mother said the first time
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I tried to catch a snake,
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I was still in a diaper.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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So she actually taught me how to read
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using snake books from the library because
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it was the only way she could get
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me to sit down long enough.
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Genius.
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So I was using their Latin names before
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I was ten.
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When I went to college,
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I was interested in veterinary medicine
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and everyone that knew me said, well,
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of course, she's going to become a vet.
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Of course,
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she's going to work with reptiles.
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She's going to go to zoos.
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I was already working at a zoo.
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In the reptile department.
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Where were you geographically?
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I was a volunteer for the Chattanooga Zoo
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in Chattanooga, Tennessee.
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So I was there first and to my
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knowledge, only reptile volunteer.
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I emailed them and said,
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I want to work in that department.
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And they said,
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people don't usually want to do that.
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Especially, yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I said,
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I will only work in that department.
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That's what I want to do.
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So they brought me in.
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I worked with the big pythons and the
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big boas.
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I got to hang out with the Komodo
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dragons and the alligators.
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My son loved coming to see me there.
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So this was just a normal pace of
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life.
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My research in undergrad was on creating
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or finding antibiotic type proteins in
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snake venom.
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So using it to treat antibiotic resistant
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bacterial strains.
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So I was playing with that research wise,
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got to compete at several conferences with
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it.
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But my husband in two thousand eleven had
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a spinal cord injury and I was going
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to have to leave,
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obviously for specialized training to go
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and finish that career path.
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And I remember keenly.
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He was in inpatient rehab at the time
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at Siskin in Chattanooga.
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They were wonderful.
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And I was like,
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I don't think I'm going to be able
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to go.
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I can't leave you guys.
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And he was like,
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I think you should try PT.
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They have a doctorate program here in
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Chattanooga.
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You could stay at home with us.
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You could still be Dr. Stokes.
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It's a super stable career.
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They have good insurance.
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He'd obviously been looking into this.
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And he said the phrase,
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I see you in them.
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Wow.
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And I was like,
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I'm standing there in jeans, Jimmy.
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And I had been in a stream that
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morning chasing hellbenders,
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which is a salamander.
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I don't know what that is.
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Okay, good.
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Yeah.
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Thank you.
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What's their Latin name?
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I don't know.
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I don't remember anymore.
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Faith,
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you could have literally said gibberish.
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I would be like, God, I am not.
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No, no, I am not going to,
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I'm not going to mess that up.
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I've been out of it long enough.
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I was in a stream.
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I was in a stream.
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I had mud up like mid femur and
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I looked at him and I was like,
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they sit in a business office in business
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professional clothes.
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I have nothing in common with these
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people.
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And he's like, I don't know.
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I see you in them.
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Just think about it.
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So when I started my PT program,
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I was accepted.
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I lied on my application and told them
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I always wanted to be a PT and
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I related to the field.
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You know,
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anything that you think you have to do
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to get into a graduate program.
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You wanted to be like a Python trainer.
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So that's PT, right?
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Same thing.
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Yeah.
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No, it was a lie.
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My first day of school,
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I just remember sitting in there thinking,
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I don't want to be here.
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I don't want to be.
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You very rarely get bitten.
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It's never zero.
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It's probably a higher impedance,
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but you rarely get bitten.
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People who do herpetology do really well
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with TBI patients.
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Why is that?
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Just because the TBI patients are super
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impulsive and aggressive.
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It's the same as a crocodile.
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That was not on my bingo card,
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but I bet you a bunch of TV,
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I bet you a bunch of neuro-PTs,
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I can hear them right now going, yeah,
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that tracks, that tracks.
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I could totally tackle someone and wrestle
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them down and talk to them calmly the
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whole time and keep your blood pressure
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down and they're going to stop struggling
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eventually.
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But anyway, long story, very short.
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I was probably in my second year.
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I went on a residency call with the
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APTA to just look at residencies because I
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was like, if I'm going to do this,
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I need to do this.
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I need to like it is what it
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is.
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I'm here.
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This is not going to change.
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So who do I want to be?
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And maybe I just haven't found that
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version of myself yet.
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So that's what launched me into my
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training pathway from that world into this
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one.
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But I will say that even just the
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work that I did with reptiles,
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kind of along the lines of the
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conversation with the patient population I
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work with,
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With a reptile,
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they have no attachment to you.
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They don't have mammalian brains.
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So they could kill me.
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I could die.
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They're not going to miss me.
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They don't care that I exist.
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You take care of them because it's a
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living creature and it deserves patience,
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love, kindness,
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whether it can reciprocate or not.
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And so that was what I really pulled
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from my reptile training into patient
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cares.
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There's sometimes there are patients who
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seem,
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and I'm gonna highlight that they seem
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unlovable.
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And I just remind myself,
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if you can care for a boa constrictor
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that really just wanted you to die,
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but you did everything you could to take
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care of that animal because it was alive
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and it deserved to be taken care of,
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you can take care of this person and
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they don't have to love you back.
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And carrying that into care,
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humans respond completely differently to
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that approach than reptiles.
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I know that shocks you.
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This is my shocked face.
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I know, right?
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Humans respond differently to that
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approach when you walk into the room and
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you say,
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regardless of what I get out of this
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relationship,
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I'm going to meet their needs.
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That's powerful.
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Did you ever ask your, I mean,
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you must've asked your husband, like,
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but what did you see in me?
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Like,
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I see them and I see you in
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them.
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I see them in you.
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Did you ever ask him, like,
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what's that mean?
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Like what, like, you know,
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he could probably word it a little bit
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better,
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but Joey has had several TBIs and words
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are not his strength,
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which was why in that moment,
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that was all he could give me.
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Um, but I will be honest,
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like the people,
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this is something I tell my mentees,
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the people that know you,
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and love you for who you are will
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see potential in you that you don't see.
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And sometimes you just have to trust them.
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So now like looking at what I do
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and my identity and like,
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I hope I'm in my nineties treating
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patients.
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Like I don't, I love what I do.
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And so I don't know what he saw,
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but he was right.
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So I think that's,
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that was what I took away from it.
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Even now making career decisions,
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like I'll think, oh my gosh,
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I don't know that that's the best fit
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for me.
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Or I don't know that I should do
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that.
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And the people that love me are in
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my ear saying, no, that's you go.
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So that was my first introduction to just
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jumping blindly off a cliff when someone
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told me to jump.
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And it's been a bit of a pattern
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for me lately.
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I love that.
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Um,
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I love the fact that like we've got,
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you know, what,
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three hundred thousand PTs in the country
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or whatever.
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And there's like stories like that.
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But you'd never know.
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Right.
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We just assume.
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Right.
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I tore my ACL as a soccer player
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in high school and my grandmother.
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Those are the two cliches.
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Right.
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That's a cool story, though.
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Thank you for telling me that.
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Mm hmm.
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Yeah.
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We apparently met.
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We're going to talk about what you're
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talking about, CSM.
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The prompt I put on LinkedIn was like,
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let's put some butts in seats.
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A lot of people,
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APTA has a monumentally large job.
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Yes.
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Which essentially is like communicate,
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all of the four hundred i don't even
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know bajillion sessions at this one
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conference we're talking about csm which
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is in a couple of months i remember
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my first csm which was la and there's
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a story there which i don't remember and
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i remember my professor had asked me like
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what'd you think of csm and i was
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like it was a circus and she goes
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it was and i go with a bunch
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of circuses in it like like twenty
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different circuses in the big top and i
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remember just being like for someone like
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me
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overstimulated but i like that sort of
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thing but you leave like just spent so
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we met at csm in twenty fifteen sixteen
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whenever that was when it was la it's
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gonna be in la so faith and jimmy
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are going full circle um what are you
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you said you remember we met i don't
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remember this help me out what did i
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did i do something bad no you didn't
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You had won an award for this podcast
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idea.
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My program had won an award for a
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fundraiser.
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All of the students that had won awards
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for something,
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were all pulled together to prepare us for
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the ceremony so that we knew how to
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behave and what to say and what not
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to say and where to walk you know
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yeah they were they were corralling the
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toddlers um so we were we were all
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like grouped together at the bottom of the
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stairs talking and you started talking
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about this podcast that i remember you
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describing it with such excitement
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And you were, I don't know if you,
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I think at that moment you were saying,
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I don't know if this is something I'm
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going to keep doing,
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but it was just something you were super
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excited about.
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And then, like I said earlier,
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a few years later, I was like,
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he did it.
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It's still going because I saw it pop
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up and I thought he will never remember
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me, but that's completely fine.
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That was a decade ago.
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That was.
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I know.
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I mean, that was.
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I know.
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It's wild.
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And like, when you turn back.
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You know,
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the stupid cliche is cliche for a reason.
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It's like, where did a decade go?
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Like, it's crazy.
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And then I do the math on like
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number of episodes, number of,
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I don't really care about episodes,
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like number of conversations,
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number of people you met,
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number of stories you've heard and shared.
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And you're like something like sixteen
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hundred episodes in ten years,
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which I'm not a mathematician,
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but I'm glad it's ten.
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It's round.
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It's one hundred and sixty episodes about
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per year,
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which means almost every other day.
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That's intense.
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I need to get out more.
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I know I do.
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All right.
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So you're going to CSM.
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I am.
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You're going to be on the big stage.
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Congratulations.
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Although just because your your thing
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wasn't picked doesn't mean it wasn't a
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good submission.
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Absolutely correct.
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And I will interview anybody who had a
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great submission but didn't get picked.
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There's only so many things that they can
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put on the stage.
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They try to mix it up.
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So it's not the same things or same
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people over again.
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wanted to throw that psa in there a
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little little shot for apta to be like
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we i see what you're trying to do
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it's not easy so what what what is
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what how do we put butts in seats
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what's on the marquee what do you want
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who do you want in the seat who
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who should be there what are they going
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to get when they come see faith is
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it just you or do you have co-speakers
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i do i have a co-speaker
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So Mika and I are presenting.
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Oh, now you've got different Mika.
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Now I've got the last names mixed up.
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Well, I'm going to meet this Mika.
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I'm going to know too.
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You are going to meet Mika.
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She's wonderful.
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Um,
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she works in the residency with me and
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Mika and I are presenting.
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So we're,
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we are both pelvic health specialists and
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we're presenting on a syndrome.
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That the story behind this syndrome,
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which I think is what makes it
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interesting,
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is males were getting on discussion boards
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for years talking about this topic.
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And what we found was that in about
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twenty twenty,
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the medical community finally said we
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should take this seriously.
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This is a thing.
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Only took two decades.
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Yeah, it only took a while.
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So but in twenty twenty,
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the medical community said pelvic health
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therapists are the therapist,
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are the provider of choice to send these
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patients to.
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Guess what we knew about this population?
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Nothing, nothing.
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This was the first thing that was
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published.
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So these patients is called hard flaccid
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syndrome and it is a syndrome,
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meaning that it is not one thing.
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cluster.
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It is a cluster of things.
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Absolutely.
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And so what we started working on together
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was these patients were coming in and they
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were telling us it was just a,
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like a, just a few patients,
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but those of us that started seeing them
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started to see more and more and more.
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And I
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What I think has been interesting for me
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as a clinician,
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now I'm going to have to look up
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her name because y'all,
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it is literally bugging me because it's
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Mitchell is stuck in my head.
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I think it's Bryant.
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It is Bryant.
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Okay.
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Now I feel better.
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Mika Bryant and I,
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she practices in North Carolina.
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We started actually doing teams
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conferencing on these patients because
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there was nothing in the evidence that
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The only thing that we were finding for
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a while were case studies.
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And they were looking at one component of
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the condition,
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the pelvic floor component or the direct
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genital approach.
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And what Mika and I both found was
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that you had to treat the whole person.
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And so per my general population,
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pelvic health therapists who work with
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patients who have syndromes,
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who work with patients who have
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complicating autoimmune, orthopedic,
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yellow flag, lifestyle issues,
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pelvic floor dysfunction,
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sexual dysfunction.
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This is a patient population where all of
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those things merge together.
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And if you aren't addressing each
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component in some way,
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they do not respond well to conservative
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care.
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So what we're doing is this is our
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title is a little bit tongue in cheek.
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So it's called the syndrome itself is a
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partially erect penis and it stays that
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way.
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It never fully relaxes.
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They never get a full erection.
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So we called the presentation.
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It's not that hard clinical reasoning in
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the presentation of hard flaccid.
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No notes.
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Well done.
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Slow clap.
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Because that's the point, right?
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You got to get attention.
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I try to tell people the headline is
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to get attention.
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The sub headline is to explain the
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context, not the other way around.
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So keep going.
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Well done.
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So we came up with the title and
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we present one of my patients that I
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treated for this who got better.
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And we track how he did through treatment.
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But we talk through how do you evaluate
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each of these areas?
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How do you prioritize one area over the
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other?
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And that's where the clinical reasoning
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component comes in.
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So while it is very specifically the
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entire, I want to be very clear,
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I would welcome any specialty,
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but our entire presentation is about
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penises.
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Got it.
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What we talk through specifically is how
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do you clinically reason through a
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syndrome?
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How do you make the decision to prioritize
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the orthopedic dysfunction?
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How do you prioritize the psychosocial?
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How do you get these patients in
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counseling?
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and help them find a counselor who can
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have a conversation about sexual
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dysfunction with compassion and recognize
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there's even an addiction component to
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this.
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So that's where Mika's specialty is.
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Her background prior to being a PT was
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working in the counseling arena with
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addiction.
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What kind of addiction?
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So there's a substance issue?
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It can be substance.
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It can even be masturbation.
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So they, yes,
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this is very much a pelvic health topic,
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but I think it represents well,
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even across orthopedics,
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when we are talking about the fact that
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these patients have to be managed
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holistically.
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And as you evaluate each of these
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components,
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what Mika and I both have found is
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that the
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these patients often have some type of
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past medical history of trauma.
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And so when you are approaching the
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addiction,
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when you are approaching the issues that
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these patients face,
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the compassion has to be completely
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different and they may not tell you.
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So my patient didn't tell me his trauma
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till nine months into treatment.
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Mika's patient, it was over a
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Those are things that if you aren't aware
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that it might be there,
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or you're just assuming they'll tell you
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if it is,
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especially given that it is individuals
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likely to identify as male,
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they just might not talk about it.
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Um,
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I've never talked about this in the show,
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but I, I have a penis.
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And if I had this, like,
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I'm just trying to picture,
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cause that's what we do, right?
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We try to empathy, not sympathy, empathy,
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empathy.
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So I'm just like, gosh, that would be,
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that would be devastating.
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Right?
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Like, and what you said,
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then of course I go to what you
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said before, which is like,
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what do we do?
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We ask for advice.
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You can't ask one of your buddies, right?
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You're probably not going to, you could,
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but hopefully you're probably not going
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to, you're going to do this,
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go to the,
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Reddit,
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you're going to log in with your burner
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account, right?
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The account no one can track you with.
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And you're going to find nothing.
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And then you're going to go,
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I'm the only person who's dealing with
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this.
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Absolutely.
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And then you're not going to go anywhere
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else because no one ever put down an
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exit sign that said, actually,
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if you have this, go this way.
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So for a long time, this was happening.
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That sounds awful.
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It was definitely for these patients.
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They were having to self-support one
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another when they did find each other.
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Yeah.
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Even if you did find each other.
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So like that is sort of how the
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internet, right?
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Cause even in the,
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in the medical community for a long time,
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this was discredited and they've even
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started doing studies now and they're
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still providers who don't believe this is
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a syndrome or an issue.
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Yeah.
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And it is devastating.
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Quite literally,
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there's visible proof of this.
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There is.
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You're talking about what you're talking
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about.
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You're seeing.
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You can see it.
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You can see it.
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It's difficult to fake.
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I mean, I have one of these.
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That'd be difficult to fake.
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Correct.
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No, that's...
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I think in medicine,
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and this is a faith soapbox,
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and it's something I had to get over
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with as someone who practices in complex
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cases,
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we get really comfortable being the expert
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in the room.
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And anytime we are not the expert in
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something, it makes us uncomfortable.
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And our discomfort as a human is going
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to cause us to respond in a certain
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way.
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So each individual is going to have a
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different response to that.
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And I find that in the medical community,
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especially with sexual dysfunction,
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and that's why Mika and I were so
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excited to present this together,
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is she messaged me and said,
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Faith,
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no one is presenting on male sexual
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function.
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There's a lot of stuff on females.
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Last year, they only had,
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I forget how many male talks.
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And she's like, this is an issue.
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This is a problem.
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We've both struggled with this.
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We need to present on this.
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And so we we put in to do
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it together.
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But just the medical providers I speak to
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now,
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when they say I'm not comfortable talking
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about that.
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Mika and I will tell them, that's fine.
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That's fine.
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If they start talking to you and you're
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uncomfortable, send them to me.
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I will screen them.
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If they are not appropriate for my office,
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I will let you know where they need
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to go.
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But if this is not a conversation you're
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comfortable having, that is,
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I don't know where that provider is coming
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from,
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either from past experiences
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experiences or training.
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I am trained to talk about this.
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I am comfortable talking about this.
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So just send them to me.
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Please do not send them back to the
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internet.
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Yeah.
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So this is a talk that's going to
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be about a case study.
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This is a talk that's going to be
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about a syndrome that like maybe a lot
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of people, I mean,
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maybe a lot of people in the room
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won't know.
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But this is also gonna be a talk
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about how you reasoned your way through
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this.
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So even if you're like,
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I don't treat pelvic,
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I might never see a patient like this,
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there's still gonna be a component where
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you're like, hey,
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here's this thing that no one knew
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anything about, and here was what we saw,
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and then here's what we did,
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and here's what happened.
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And PTs, I mean, from what I know,
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PTs love stuff like that.
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So even if you're like,
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this doesn't make any sense.
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I love things that don't make any sense
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looking forward,
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like someone who's going to work with
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reptiles, but now as a PT.
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And then you look backwards and you're
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like, oh, all the dots line up.
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That makes perfect sense.
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So even if you're like, ah, male pelvic,
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no thanks.
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Feels like there's still some gems.
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There is,
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especially for the orthopedic component.
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That's something I've...
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Which section is this in?
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This is in pelvic health.
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Got it.
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Okay.
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But it's sneaky.
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Cause it's like it's in pelvic health,
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but you're like, Hey,
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just don't overlook it.
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That's the,
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that's the cool part about CSM is like
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it got,
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and for people don't know each section
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puts forth,
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there is allowed X number of talks per
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day, whatever,
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because capacity and money and that's how
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it works.
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And, um,
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Even if you're like, I'm an ortho PT,
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I would say you're doing yourself and your
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patients a disservice if you stay only on
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the ortho track.
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Right.
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Like, hey, man, you bro out on that.
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Three hundred and sixty two days a year,
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maybe it's called combined sections,
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meaning they're all there.
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dip man like touch a little like you
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know remember remember trivial pursuit
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don't just get green wedges like get a
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blue get a yellow get a pink so
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when you leave your pie is full so
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if you were considering taking jimmy's
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approach which i do i do agree with
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the reason why a talk like this can
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be so important is specifically as as
00:24:43.194 --> 00:24:46.715
someone who identifies as female this can
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be incredibly hard for male patients to
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speak with me about
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And they may talk to someone who appears
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to identify as male.
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This is a conversation these patients
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bring up.
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And Mika and I both had the experience
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where we were learning how to navigate
00:25:02.675 --> 00:25:06.597
these conversations to ask appropriate
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questions.
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Like these are challenging conversations
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to have with patients.
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And if you've ever had the experience
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where a patient has brought up an
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uncomfortable topic,
00:25:16.300 --> 00:25:18.823
and you didn't know how to respond in
00:25:18.863 --> 00:25:20.084
a way that was going to be the
00:25:20.124 --> 00:25:21.305
most supportive of them,
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that is what we go through in this
00:25:24.607 --> 00:25:28.171
talk is how did we learn to communicate
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to these patients to normalize what
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they're feeling, to reassure them,
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to talk them through the process,
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to get them to the right specialist,
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but recognizing that in syndromes,
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a lot of times the PT is
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becomes the PCP.
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We are the provider in the middle that
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is comfortable talking about everything,
00:25:49.688 --> 00:25:50.671
but knows, okay,
00:25:50.711 --> 00:25:52.255
it's time to send you to this person.
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Okay,
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it's time to loop this person into the
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equation.
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So I'm excited because I enjoy talking
00:26:00.784 --> 00:26:01.825
through clinical reasoning.
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I think that's one of those topics that
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we need a class on,
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but a class on clinical reasoning doesn't
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usually sell.
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And it's usually hard to frame into a
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curriculum because it's best done when
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we're doing it on live patients or on
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real patient case studies.
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So for me,
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I think the thing that's exciting about
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this is to take the patient case all
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the way through to recognize that the
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standard clinical presentation now has
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some variation.
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And to be able to reason through,
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is this condition present?
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Recognize medical providers in your area
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may tell you it's not even a real
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thing and not want to treat it.
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How do you help them find the right
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provider?
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But then for me,
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as I was in my fellowship specifically,
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I was exposed to some training.
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I believe her name was Hughes in twenty
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twenty.
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Christina Hughes.
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She did a paper on patients who had
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been in pelvic health and failed pelvic
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health like they did not recover.
00:27:07.362 --> 00:27:08.982
Sexual function, prolapse,
00:27:09.063 --> 00:27:10.183
urinary incontinence, et cetera.
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She took an exhaustive approach to the
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spine.
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and all of them got better.
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And it really challenged me to say,
00:27:20.241 --> 00:27:21.682
how good is my spine exam?
00:27:22.624 --> 00:27:24.365
And when we look at this syndrome,
00:27:25.474 --> 00:27:28.116
there are two places the spine can really
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begin to play into their presentation.
00:27:30.038 --> 00:27:31.680
And that's something that Mika and I both
00:27:31.700 --> 00:27:35.983
have found clinically is that we have to
00:27:36.044 --> 00:27:37.424
be exhaustive.
00:27:37.525 --> 00:27:39.686
We have to progress through full range of
00:27:39.767 --> 00:27:43.190
motion with overpressure and make sure
00:27:43.230 --> 00:27:45.971
we're addressing any type of source of
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those symptoms just because of where it
00:27:48.213 --> 00:27:49.015
can get disrupted.
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And again,
00:27:49.474 --> 00:27:51.196
there's a lot of wonderful researchers
00:27:51.237 --> 00:27:53.338
that specialize in sexual medicine only
00:27:54.019 --> 00:27:56.221
doing research in this population now
00:27:56.281 --> 00:27:58.123
trying to understand those mechanisms.
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I love theory.
00:28:01.152 --> 00:28:02.673
but i want to know what i need
00:28:02.712 --> 00:28:05.115
to do monday because they're going to be
00:28:05.154 --> 00:28:07.156
here on monday so there's a lot of
00:28:07.257 --> 00:28:10.180
theory going around right now um we will
00:28:10.220 --> 00:28:12.981
briefly touch on that in our talk but
00:28:13.061 --> 00:28:15.703
we are mostly talking boots on the ground
00:28:15.845 --> 00:28:17.625
what do you need to do on monday
00:28:17.705 --> 00:28:20.008
what do you need to hand them when
00:28:20.028 --> 00:28:22.410
they come in the door what message do
00:28:22.450 --> 00:28:25.152
they need to hear what's their prognosis
00:28:26.012 --> 00:28:27.634
How long is it going to take to
00:28:27.673 --> 00:28:29.795
do an evaluation on this person?
00:28:30.715 --> 00:28:34.679
What should you allocate for time-wise if
00:28:34.719 --> 00:28:36.460
they are uncomfortable with a certain type
00:28:36.500 --> 00:28:37.140
of provider?
00:28:37.180 --> 00:28:39.541
How can you supplement care in that area
00:28:39.582 --> 00:28:40.903
to keep them moving forward?
00:28:41.383 --> 00:28:42.723
So our hope is to make it a
00:28:42.743 --> 00:28:44.984
really practical approach to a challenging
00:28:45.025 --> 00:28:48.086
case, pulling all of those components in.
00:28:48.106 --> 00:28:49.268
Do you know when it is?
00:28:49.587 --> 00:28:50.189
When's your talk?
00:28:50.209 --> 00:28:52.470
It's on Thursday.
00:28:52.509 --> 00:28:53.931
I don't remember the date yet.
00:28:54.278 --> 00:28:54.678
Thursday.
00:28:55.198 --> 00:28:57.398
I think Valentine's Day is Saturday.
00:28:57.419 --> 00:28:59.279
So, fourteen, thirteen, twelfth.
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The twelfth at two.
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At two.
00:29:01.441 --> 00:29:02.422
And say the name again,
00:29:02.501 --> 00:29:03.761
just so people will mark it down.
00:29:03.842 --> 00:29:04.863
I'll put it in the show notes, too.
00:29:05.423 --> 00:29:06.483
It's not that hard.
00:29:06.663 --> 00:29:08.845
Clinical reasoning in the management of
00:29:08.865 --> 00:29:09.625
hard flaccid.
00:29:09.704 --> 00:29:11.905
You got to earn their attention to get
00:29:11.925 --> 00:29:13.047
them get butts in seats.
00:29:13.487 --> 00:29:14.346
I'm not going to lie.
00:29:14.406 --> 00:29:15.968
I was a little disappointed not to get
00:29:16.008 --> 00:29:17.949
Valentine's Day because I thought like a
00:29:17.989 --> 00:29:19.890
penis talk on Valentine's Day was actually
00:29:19.910 --> 00:29:20.730
going to be pretty fun.
00:29:20.769 --> 00:29:21.851
But I'll take Thursday.
00:29:22.474 --> 00:29:24.195
It's pre-Valentine's Day, little surprise.
00:29:24.636 --> 00:29:25.317
Yes, it is.
00:29:26.337 --> 00:29:27.117
We got to pay some bills.
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Hang tight one second.
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That was Cole Galloway who kicked off that
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initiative.
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And I saw him in an APTA event.
00:30:30.634 --> 00:30:31.515
That was the first time I ever heard
00:30:31.535 --> 00:30:31.934
him speak.
00:30:32.375 --> 00:30:32.615
All right.
00:30:32.736 --> 00:30:33.797
So you have a meeting.
00:30:34.557 --> 00:30:36.098
But I want to make sure that we
00:30:36.118 --> 00:30:36.740
get to this.
00:30:37.339 --> 00:30:38.260
I post on LinkedIn.
00:30:38.401 --> 00:30:40.403
I now treat LinkedIn like Twitter.
00:30:41.084 --> 00:30:41.845
I posted something.
00:30:42.165 --> 00:30:43.446
You didn't disagree with me,
00:30:43.606 --> 00:30:44.448
but you were like, hey,
00:30:45.088 --> 00:30:47.270
and I think we probably most likely agree
00:30:47.551 --> 00:30:48.432
on what I said,
00:30:48.512 --> 00:30:49.753
but we'll bring it on.
00:30:49.773 --> 00:30:50.114
We'll learn.
00:30:50.394 --> 00:30:51.855
So I will read the post.
00:30:52.136 --> 00:30:53.498
I said, hey, unpopular opinion.
00:30:54.038 --> 00:30:55.380
Nobody cares about what you did.
00:30:56.080 --> 00:30:57.362
Not on LinkedIn, not on Instagram,
00:30:57.382 --> 00:30:58.362
not on Facebook, nowhere.
00:30:58.782 --> 00:30:59.403
I wrote a book.
00:30:59.923 --> 00:31:00.963
I launched a podcast.
00:31:01.023 --> 00:31:01.864
I posted a video.
00:31:01.943 --> 00:31:03.065
Cool, great, fantastic.
00:31:03.424 --> 00:31:05.465
But what does it have to do for
00:31:05.726 --> 00:31:06.906
me?
00:31:06.926 --> 00:31:08.188
This is the lesson that I'm trying to
00:31:08.228 --> 00:31:08.788
show people.
00:31:08.807 --> 00:31:11.170
I'm trying to grab their attention, faith,
00:31:11.410 --> 00:31:12.470
and then teach them the lesson.
00:31:12.490 --> 00:31:13.510
I got to get their attention first.
00:31:14.090 --> 00:31:15.751
I continue to say social media isn't your
00:31:15.791 --> 00:31:16.393
trophy shelf.
00:31:16.413 --> 00:31:17.313
It's a value exchange.
00:31:17.633 --> 00:31:19.334
People care about four main things.
00:31:19.933 --> 00:31:21.355
Does this save me time, make me money,
00:31:21.375 --> 00:31:22.036
make me better?
00:31:22.435 --> 00:31:23.757
Does this make me laugh for a second?
00:31:24.501 --> 00:31:25.182
If the answer's no,
00:31:25.201 --> 00:31:26.623
then your post is just a digital pat
00:31:26.643 --> 00:31:27.022
on the back.
00:31:27.343 --> 00:31:28.163
And congratulations,
00:31:28.182 --> 00:31:29.443
you're seconds away from dislocating your
00:31:29.463 --> 00:31:29.763
shoulder.
00:31:30.023 --> 00:31:31.544
Don't dislocate your shoulder patting your
00:31:31.585 --> 00:31:31.845
back.
00:31:32.625 --> 00:31:33.444
Want people to listen?
00:31:33.924 --> 00:31:35.306
Want your stuff to sound like it matters?
00:31:35.405 --> 00:31:37.145
Stop announcing your accomplishments and
00:31:37.165 --> 00:31:38.646
start explaining how what you do lifts
00:31:38.686 --> 00:31:39.247
other people up.
00:31:39.666 --> 00:31:40.708
When you help someone rise,
00:31:40.867 --> 00:31:42.327
suddenly everyone starts paying attention.
00:31:42.448 --> 00:31:44.068
And then you said counterargument.
00:31:44.128 --> 00:31:44.808
And I love counterarguments.
00:31:44.828 --> 00:31:45.890
Do you want to read your counterargument
00:31:46.089 --> 00:31:48.790
in your voice?
00:31:48.871 --> 00:31:49.851
Expand it for me.
00:31:50.211 --> 00:31:50.730
All right.
00:31:51.131 --> 00:31:52.311
So my counterargument...
00:31:53.193 --> 00:31:54.234
was to ask,
00:31:54.855 --> 00:31:56.596
what if this individual is a minority,
00:31:57.155 --> 00:31:59.797
marginalized, or atypical in their field?
00:32:00.438 --> 00:32:02.818
So these individuals inspire others who
00:32:02.898 --> 00:32:04.619
identify with them to see these
00:32:04.660 --> 00:32:06.381
accomplishments as achievable.
00:32:07.805 --> 00:32:09.247
I often work with students who are
00:32:09.287 --> 00:32:11.269
first-generation college graduates.
00:32:11.608 --> 00:32:13.631
Posting means that our community,
00:32:13.671 --> 00:32:15.752
so our PT community,
00:32:16.173 --> 00:32:17.634
can support and cheer for them in a
00:32:17.694 --> 00:32:21.137
way that their environment can't because
00:32:21.159 --> 00:32:23.540
they don't understand their experience.
00:32:23.701 --> 00:32:25.202
And for me,
00:32:25.282 --> 00:32:26.824
this could certainly fall under how does
00:32:26.844 --> 00:32:27.684
this make me better?
00:32:27.704 --> 00:32:27.785
Yeah.
00:32:28.826 --> 00:32:31.268
But I want to see their accomplishments.
00:32:31.567 --> 00:32:32.528
I want to promote them.
00:32:32.588 --> 00:32:33.609
I want to cheer for them,
00:32:34.009 --> 00:32:35.490
especially in these cases.
00:32:36.372 --> 00:32:38.073
But then the flip side of that argument
00:32:38.113 --> 00:32:39.534
is when we're trying to fight for
00:32:39.614 --> 00:32:40.214
equality.
00:32:41.294 --> 00:32:43.454
we can't decide who that goes to.
00:32:43.494 --> 00:32:44.596
It has to be for everyone.
00:32:45.317 --> 00:32:48.179
So I'm okay with posting accomplishments
00:32:48.459 --> 00:32:50.460
and maybe that's my unpopular opinion,
00:32:50.539 --> 00:32:50.960
but if I,
00:32:51.421 --> 00:32:53.301
I don't know if someone is a minority,
00:32:53.461 --> 00:32:54.442
if they're atypical,
00:32:54.583 --> 00:32:56.183
if they're marginalized in some way.
00:32:57.045 --> 00:32:57.805
Um, so it's,
00:32:57.964 --> 00:32:59.486
it is easier for me to say,
00:32:59.526 --> 00:33:01.366
you know what you post it,
00:33:01.667 --> 00:33:02.667
what you do is on you.
00:33:02.708 --> 00:33:04.409
What I do is on me and I'd
00:33:04.449 --> 00:33:05.009
rather clap.
00:33:05.458 --> 00:33:06.077
Yeah, yeah.
00:33:06.378 --> 00:33:07.078
I don't disagree.
00:33:07.179 --> 00:33:08.279
I think we probably are more...
00:33:09.401 --> 00:33:10.902
So thank you for challenging me because
00:33:11.122 --> 00:33:13.463
I'm not here to just post stuff and
00:33:13.483 --> 00:33:14.324
have everybody agree with me.
00:33:15.305 --> 00:33:16.125
I agree, a hundred percent.
00:33:19.367 --> 00:33:20.107
I'm struggling with like,
00:33:20.388 --> 00:33:21.249
that's what I meant,
00:33:21.709 --> 00:33:22.750
but it isn't what I said.
00:33:23.211 --> 00:33:24.330
But I don't disagree with you.
00:33:24.431 --> 00:33:25.071
So I'm just like, where...
00:33:25.432 --> 00:33:27.192
So maybe if I had added like to
00:33:27.252 --> 00:33:28.253
motivate others,
00:33:28.874 --> 00:33:31.195
because like I did something amazing.
00:33:31.415 --> 00:33:32.596
I'm here for it.
00:33:33.698 --> 00:33:34.999
I guess my problem is...
00:33:36.650 --> 00:33:37.490
Especially PTs.
00:33:39.373 --> 00:33:40.493
When they wrote a book,
00:33:41.755 --> 00:33:43.296
it takes them months or years.
00:33:44.037 --> 00:33:45.637
Faith, I'm excited when I read a book.
00:33:46.398 --> 00:33:47.539
I pat myself on the back when I
00:33:47.599 --> 00:33:48.540
finish reading a book.
00:33:48.840 --> 00:33:52.545
I cannot imagine or fathom writing a book.
00:33:52.865 --> 00:33:53.566
My problem,
00:33:53.586 --> 00:33:55.067
what I'm trying to get people to see
00:33:55.768 --> 00:33:56.608
is, I agree with you,
00:33:57.884 --> 00:33:59.605
You took nine months to write a book
00:34:00.045 --> 00:34:02.086
and fourteen seconds to post about it.
00:34:02.487 --> 00:34:03.846
You said, I wrote a book.
00:34:04.228 --> 00:34:05.587
What I want you to say is,
00:34:06.249 --> 00:34:07.788
look what I'm able to help you unlock.
00:34:09.030 --> 00:34:10.311
Because that will get people to go,
00:34:10.451 --> 00:34:12.172
hang on a second, what does that mean?
00:34:12.672 --> 00:34:14.452
So you're right.
00:34:15.052 --> 00:34:17.295
Your critique of what I said was right.
00:34:18.041 --> 00:34:18.922
What I'm trying to figure out is how
00:34:18.942 --> 00:34:19.541
do I say it better?
00:34:19.563 --> 00:34:22.465
Because what I meant is if someone did
00:34:22.525 --> 00:34:24.887
something from a minority,
00:34:25.307 --> 00:34:28.570
how do we make sure everybody recognizes,
00:34:28.710 --> 00:34:31.172
lifts that person up so that what you're
00:34:31.193 --> 00:34:32.675
saying is more people see it?
00:34:33.255 --> 00:34:34.617
I was doing it more of a reframe,
00:34:34.657 --> 00:34:35.097
which is like,
00:34:35.237 --> 00:34:36.438
I see what a lot of you are
00:34:36.458 --> 00:34:36.719
doing.
00:34:37.179 --> 00:34:37.820
I wrote a paper.
00:34:38.726 --> 00:34:40.148
Tell me what I'm going to get if
00:34:40.228 --> 00:34:41.829
I give you eleven minutes to read the
00:34:41.889 --> 00:34:43.692
paper, if I could even access the paper.
00:34:45.514 --> 00:34:46.615
Please give me free access to.
00:34:46.635 --> 00:34:51.322
I got to see so much greatness going
00:34:51.362 --> 00:34:51.922
around.
00:34:51.983 --> 00:34:52.784
Like I launched,
00:34:53.063 --> 00:34:54.826
I published another podcast episode.
00:34:55.778 --> 00:34:56.798
Cool story, Jimmy.
00:34:56.858 --> 00:34:57.679
That's about you.
00:34:57.880 --> 00:34:59.639
What I want to say is we're going
00:34:59.659 --> 00:35:02.621
to make sense of lizards and clinical
00:35:02.661 --> 00:35:06.061
reasoning with mildly flaccid penises,
00:35:06.422 --> 00:35:07.862
and you're going to walk out not feeling
00:35:07.922 --> 00:35:10.242
uncomfortable if this ever comes to you.
00:35:10.382 --> 00:35:12.123
You know what I mean?
00:35:12.362 --> 00:35:13.842
I recorded a podcast episode,
00:35:14.182 --> 00:35:15.744
as the kids would say, cool story, bro.
00:35:15.804 --> 00:35:16.423
Tell it again.
00:35:16.864 --> 00:35:17.923
So I don't disagree with you.
00:35:17.943 --> 00:35:20.324
I have two thoughts for you.
00:35:20.364 --> 00:35:20.605
Okay, go.
00:35:22.532 --> 00:35:22.632
Okay.
00:35:22.672 --> 00:35:22.831
One,
00:35:23.592 --> 00:35:25.552
you're coming at this perspective as a
00:35:25.632 --> 00:35:26.132
mentor.
00:35:26.853 --> 00:35:28.074
You do this for a living.
00:35:28.094 --> 00:35:28.353
Okay.
00:35:28.994 --> 00:35:31.755
So you in that post were mentoring us,
00:35:32.496 --> 00:35:35.237
mentoring potentially people who do not
00:35:35.297 --> 00:35:36.818
know how this currency works.
00:35:36.838 --> 00:35:36.958
Got it.
00:35:36.978 --> 00:35:39.298
So I didn't understand the audience
00:35:39.338 --> 00:35:39.659
enough.
00:35:40.260 --> 00:35:42.840
You were mentoring to say, Hey y'all,
00:35:43.847 --> 00:35:44.967
You're coming into your own.
00:35:45.007 --> 00:35:46.088
You're doing great things.
00:35:46.128 --> 00:35:46.909
Fantastic.
00:35:47.309 --> 00:35:49.630
This is how you leverage that because deep
00:35:49.670 --> 00:35:50.592
down inside,
00:35:51.472 --> 00:35:53.034
I don't know anybody that didn't become a
00:35:53.094 --> 00:35:55.235
PT to be really good at what they
00:35:55.295 --> 00:35:57.476
do in whatever avenue they do it to
00:35:57.577 --> 00:35:58.297
help people.
00:35:58.878 --> 00:36:00.639
Like it was too much work to not
00:36:00.659 --> 00:36:01.539
come in to help people.
00:36:02.079 --> 00:36:03.842
So I think you were coming to it
00:36:03.882 --> 00:36:05.583
from a mentoring perspective.
00:36:06.072 --> 00:36:08.172
what I've had to learn from a mentoring
00:36:08.213 --> 00:36:10.434
perspective is that if someone has never
00:36:10.494 --> 00:36:11.795
had this modeled for them,
00:36:12.315 --> 00:36:14.416
so say they have never been in an
00:36:14.476 --> 00:36:16.717
environment where they've had a platform,
00:36:17.277 --> 00:36:19.217
this is the first time they've been given
00:36:19.398 --> 00:36:20.458
one and they get up there with a
00:36:20.518 --> 00:36:23.280
microphone and they're just sweating and
00:36:23.340 --> 00:36:25.380
like, they don't know what to do.
00:36:25.460 --> 00:36:25.760
And like,
00:36:25.780 --> 00:36:27.440
you're up there trying to help them and
00:36:27.561 --> 00:36:29.081
ask them questions like you're doing now
00:36:29.101 --> 00:36:29.521
with me.
00:36:30.463 --> 00:36:31.963
I've learned that when they post those
00:36:31.983 --> 00:36:34.503
things and it's really comes across as
00:36:34.543 --> 00:36:35.184
bragging,
00:36:36.445 --> 00:36:38.905
I can either walk away from it or
00:36:38.985 --> 00:36:39.646
I can say, no,
00:36:39.666 --> 00:36:41.766
this is another mentoring opportunity for
00:36:41.806 --> 00:36:44.768
me where I can get in the comments
00:36:44.907 --> 00:36:45.648
and say, wow,
00:36:45.927 --> 00:36:47.349
I can tell why you're so proud of
00:36:47.389 --> 00:36:48.389
this accomplishment.
00:36:48.989 --> 00:36:50.989
What was the biggest barrier you hit and
00:36:51.050 --> 00:36:52.150
how did you solve that problem?
00:36:52.190 --> 00:36:54.090
Help me understand how you did.
00:36:54.130 --> 00:36:54.911
Yeah.
00:36:54.952 --> 00:36:56.052
What is the biggest lesson?
00:36:56.592 --> 00:36:57.612
But I was trying to be funny and
00:36:57.632 --> 00:36:58.213
sarcastic.
00:37:01.929 --> 00:37:03.851
So now what I'm going to wait,
00:37:03.871 --> 00:37:04.771
what you said, you had two things.
00:37:04.791 --> 00:37:05.831
Was that two things or one thing?
00:37:05.851 --> 00:37:06.771
Those were the two things.
00:37:06.811 --> 00:37:07.193
So you,
00:37:07.492 --> 00:37:08.713
that was the perspective was the
00:37:08.753 --> 00:37:09.273
mentoring.
00:37:09.393 --> 00:37:11.574
And then as we try to elevate our
00:37:11.614 --> 00:37:12.215
mentoring,
00:37:12.934 --> 00:37:14.376
we can either walk away and say,
00:37:14.416 --> 00:37:15.876
I'm not mentoring this person.
00:37:16.077 --> 00:37:17.097
They're not a nice person.
00:37:17.157 --> 00:37:18.177
Or I could say, you know what?
00:37:18.217 --> 00:37:19.378
I'm going to assume.
00:37:20.179 --> 00:37:21.418
That they just don't have the knowledge of
00:37:21.478 --> 00:37:21.818
a skill.
00:37:22.280 --> 00:37:23.780
Well, I say that all the time.
00:37:23.880 --> 00:37:24.661
I used to say.
00:37:25.731 --> 00:37:27.152
When I got into this profession,
00:37:27.432 --> 00:37:28.675
I looked around and PTs were bad at
00:37:28.695 --> 00:37:29.235
communicating.
00:37:29.677 --> 00:37:31.298
And then I was like, I amended that.
00:37:31.318 --> 00:37:32.860
I was like, oh no, you know what?
00:37:32.880 --> 00:37:33.242
That's not it.
00:37:35.242 --> 00:37:35.563
Um,
00:37:35.643 --> 00:37:36.903
I think you're trained to communicate
00:37:36.963 --> 00:37:39.005
certain ways and you do those things and
00:37:39.025 --> 00:37:39.125
you,
00:37:39.244 --> 00:37:40.885
and surprisingly the things you're trained
00:37:40.925 --> 00:37:42.005
in and you do a lot, you're good.
00:37:42.025 --> 00:37:42.945
You're better at, right?
00:37:43.706 --> 00:37:44.907
And then when you look at mass
00:37:44.947 --> 00:37:46.268
communication, faith,
00:37:46.307 --> 00:37:47.887
it's almost as if it's an entire degree
00:37:47.927 --> 00:37:48.407
in college.
00:37:48.507 --> 00:37:49.728
And I have one of those mass
00:37:49.748 --> 00:37:53.030
communication, but not the same.
00:37:53.309 --> 00:37:54.030
It's not.
00:37:54.090 --> 00:37:55.550
And then I come to the defense again
00:37:55.590 --> 00:37:55.871
and say,
00:37:55.931 --> 00:37:57.532
PTs aren't bad or healthcare providers
00:37:57.572 --> 00:37:58.632
aren't bad at communicating.
00:37:58.652 --> 00:38:00.432
I'm using air quotes on a podcast.
00:38:01.273 --> 00:38:03.114
You lack the T's and P's.
00:38:03.134 --> 00:38:04.054
Did I ever talk to you about the
00:38:04.094 --> 00:38:04.574
T's and P's?
00:38:05.842 --> 00:38:06.902
I think you talked about it on your
00:38:06.922 --> 00:38:08.204
last episode.
00:38:08.583 --> 00:38:11.925
Tools, training, time, people,
00:38:12.445 --> 00:38:15.748
process to then generate the product,
00:38:16.268 --> 00:38:17.128
which is the thing.
00:38:17.588 --> 00:38:18.389
That's work.
00:38:19.490 --> 00:38:20.050
That's work.
00:38:20.090 --> 00:38:20.590
Yes, it is.
00:38:21.072 --> 00:38:23.632
And I, I recognize that like, Hey man,
00:38:23.873 --> 00:38:25.414
I'm sharing this thing and I'm doing it
00:38:25.474 --> 00:38:27.635
while I'm on the bus or just between
00:38:27.675 --> 00:38:28.155
whatever's.
00:38:29.197 --> 00:38:29.476
And yeah,
00:38:31.067 --> 00:38:32.728
I what I hope to do is not
00:38:32.748 --> 00:38:33.528
give a lecture.
00:38:33.588 --> 00:38:34.690
I want to give a bunch of little
00:38:34.730 --> 00:38:35.110
digest.
00:38:35.170 --> 00:38:36.090
I'm just going to be the guy who's
00:38:36.110 --> 00:38:36.271
like,
00:38:36.472 --> 00:38:38.072
let's make you one tenth of one percent
00:38:38.092 --> 00:38:38.653
better today.
00:38:39.434 --> 00:38:40.835
But I see where my sarcasm might have
00:38:40.914 --> 00:38:41.695
missed it a little bit.
00:38:41.735 --> 00:38:42.836
I was close.
00:38:43.056 --> 00:38:43.737
Here's the best part.
00:38:44.018 --> 00:38:45.199
Got a degree in communications in two
00:38:45.219 --> 00:38:45.699
thousand one.
00:38:45.920 --> 00:38:47.340
Been doing it a lot.
00:38:48.581 --> 00:38:50.603
Still a process to get better at it.
00:38:50.643 --> 00:38:51.905
You could still miss the mark.
00:38:52.525 --> 00:38:55.148
You always have to be evaluating that
00:38:55.548 --> 00:38:56.329
because, because you,
00:38:56.530 --> 00:38:58.170
even if you know the audience, well,
00:38:58.811 --> 00:39:00.632
the audience is so vast and so wide,
00:39:00.733 --> 00:39:01.994
like you're, it's not going to land.
00:39:02.014 --> 00:39:02.894
It's a bell curve again.
00:39:03.215 --> 00:39:04.797
It's going to land with a lot,
00:39:04.836 --> 00:39:05.818
but then also there's going to be, well,
00:39:05.858 --> 00:39:06.978
what F and what actually,
00:39:06.998 --> 00:39:08.199
and then faith comes in the comments.
00:39:08.219 --> 00:39:09.420
Like what I'm like, Oh, you know what?
00:39:09.501 --> 00:39:09.701
Yeah.
00:39:09.820 --> 00:39:10.101
Okay.
00:39:10.161 --> 00:39:10.722
No, she has a point.
00:39:11.163 --> 00:39:11.983
So here's what I'm going to do.
00:39:12.923 --> 00:39:14.744
I'm going to take this lesson.
00:39:14.844 --> 00:39:16.664
I'm going to go back to that post
00:39:16.864 --> 00:39:20.186
and I'm going to remix it as the
00:39:20.206 --> 00:39:21.585
kids would say and see if I can
00:39:21.606 --> 00:39:23.365
make it better because that's all we do.
00:39:24.306 --> 00:39:25.606
Were you great with your first?
00:39:25.806 --> 00:39:28.807
Do you remember your first patient?
00:39:28.907 --> 00:39:30.648
No, I really don't.
00:39:30.887 --> 00:39:31.467
I don't remember mine,
00:39:31.487 --> 00:39:32.628
but I remember just like being like,
00:39:32.728 --> 00:39:34.489
I would probably apologize to my first one
00:39:34.528 --> 00:39:34.809
hundred.
00:39:35.737 --> 00:39:35.916
Right.
00:39:35.936 --> 00:39:37.177
Wouldn't we all?
00:39:37.237 --> 00:39:38.177
No, I'll tell you this.
00:39:38.277 --> 00:39:39.518
I can tell you one of my first
00:39:39.617 --> 00:39:39.757
ones.
00:39:39.777 --> 00:39:41.759
And it's probably one of the reasons why
00:39:41.898 --> 00:39:43.699
I don't remember like the initial
00:39:43.739 --> 00:39:44.340
patients.
00:39:45.619 --> 00:39:47.621
He was a stroke patient and he came
00:39:47.701 --> 00:39:49.920
in and man,
00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:51.802
he was having a hard time like through
00:39:51.842 --> 00:39:52.581
his paperwork.
00:39:53.161 --> 00:39:55.143
When he left, I was like,
00:39:55.182 --> 00:39:56.242
he's not coming back.
00:39:57.364 --> 00:39:57.643
You know,
00:39:57.684 --> 00:39:59.623
we're almost nine years later and we still
00:39:59.664 --> 00:40:00.764
have lunch every month.
00:40:01.204 --> 00:40:01.864
Really?
00:40:03.072 --> 00:40:04.574
So hold on a second.
00:40:04.614 --> 00:40:05.534
You had to have asked, like,
00:40:05.594 --> 00:40:06.856
what was it to go from throwing your
00:40:06.896 --> 00:40:09.057
papers to nine years?
00:40:09.659 --> 00:40:09.759
Like,
00:40:09.778 --> 00:40:11.081
did you just give him enough compassion?
00:40:11.121 --> 00:40:11.721
Like, what was it?
00:40:13.163 --> 00:40:14.403
I didn't get upset at him.
00:40:14.724 --> 00:40:15.965
He said he was going to come back
00:40:16.085 --> 00:40:16.246
in.
00:40:16.385 --> 00:40:17.827
He was someone who kept his word.
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And I just kept trying.
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I kept trying to work with him.
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We ended up working together for two
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years.
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He had a stroke on his dominant side.
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I literally helped him handwrite and fill
00:40:29.697 --> 00:40:31.257
out his disability paperwork.
00:40:33.139 --> 00:40:34.860
Again, I worked with reptiles.
00:40:35.340 --> 00:40:37.442
I was used to things wanting to bite
00:40:37.481 --> 00:40:39.182
me when I was trying to help it.
00:40:39.722 --> 00:40:43.365
So it didn't upset me that he was
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upset at me.
00:40:46.447 --> 00:40:48.528
I was like, okay, he needs help.
00:40:48.688 --> 00:40:49.570
He's scared.
00:40:50.369 --> 00:40:51.831
How do I calm him down?
00:40:51.911 --> 00:40:53.431
What does this patient need from me?
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And he needed help with disability
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paperwork.
00:40:56.233 --> 00:40:58.054
That's not in the playbook,
00:40:58.094 --> 00:40:59.916
but you recognized it was necessary.
00:41:00.777 --> 00:41:03.398
Because I walked in the room and said,
00:41:03.579 --> 00:41:04.559
this organism,
00:41:04.599 --> 00:41:06.780
this living thing needs this.
00:41:06.840 --> 00:41:08.302
This is not personal.
00:41:08.422 --> 00:41:10.063
It is a response to something in the
00:41:10.483 --> 00:41:10.963
environment.
00:41:11.824 --> 00:41:13.565
And so we worked together on and off
00:41:13.585 --> 00:41:15.304
for two years and he is still one
00:41:15.344 --> 00:41:16.865
of my dearest and closest friends.
00:41:17.365 --> 00:41:19.306
So I love to tell that story to
00:41:19.346 --> 00:41:22.246
new grads because they think that when you
00:41:22.286 --> 00:41:23.387
come out of school,
00:41:23.487 --> 00:41:25.088
like you don't know anything and you've
00:41:25.128 --> 00:41:26.807
got to hide the fact that you're a
00:41:26.867 --> 00:41:28.289
new grad and you've got to wait till
00:41:28.329 --> 00:41:29.509
you get all the letters.
00:41:30.028 --> 00:41:30.730
And I'm like, no,
00:41:30.809 --> 00:41:33.550
my biggest cheerleaders to this day are
00:41:33.610 --> 00:41:35.690
patients that I treated in that first six
00:41:35.791 --> 00:41:36.090
months.
00:41:36.110 --> 00:41:37.612
There are four of them that I still
00:41:37.652 --> 00:41:38.431
stay in touch with.
00:41:39.536 --> 00:41:41.039
And like I said,
00:41:41.079 --> 00:41:43.342
they're my biggest cheerleaders and I have
00:41:43.402 --> 00:41:46.164
told them I had no idea what I
00:41:46.204 --> 00:41:46.846
was doing.
00:41:47.327 --> 00:41:48.909
And they said, we knew,
00:41:49.028 --> 00:41:50.269
but you figured it out.
00:41:51.126 --> 00:41:52.827
So figure it out.
00:41:53.668 --> 00:41:55.248
It is okay to not know what you're
00:41:55.268 --> 00:41:55.548
doing.
00:41:55.969 --> 00:41:56.668
Yeah.
00:41:56.728 --> 00:41:57.389
Ryan Clark,
00:41:57.429 --> 00:41:58.269
before we do your parting shot,
00:41:58.289 --> 00:41:59.050
because I know you've got a meeting.
00:41:59.070 --> 00:42:00.489
I don't want to be the reason for
00:42:00.510 --> 00:42:00.710
a meeting.
00:42:01.050 --> 00:42:03.650
Ryan Clark was a former NFL pro bowler.
00:42:04.032 --> 00:42:04.331
Awesome.
00:42:04.351 --> 00:42:05.711
Played for the Steelers and the Giants.
00:42:05.751 --> 00:42:08.793
I saw him at a healthcare medical
00:42:08.833 --> 00:42:10.114
conference in D.C.,
00:42:11.034 --> 00:42:12.295
he had this i forget what the condition
00:42:12.335 --> 00:42:13.596
was i think it might have been sickle
00:42:13.615 --> 00:42:15.036
cell anemia he had some condition where it
00:42:15.056 --> 00:42:17.297
was not every test he was being given
00:42:17.798 --> 00:42:19.420
you're fine man and he's like i am
00:42:19.519 --> 00:42:21.501
losing weight i can't get out of bed
00:42:21.701 --> 00:42:23.302
it's like i'm a defensive back in the
00:42:23.641 --> 00:42:28.304
nfl i can't get out of bed so
00:42:28.344 --> 00:42:29.846
this was the team dot also you're an
00:42:29.905 --> 00:42:32.108
nfl defensive back you have the best
00:42:32.148 --> 00:42:34.329
doctors in the world and this one doctor
00:42:34.509 --> 00:42:35.170
might have been great
00:42:36.101 --> 00:42:37.202
But he was like, no, you're good.
00:42:37.342 --> 00:42:37.623
Go ahead.
00:42:37.663 --> 00:42:38.043
Get out of here.
00:42:38.063 --> 00:42:38.403
And he's like,
00:42:38.744 --> 00:42:39.965
I'm wasting away to nothing.
00:42:41.788 --> 00:42:43.510
I think he said go out of pocket
00:42:43.530 --> 00:42:45.030
and go to a new doctor.
00:42:45.090 --> 00:42:46.552
And the doctors did all the same tests
00:42:46.612 --> 00:42:48.695
and said everything came back negative.
00:42:49.215 --> 00:42:50.117
And then Ryan Clark was like,
00:42:51.177 --> 00:42:51.478
and he goes,
00:42:51.498 --> 00:42:52.500
I don't know what's going on,
00:42:52.519 --> 00:42:53.460
but we're just going to keep doing stuff
00:42:53.481 --> 00:42:54.101
till we figure it out.
00:42:54.181 --> 00:42:55.443
And Ryan Clark goes, that's all I wanted.
00:42:55.963 --> 00:42:56.543
That's all they want.
00:42:56.563 --> 00:42:59.606
Just tell me that you believe me.
00:42:59.626 --> 00:43:00.065
Look at me.
00:43:00.206 --> 00:43:01.706
I'm a defensive back.
00:43:01.806 --> 00:43:03.027
I'm dripping weight.
00:43:03.108 --> 00:43:04.088
I'm dropping weight like Creed.
00:43:04.168 --> 00:43:04.648
Not normal.
00:43:05.128 --> 00:43:05.628
Everything's normal.
00:43:05.648 --> 00:43:05.849
He goes,
00:43:05.869 --> 00:43:07.030
I don't know what's going to happen,
00:43:07.050 --> 00:43:08.010
but we're going to keep doing it to
00:43:08.050 --> 00:43:09.170
figure it out.
00:43:09.471 --> 00:43:11.411
Someone just wants a wingman.
00:43:13.012 --> 00:43:14.032
It's not an assembly line.
00:43:14.052 --> 00:43:16.273
There's going to be a lot of typical
00:43:16.293 --> 00:43:18.574
things in your career.
00:43:18.655 --> 00:43:23.338
Read and recognize when it's inaudible.
00:43:23.717 --> 00:43:24.418
See, I could do this all day.
00:43:24.438 --> 00:43:25.559
Yes, you can.
00:43:26.876 --> 00:43:28.117
Are you ready to do the parting shot?
00:43:28.157 --> 00:43:28.856
Your parting shot?
00:43:29.297 --> 00:43:35.059
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00:43:35.079 --> 00:43:36.460
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It's my company.
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This is me.
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Just drop me an email,
00:43:55.463 --> 00:43:56.864
jimmy at ptpinecast.com.
00:43:56.903 --> 00:43:58.784
I help APTA sections and academies do
00:43:58.804 --> 00:43:59.005
this.
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I help private practices do this.
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We just help you make your good work
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well known.
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So your parting shot, last chance,
00:44:06.369 --> 00:44:08.030
mic drop moment, soapbox statement.
00:44:08.791 --> 00:44:10.132
What do you want your parting shot to
00:44:10.152 --> 00:44:10.233
be?
00:44:11.027 --> 00:44:12.369
I want to loop back to something you
00:44:12.389 --> 00:44:13.831
said at the start of the podcast when
00:44:13.851 --> 00:44:15.634
you were talking about the tangled rope.
00:44:15.653 --> 00:44:17.275
Oh, yeah.
00:44:27.429 --> 00:44:28.911
is what moves patients forward.
00:44:29.251 --> 00:44:30.690
And so if we're looking at a tangled
00:44:30.751 --> 00:44:32.871
rope and it's a small, simple knot,
00:44:33.431 --> 00:44:35.472
many of us feel really comfortable using
00:44:35.512 --> 00:44:37.833
our basic skills to tease that apart and
00:44:37.914 --> 00:44:38.713
untangle the rope.
00:44:39.393 --> 00:44:41.074
And a complex patient is not any
00:44:41.114 --> 00:44:41.695
different.
00:44:41.914 --> 00:44:43.335
It is a larger knot.
00:44:44.416 --> 00:44:46.137
It is the same basic approaches.
00:44:46.197 --> 00:44:47.777
It's the same humanity.
00:44:48.358 --> 00:44:50.657
It's the same skills that we have been
00:44:50.717 --> 00:44:53.139
taught since we were in PT school.
00:44:53.820 --> 00:44:54.800
It takes longer.
00:44:56.141 --> 00:44:57.302
which is what makes us nervous.
00:44:57.342 --> 00:44:59.242
And sometimes we have to have people help
00:44:59.322 --> 00:45:01.844
us hold the rope up while we're teasing
00:45:01.884 --> 00:45:02.384
it apart.
00:45:02.445 --> 00:45:04.346
But we do it the same way.
00:45:05.146 --> 00:45:09.268
So try not to make really complex things
00:45:09.467 --> 00:45:10.168
complex.
00:45:10.208 --> 00:45:11.670
Find the simplicity in them.
00:45:12.650 --> 00:45:14.550
Use your training and what you've learned
00:45:14.590 --> 00:45:15.110
to do.
00:45:15.672 --> 00:45:19.594
It just may take longer.
00:45:19.634 --> 00:45:20.313
Mike drop.
00:45:20.795 --> 00:45:21.875
Boom.
00:45:21.934 --> 00:45:23.376
Faith Stokes, we'll see at CSM.
00:45:23.416 --> 00:45:24.416
I'm going to be there.
00:45:25.358 --> 00:45:26.519
I'm going to be doing something ridiculous
00:45:26.559 --> 00:45:26.960
probably,
00:45:27.019 --> 00:45:29.161
but maybe we'll recreate like where we met
00:45:29.222 --> 00:45:30.521
because it'll be the same venue.
00:45:30.541 --> 00:45:31.302
We'll try to figure it out.
00:45:31.322 --> 00:45:32.063
That's exciting.
00:45:32.503 --> 00:45:36.445
And we'll take a selfie for ten years
00:45:36.585 --> 00:45:37.266
under the influence.
00:45:37.286 --> 00:45:39.228
That's a decade under the influence is
00:45:39.248 --> 00:45:39.827
what the podcast is.
00:45:39.847 --> 00:45:41.088
That sounds fantastic.
00:45:41.108 --> 00:45:42.969
Let's do that.
00:45:42.989 --> 00:45:43.951
FaceDokes, appreciate the time.
00:45:43.971 --> 00:45:44.510
Thanks for doing this.
00:45:45.231 --> 00:45:45.771
Absolutely.
00:45:45.811 --> 00:45:46.391
Have a great day.