Feb. 5, 2024

Mastering Soft Skills for Better Patient Outcomes

Mastering Soft Skills for Better Patient Outcomes

We look at the often-overlooked realm of soft skills in physical therapy and how they are pivotal in enhancing patient care and outcomes. Joining us is guest expert Mike, a seasoned physical therapist with a passion for integrating psychological principles into clinical practice.


Summary:

This episode sheds light on the critical role of empathy, communication, and patient engagement in physical therapy. We explore how these soft skills complement clinical expertise to foster a therapeutic alliance, enhance patient adherence, and drive positive health outcomes.


Key Learning Points:

  • The distinction between empathy and sympathy in patient care and why empathy reigns supreme.
  • Strategies for effective patient communication that fosters trust and cooperation.
  • The concept of dual tasking as a constraint in learning and its application in therapy for improved patient engagement and outcomes.
  • The importance of listening and personal connection in developing a successful therapeutic relationship.


Actionable Advice:

  • Implement dual-task activities in sessions to challenge patients and promote more profound learning.
  • Practice active listening and empathy in every patient interaction to understand their perspective and tailor interventions accordingly.
  • Engage in continuous learning and reflection on your soft skills and seek feedback to improve.


Guest Expertise and Contact Information:

Mike brings years of experience in physical therapy and a keen interest in behavioral economics and psychology. His insights into the psychological aspects of patient care are invaluable for PTs looking to broaden their approach to treatment.


Contact Mike via

TWITTER: https://twitter.com/mikestuderPT

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/mikestuderdpt/

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@MikeStuderdpt

WEBSITE: https://mikestuder.com/

WEBVTT 0:00:00.529 --> 0:00:01.490 We don't have to because 0:00:01.550 --> 0:00:03.531 conversation trumps presentation. 0:00:06.091 --> 0:00:10.273 All right, Mike, finally, welcome. 0:00:10.374 --> 0:00:11.153 Welcome to the show. 0:00:11.234 --> 0:00:12.195 I appreciate your time. 0:00:12.695 --> 0:00:13.335 Happy to be here. 0:00:13.414 --> 0:00:14.455 I appreciate your time as well. 0:00:14.869 --> 0:00:17.050 What what people don't often know is like, 0:00:17.071 --> 0:00:17.271 you know, 0:00:17.291 --> 0:00:18.792 they hear the moment of us talking. 0:00:18.832 --> 0:00:19.751 What they don't know is, you know, 0:00:19.771 --> 0:00:20.771 the emails and the text 0:00:20.812 --> 0:00:21.832 messages back and forth. 0:00:21.873 --> 0:00:22.972 So and I was saying this to 0:00:22.992 --> 0:00:24.074 Mike before he hit record is like, 0:00:24.173 --> 0:00:25.353 I rarely need to say no to 0:00:25.393 --> 0:00:26.394 an interview because I set 0:00:26.434 --> 0:00:28.315 my calendar up and I give 0:00:28.355 --> 0:00:29.975 the guest a time to choose 0:00:29.995 --> 0:00:30.736 when they're free. 0:00:31.196 --> 0:00:31.315 Yeah. 0:00:31.417 --> 0:00:32.396 And then life happens. 0:00:32.716 --> 0:00:35.018 So I'd say like five out of 0:00:35.058 --> 0:00:36.619 a hundred times I got to 0:00:36.679 --> 0:00:38.021 change or cancel. 0:00:38.521 --> 0:00:39.381 Unless when I do, 0:00:39.421 --> 0:00:41.664 then it's like one person five times. 0:00:41.743 --> 0:00:42.585 And Mike was that guy. 0:00:42.604 --> 0:00:44.345 So it's been a while, 0:00:44.387 --> 0:00:46.268 but I'm excited to talk. 0:00:46.787 --> 0:00:47.149 We're here. 0:00:47.228 --> 0:00:48.750 It just makes the experience 0:00:48.770 --> 0:00:49.970 that much better that we've 0:00:50.011 --> 0:00:51.031 been anticipating it. 0:00:51.414 --> 0:00:52.094 Ramping it up. 0:00:53.255 --> 0:00:54.737 So we got a lot to get into. 0:00:54.817 --> 0:00:56.158 You've done a lot of different things. 0:00:56.298 --> 0:00:58.079 First of all, you've been a clinician, 0:00:58.579 --> 0:01:00.481 educator, clinical researcher. 0:01:00.500 --> 0:01:01.301 So you're sort of touching 0:01:01.401 --> 0:01:03.482 on clinical practice, education, research, 0:01:03.662 --> 0:01:06.265 which is a decent part of our profession. 0:01:06.584 --> 0:01:08.887 And you've been doing it for three decades, 0:01:09.326 --> 0:01:11.248 really focused on the 0:01:11.349 --> 0:01:13.790 neurologic and the older adult population, 0:01:13.829 --> 0:01:15.932 geriatric population in our profession. 0:01:15.951 --> 0:01:16.132 Yeah. 0:01:16.652 --> 0:01:16.772 Um, 0:01:17.233 --> 0:01:20.155 so that is a long time working in a 0:01:20.234 --> 0:01:23.397 specific area, but, but breath, like, 0:01:23.638 --> 0:01:23.817 you know, 0:01:23.878 --> 0:01:25.718 you can kind of go wide with education, 0:01:25.759 --> 0:01:27.079 clinical practice and 0:01:27.140 --> 0:01:27.960 research and you kind of 0:01:27.980 --> 0:01:28.740 can have a finger, 0:01:28.801 --> 0:01:29.682 you can have a hand in a 0:01:29.742 --> 0:01:30.442 lot of different things. 0:01:31.602 --> 0:01:33.063 I wanted to go narrow first. 0:01:33.405 --> 0:01:33.504 Okay. 0:01:33.525 --> 0:01:36.027 Let's talk about dual tasking, right? 0:01:36.046 --> 0:01:36.206 Right. 0:01:36.846 --> 0:01:38.567 dual tasking is I'm I don't 0:01:38.587 --> 0:01:39.287 know about you mike but 0:01:39.347 --> 0:01:40.289 right now I got my phone my 0:01:40.328 --> 0:01:41.269 laptop my thing and I'm 0:01:41.308 --> 0:01:42.168 having a conversation but 0:01:42.188 --> 0:01:43.430 I'm watching my watch so 0:01:43.469 --> 0:01:44.650 I'm doing a lot of things 0:01:44.909 --> 0:01:46.590 yeah my guess is you could 0:01:46.631 --> 0:01:47.792 explain why I'm not 0:01:47.871 --> 0:01:48.831 actually doing those things 0:01:48.951 --> 0:01:51.793 well it's multi-doing so 0:01:51.832 --> 0:01:52.653 how can therapists 0:01:52.993 --> 0:01:54.373 effectively apply dual 0:01:54.414 --> 0:01:55.655 tasking to make therapy 0:01:56.295 --> 0:01:58.195 therapeutic and also maybe even fun 0:01:58.766 --> 0:01:59.486 Yeah, that's great. 0:01:59.865 --> 0:02:01.046 So first off, 0:02:01.346 --> 0:02:04.087 let's define dual tasking and 0:02:04.126 --> 0:02:04.947 let's understand that 0:02:05.227 --> 0:02:06.628 basically it is the 0:02:06.748 --> 0:02:08.807 simultaneous operation of 0:02:08.948 --> 0:02:10.048 two different things you're 0:02:10.087 --> 0:02:12.468 doing that could be done separately. 0:02:13.528 --> 0:02:14.649 And if you just start it and 0:02:14.688 --> 0:02:15.688 stop it right there, 0:02:16.568 --> 0:02:18.810 then that gives us a good framework. 0:02:18.930 --> 0:02:21.129 Those are measurable tasks 0:02:21.169 --> 0:02:22.651 that are clearly discrete 0:02:22.711 --> 0:02:24.811 that could be done separately, meaning 0:02:26.282 --> 0:02:28.926 If I'm carrying a backpack across a room, 0:02:29.709 --> 0:02:30.689 that's actually just a 0:02:30.750 --> 0:02:32.032 single task because the 0:02:32.073 --> 0:02:33.294 backpack doesn't get across 0:02:33.335 --> 0:02:35.038 there unless I'm walking, okay? 0:02:35.497 --> 0:02:36.300 That's a single task. 0:02:36.780 --> 0:02:38.223 But if while I'm walking, 0:02:38.242 --> 0:02:39.344 I take the backpack off, 0:02:40.259 --> 0:02:41.441 and I'm still walking and I 0:02:41.501 --> 0:02:42.661 unzip it and grab a water 0:02:42.700 --> 0:02:44.442 bottle out of it, now I'm at dual task. 0:02:44.542 --> 0:02:45.421 So if we just start with 0:02:45.461 --> 0:02:46.883 that as a framework, 0:02:46.983 --> 0:02:48.443 not everything that's being 0:02:48.483 --> 0:02:50.163 done walking while carrying 0:02:50.223 --> 0:02:53.004 something is a dual task because in fact, 0:02:53.085 --> 0:02:54.205 it's just in the background. 0:02:54.246 --> 0:02:56.167 You're not actually interacting with it. 0:02:56.866 --> 0:02:58.948 You mentioned you were multitasking. 0:02:59.328 --> 0:03:00.908 So multitasking is different 0:03:00.949 --> 0:03:01.889 than dual tasking because 0:03:01.929 --> 0:03:03.288 it's more than two things. 0:03:04.270 --> 0:03:06.311 And now let's get into your question. 0:03:07.218 --> 0:03:09.127 How can therapists utilize it? 0:03:09.288 --> 0:03:11.860 Well, the very succinct answer is this. 0:03:13.114 --> 0:03:16.534 Dual tasking is done throughout our lives, 0:03:16.634 --> 0:03:18.556 so we need to expose our patients to it. 0:03:18.876 --> 0:03:19.695 That's one thing. 0:03:20.195 --> 0:03:21.497 And the second thing is it 0:03:21.537 --> 0:03:22.637 can be an extremely 0:03:22.697 --> 0:03:24.937 efficient way in for us to 0:03:25.098 --> 0:03:26.217 learn something for the 0:03:26.258 --> 0:03:28.459 first time or relearn it 0:03:28.718 --> 0:03:30.579 over again because we take 0:03:30.718 --> 0:03:31.860 our conscious attention 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:34.281 away from it and learn the automaticity, 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:36.181 what we call the procedural memory, 0:03:36.621 --> 0:03:38.361 the movement in the background, the 0:03:39.362 --> 0:03:39.622 You know, 0:03:39.763 --> 0:03:41.366 I could do that with my eyes closed, 0:03:41.406 --> 0:03:42.168 the motor memory, 0:03:42.268 --> 0:03:43.349 all those terms that we 0:03:43.409 --> 0:03:44.872 used to use for it by 0:03:44.991 --> 0:03:46.474 subjecting you to a 0:03:46.514 --> 0:03:47.616 constraint where I've taken 0:03:47.657 --> 0:03:48.557 my attention away. 0:03:48.979 --> 0:03:50.521 You can help somebody learn it better. 0:03:52.110 --> 0:03:52.991 and this is different. 0:03:53.170 --> 0:03:54.412 I heard somebody in 0:03:54.451 --> 0:03:55.533 psychology use the term 0:03:55.593 --> 0:03:57.254 multi doing like we think 0:03:57.275 --> 0:03:59.016 we're asking a lot, right? 0:03:59.056 --> 0:04:01.278 I'm getting so much done, but I mean, 0:04:01.539 --> 0:04:01.800 you know, 0:04:02.139 --> 0:04:04.361 and I work a lot in creating things, 0:04:04.443 --> 0:04:05.984 sounds, pictures, videos, whatever. 0:04:06.985 --> 0:04:08.606 And while I'm rendering a video, 0:04:08.646 --> 0:04:09.568 I'm saving a video. 0:04:09.608 --> 0:04:09.807 Okay. 0:04:09.948 --> 0:04:10.949 I got like three minutes. 0:04:10.968 --> 0:04:12.251 Let me do something else. 0:04:12.610 --> 0:04:14.473 And I wind up spinning around. 0:04:14.712 --> 0:04:14.992 So I'm, 0:04:15.774 --> 0:04:16.956 You know, I've heard the phrase, 0:04:17.036 --> 0:04:18.418 I think it was an old hockey coach, 0:04:18.757 --> 0:04:19.218 and he said, 0:04:19.298 --> 0:04:20.841 it's like a monkey humping a football. 0:04:20.860 --> 0:04:22.101 There's a lot moving around, 0:04:22.142 --> 0:04:23.423 but not a whole lot happening. 0:04:24.384 --> 0:04:25.187 That's beautiful. 0:04:25.706 --> 0:04:27.348 And it's easy to talk about 0:04:27.389 --> 0:04:29.512 that because the reality, Jimmy, 0:04:29.651 --> 0:04:31.033 is now you're talking about 0:04:31.153 --> 0:04:32.636 task switching. 0:04:33.247 --> 0:04:34.769 Yeah, that's different. 0:04:34.809 --> 0:04:36.050 So that is what we talk 0:04:36.089 --> 0:04:40.392 about in the field of dual tasking. 0:04:40.793 --> 0:04:42.613 We are simultaneous. 0:04:43.475 --> 0:04:44.795 But in multitasking, 0:04:45.235 --> 0:04:46.576 we're keeping this plate up, 0:04:46.757 --> 0:04:47.838 forgetting about that plate, 0:04:47.898 --> 0:04:48.778 keeping that plate up, 0:04:48.918 --> 0:04:50.178 forgetting about that plate up, 0:04:50.439 --> 0:04:51.740 keeping that plate spinning. 0:04:52.321 --> 0:04:53.641 So it's task switching. 0:04:53.781 --> 0:04:53.901 Now, 0:04:53.961 --> 0:04:56.744 people can become very good at task 0:04:56.803 --> 0:04:57.244 switching, 0:04:57.663 --> 0:04:59.144 but it's not a good environment 0:04:59.245 --> 0:05:00.586 to learn something in. 0:05:01.026 --> 0:05:02.968 So dual tasking is a great environment. 0:05:03.668 --> 0:05:05.908 If it's not a brand new novel task for you, 0:05:05.968 --> 0:05:07.170 it's a great environment to 0:05:07.310 --> 0:05:08.550 learn something in. 0:05:08.870 --> 0:05:10.911 But multitasking can be done, 0:05:10.971 --> 0:05:12.632 but it's not a good learning environment. 0:05:13.293 --> 0:05:14.293 That's the big difference. 0:05:14.752 --> 0:05:14.932 All right. 0:05:14.952 --> 0:05:16.134 So how do you know when 0:05:16.153 --> 0:05:18.514 because you worked with, you know, 0:05:18.535 --> 0:05:19.795 we mentioned neural population. 0:05:20.315 --> 0:05:21.115 How do you know when it's 0:05:21.136 --> 0:05:23.416 good to go from one to two 0:05:23.557 --> 0:05:25.197 to one to more than one? 0:05:25.257 --> 0:05:26.879 How do you where's that tipping point? 0:05:27.252 --> 0:05:28.553 Yeah, that's beautiful. 0:05:28.634 --> 0:05:29.875 And that's where the science 0:05:29.956 --> 0:05:31.216 is really coming along 0:05:31.297 --> 0:05:33.218 nicely right now is you use measurements. 0:05:34.059 --> 0:05:36.000 So you use a timed up and go. 0:05:36.141 --> 0:05:37.362 It took you 14 seconds. 0:05:37.682 --> 0:05:39.464 You do a cognitive timed up and go, 0:05:39.545 --> 0:05:41.446 which is doing the timed up 0:05:41.485 --> 0:05:44.428 and go and subtracting by serial threes, 0:05:44.428 --> 0:05:45.629 101, 98, 95 seconds. 0:05:47.651 --> 0:05:51.774 And if you see an exorbitant 0:05:51.894 --> 0:05:53.394 difference between those two, 0:05:53.975 --> 0:05:55.156 then we know we've got 0:05:55.216 --> 0:05:56.396 somebody that needs this, 0:05:57.016 --> 0:05:58.916 but are they actually 0:05:59.057 --> 0:06:00.658 therapeutically benefiting 0:06:00.718 --> 0:06:02.119 because it is completely 0:06:02.178 --> 0:06:03.899 destroying their psyche? 0:06:04.019 --> 0:06:05.720 Oh, my gosh, I'm terrible at this. 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:07.100 I'll never get good at this. 0:06:07.540 --> 0:06:07.800 You know, 0:06:07.860 --> 0:06:09.642 so you look at it by dosage and 0:06:09.682 --> 0:06:11.944 you look at it truly objectively. 0:06:12.305 --> 0:06:13.406 Does this person need it? 0:06:14.166 --> 0:06:16.129 And are they making improvements? 0:06:16.509 --> 0:06:17.250 My intervention? 0:06:17.471 --> 0:06:17.571 Oh, 0:06:17.651 --> 0:06:19.752 now that differential between the 0:06:19.812 --> 0:06:21.274 single and dual is shrinking. 0:06:21.454 --> 0:06:22.055 They're improving. 0:06:22.274 --> 0:06:23.495 Now I know I'm on to something. 0:06:23.797 --> 0:06:25.617 And you can apply this, you know, you know, 0:06:25.658 --> 0:06:26.459 I was asking because your 0:06:26.478 --> 0:06:27.459 background is older adults 0:06:27.500 --> 0:06:28.480 and neurologic population. 0:06:28.521 --> 0:06:29.382 But, you know, 0:06:29.401 --> 0:06:30.903 I'm just thinking pretty much everywhere. 0:06:30.963 --> 0:06:32.524 Pediatrics, sports, where couldn't you? 0:06:33.137 --> 0:06:34.117 Yeah, absolutely. 0:06:34.158 --> 0:06:37.040 So I'm a self-described Jerry athlete. 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:39.502 I'm into my mid-50s and well into them. 0:06:40.221 --> 0:06:41.963 And I also apply those 0:06:42.444 --> 0:06:44.305 matters to myself when I'm 0:06:44.365 --> 0:06:45.346 playing pickleball, 0:06:45.526 --> 0:06:47.706 when I'm doing triathlon, et cetera. 0:06:48.088 --> 0:06:51.029 So it belongs well in that realm. 0:06:51.470 --> 0:06:53.370 Let me just make a couple of quick points. 0:06:53.752 --> 0:06:56.653 Steph Curry, who we most all of us know, 0:06:56.733 --> 0:06:57.875 but for the listening audience, 0:06:57.894 --> 0:06:58.254 I'll tell you, 0:06:58.894 --> 0:07:00.036 one of the most highly paid 0:07:00.096 --> 0:07:01.237 basketball players in the 0:07:01.297 --> 0:07:02.678 National Basketball Association, 0:07:02.838 --> 0:07:05.281 is not the fastest, not the tallest, 0:07:05.901 --> 0:07:07.622 not the best at almost anything, 0:07:07.682 --> 0:07:08.944 but he dual tasks before 0:07:09.004 --> 0:07:09.884 every game because he 0:07:09.925 --> 0:07:11.526 dribbles two basketballs 0:07:11.586 --> 0:07:12.947 and exchanges them between hands, 0:07:13.007 --> 0:07:14.228 between legs, behind the back. 0:07:14.629 --> 0:07:15.329 Why does he do that? 0:07:15.750 --> 0:07:17.271 He does that so that he can 0:07:17.370 --> 0:07:18.812 actually make his handling 0:07:18.851 --> 0:07:20.254 of one ball in the game 0:07:20.874 --> 0:07:22.615 completely automatic so that 0:07:22.656 --> 0:07:24.096 he can make you think he's 0:07:24.117 --> 0:07:25.737 dribbling in he backs up 0:07:26.017 --> 0:07:27.860 and drains a three ball and 0:07:27.899 --> 0:07:29.360 if I'm only six foot four 0:07:29.420 --> 0:07:30.641 in the nba or six foot 0:07:30.701 --> 0:07:32.384 three I need to somehow 0:07:32.444 --> 0:07:33.584 create an open shot dual 0:07:33.625 --> 0:07:35.466 tasking goes there dual 0:07:35.485 --> 0:07:36.846 tasking goes into simone 0:07:36.906 --> 0:07:38.809 biles losing the twisties 0:07:39.209 --> 0:07:40.470 and improving her ability 0:07:40.509 --> 0:07:42.591 to do gymnastics because it 0:07:42.632 --> 0:07:43.713 becomes automatic again 0:07:44.093 --> 0:07:45.134 The more I think about it, 0:07:45.494 --> 0:07:46.774 the less automatic it is, 0:07:46.855 --> 0:07:49.396 and I find myself 17 feet off the air, 0:07:49.797 --> 0:07:50.476 and I'm thinking about 0:07:50.716 --> 0:07:51.718 turning my right arm in. 0:07:52.017 --> 0:07:53.959 So it applies everywhere. 0:07:54.238 --> 0:07:55.660 The most widely studied 0:07:55.740 --> 0:07:58.041 element for fall risk is 0:07:58.382 --> 0:07:59.401 does someone have the 0:07:59.442 --> 0:08:00.622 capacity to dual task? 0:08:01.423 --> 0:08:02.283 Because as you mentioned, 0:08:02.324 --> 0:08:03.725 this is going to come up in 0:08:04.625 --> 0:08:05.586 almost everything. 0:08:05.665 --> 0:08:06.627 Very rarely are we just 0:08:06.666 --> 0:08:07.846 doing just move the 0:08:07.867 --> 0:08:08.867 backpack across the room. 0:08:08.887 --> 0:08:09.788 We're always sort of doing 0:08:09.809 --> 0:08:10.348 the second thing. 0:08:10.824 --> 0:08:11.464 It is our life. 0:08:11.564 --> 0:08:13.084 Whether we subject ourselves 0:08:13.185 --> 0:08:15.685 to texting while on the phone or not, 0:08:15.766 --> 0:08:17.425 there's going to be the dog, 0:08:17.526 --> 0:08:20.266 the grandchild, the jeopardy question, 0:08:21.567 --> 0:08:22.406 whatever that's going to 0:08:22.427 --> 0:08:24.208 dual task people in their lives. 0:08:24.608 --> 0:08:26.288 And if we don't subject our 0:08:26.327 --> 0:08:28.149 patients to this, 0:08:29.069 --> 0:08:31.088 let's just say forced use experience, 0:08:31.149 --> 0:08:33.190 I can circle back to that, then who is? 0:08:33.350 --> 0:08:34.870 Then they're going to be left with, 0:08:35.230 --> 0:08:36.289 I can walk beautifully at 0:08:36.330 --> 0:08:37.210 the rehab center. 0:08:37.730 --> 0:08:39.410 And why can't I walk here at the house? 0:08:40.345 --> 0:08:42.427 I need to go back to rehab, you know? 0:08:43.126 --> 0:08:44.067 So talk about forced use. 0:08:44.908 --> 0:08:45.408 Forced use. 0:08:45.729 --> 0:08:46.830 So basically you can think 0:08:46.870 --> 0:08:47.811 about this in terms of 0:08:47.951 --> 0:08:50.152 forced use or constraint induced. 0:08:50.472 --> 0:08:51.133 Think about this. 0:08:51.854 --> 0:08:53.054 If I'm a person with stroke 0:08:53.475 --> 0:08:54.875 and I have a person 0:08:54.895 --> 0:08:56.876 recovering from stroke and 0:08:56.937 --> 0:08:59.038 I have an intact left arm, 0:08:59.479 --> 0:09:00.899 but my right arm is impaired, 0:09:00.980 --> 0:09:01.441 what do we do? 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:03.162 A lot of times we use a 0:09:03.241 --> 0:09:04.643 sling and we put it around 0:09:04.682 --> 0:09:05.663 the less impaired arm. 0:09:06.124 --> 0:09:07.024 What I'm doing with dual 0:09:07.044 --> 0:09:08.225 tasking is I'm putting a 0:09:08.306 --> 0:09:09.726 sling around your attention and 0:09:10.436 --> 0:09:10.917 And I'm saying, 0:09:11.116 --> 0:09:12.177 you can't use your attention. 0:09:12.898 --> 0:09:13.519 You have to, 0:09:13.639 --> 0:09:15.280 your attention's busy over here. 0:09:15.701 --> 0:09:19.344 So your brain in the arenas that process, 0:09:19.725 --> 0:09:21.405 how do I do a task without 0:09:21.466 --> 0:09:22.167 thinking about it? 0:09:22.567 --> 0:09:24.028 Those centers have to operate, 0:09:24.068 --> 0:09:25.769 which means my basal ganglia, 0:09:25.971 --> 0:09:28.192 my cerebellum, my premotor cortex, 0:09:28.572 --> 0:09:29.953 my supplementary motor cortex, 0:09:30.434 --> 0:09:31.655 those four areas, 0:09:31.716 --> 0:09:32.336 those are called our 0:09:32.355 --> 0:09:33.336 procedural memory centers. 0:09:33.476 --> 0:09:34.759 They take over because I'm 0:09:34.859 --> 0:09:35.799 forced to take over. 0:09:36.735 --> 0:09:38.357 If your mind's busy elsewhere, 0:09:38.437 --> 0:09:40.360 you can't be thinking heel strike, 0:09:40.961 --> 0:09:42.562 single point cane, right leg, 0:09:42.743 --> 0:09:43.222 heel strike. 0:09:43.283 --> 0:09:44.344 Don't let your knee snap back. 0:09:44.644 --> 0:09:45.966 And if you get caught up in that, 0:09:46.105 --> 0:09:47.548 you can't actually relearn 0:09:47.587 --> 0:09:49.950 how to walk again and make it automatic. 0:09:51.111 --> 0:09:53.634 And being able to educate 0:09:53.693 --> 0:09:55.596 and communicate some of those things, 0:09:55.677 --> 0:09:56.216 I mean, gosh, 0:09:56.236 --> 0:09:57.097 I'm thinking back to some of 0:09:57.118 --> 0:09:58.639 my clinical affiliations as a student. 0:09:59.301 --> 0:10:00.942 You watch a really great clinician, 0:10:00.982 --> 0:10:03.326 they use five words, and a student, 0:10:03.485 --> 0:10:05.749 I'll just call myself, will use 25 words, 0:10:05.769 --> 0:10:06.610 and I should be better, 0:10:06.629 --> 0:10:07.912 because I have five times the words. 0:10:07.932 --> 0:10:09.693 It's actually, it's the opposite. 0:10:10.235 --> 0:10:11.816 Yes, yeah, that is true. 0:10:12.216 --> 0:10:13.298 The when we cue... 0:10:14.176 --> 0:10:16.216 The how we cue, the how much we cue, 0:10:16.256 --> 0:10:17.417 and the how frequently we cue. 0:10:17.456 --> 0:10:18.878 We all know that's well 0:10:18.957 --> 0:10:20.138 studied in motor learning. 0:10:20.739 --> 0:10:21.979 And what we want to elevate 0:10:22.078 --> 0:10:24.120 up to is not 0:10:24.740 --> 0:10:27.321 unintentionally distracting people, 0:10:27.900 --> 0:10:30.001 but intentionally distracting them. 0:10:30.503 --> 0:10:31.523 And there's a nice thing 0:10:31.562 --> 0:10:33.443 that you brought into this, Jimmy, is 0:10:34.443 --> 0:10:36.745 Letting the patient, the person know, 0:10:37.365 --> 0:10:38.785 I'm going to intentionally 0:10:38.846 --> 0:10:40.626 distract you on this trial. 0:10:41.327 --> 0:10:43.229 Try to see how well you can 0:10:43.308 --> 0:10:45.070 do in comparison to your 0:10:45.110 --> 0:10:46.169 performance when I wasn't 0:10:46.190 --> 0:10:46.950 distracting you. 0:10:47.431 --> 0:10:49.371 I expect it to be lower. 0:10:50.552 --> 0:10:51.673 And when you tell them, 0:10:51.972 --> 0:10:53.813 I expect this to be more difficult, 0:10:54.274 --> 0:10:57.456 then at least they know what you're doing, 0:10:57.816 --> 0:10:58.716 why you're doing it. 0:10:58.897 --> 0:11:00.037 I'm doing it so that you can 0:11:00.076 --> 0:11:01.518 be prepared to do this at home. 0:11:02.269 --> 0:11:03.010 And what happens? 0:11:03.291 --> 0:11:03.611 Okay, 0:11:03.731 --> 0:11:05.113 their performance went down a little bit. 0:11:05.212 --> 0:11:06.674 They're not dejected by it, 0:11:07.034 --> 0:11:07.956 but maybe their performance 0:11:07.996 --> 0:11:09.038 stayed equally as good as 0:11:09.077 --> 0:11:09.818 their single task. 0:11:09.979 --> 0:11:10.639 They think, great, 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:11.961 but maybe their performance 0:11:12.020 --> 0:11:13.543 went up and they think, wow, 0:11:13.602 --> 0:11:14.744 I fooled my therapist. 0:11:15.004 --> 0:11:15.664 Hey, grandson, 0:11:15.705 --> 0:11:17.086 guess what I did today in therapy? 0:11:17.495 --> 0:11:17.735 Right. 0:11:17.855 --> 0:11:19.395 I mean, that's that's so it's so true. 0:11:19.436 --> 0:11:19.655 Right. 0:11:19.777 --> 0:11:21.177 Which which is I mean, 0:11:21.216 --> 0:11:22.138 I guess we just learn this 0:11:22.158 --> 0:11:23.438 about ourselves and we can use it. 0:11:24.178 --> 0:11:25.340 You mentioned being a triathlete. 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:27.562 And I read a lot because I'm 0:11:27.581 --> 0:11:28.883 a I like triathlon because 0:11:28.923 --> 0:11:29.982 it allows me to be mediocre 0:11:30.003 --> 0:11:31.063 at three things in one day. 0:11:31.124 --> 0:11:32.485 And I like my efficient mediocrity. 0:11:33.426 --> 0:11:35.948 But it's how many times when 0:11:36.068 --> 0:11:37.471 your coach or your plan 0:11:37.551 --> 0:11:39.472 says this is an easy day, you go harder. 0:11:39.493 --> 0:11:41.336 And when it's a hard day, you go easier. 0:11:41.395 --> 0:11:41.895 It's like, wait, 0:11:41.936 --> 0:11:42.677 why don't you just do 0:11:42.697 --> 0:11:44.058 what's actually on the script? 0:11:44.099 --> 0:11:46.000 And that's just how some of 0:11:46.081 --> 0:11:48.144 us are wired for some reason. 0:11:48.543 --> 0:11:48.825 Yeah. 0:11:49.065 --> 0:11:49.764 Yeah, and that's right. 0:11:49.784 --> 0:11:50.985 The psychological 0:11:51.105 --> 0:11:53.567 expectations for what you, 0:11:53.647 --> 0:11:54.628 and this is the analogy 0:11:54.648 --> 0:11:56.249 that you're clearly calling in here, 0:11:56.769 --> 0:11:58.429 setting someone up for 0:11:58.490 --> 0:12:00.291 appropriate psychological expectations, 0:12:00.410 --> 0:12:02.412 if they exceed them, they feel great. 0:12:02.772 --> 0:12:06.014 If they're below or lowered 0:12:06.073 --> 0:12:08.174 psychological expectations, 0:12:08.235 --> 0:12:09.115 if they meet those, 0:12:09.134 --> 0:12:10.015 then they're not dejected. 0:12:10.336 --> 0:12:11.496 We don't want our patients 0:12:11.537 --> 0:12:13.798 to feel that therapy is 0:12:13.857 --> 0:12:15.818 just the reminder of what you can't do. 0:12:16.466 --> 0:12:17.606 And that's the problem with 0:12:17.626 --> 0:12:18.927 a lot of patient engagement. 0:12:19.246 --> 0:12:19.927 Right, right. 0:12:20.347 --> 0:12:21.967 All right, let's switch topics, 0:12:22.008 --> 0:12:22.788 but not really. 0:12:23.068 --> 0:12:24.750 So behavioral economics is 0:12:24.909 --> 0:12:25.690 super fascinating. 0:12:25.769 --> 0:12:28.010 I love reading Adam Grant 0:12:28.410 --> 0:12:30.052 and a lot of the writers. 0:12:30.932 --> 0:12:31.592 I don't think I would have 0:12:31.633 --> 0:12:32.472 picked it as a really 0:12:32.812 --> 0:12:33.953 interesting topic because 0:12:33.994 --> 0:12:34.994 the name doesn't sound it, 0:12:35.033 --> 0:12:36.715 but what they start talking about is. 0:12:36.794 --> 0:12:37.634 So it's really fascinating. 0:12:38.115 --> 0:12:38.875 So how can we use, 0:12:38.916 --> 0:12:40.836 there's concepts in there like nudge, 0:12:41.136 --> 0:12:43.758 gamification, confirmation bias. 0:12:44.418 --> 0:12:45.719 in physical therapy to sort 0:12:45.739 --> 0:12:46.658 of bring those in to 0:12:46.698 --> 0:12:48.279 enhance the patient engagement. 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:49.480 We're paying attention to 0:12:49.541 --> 0:12:50.741 people and we can use these 0:12:50.802 --> 0:12:52.182 concepts in different ways 0:12:52.523 --> 0:12:53.803 to actually get more out of them. 0:12:53.884 --> 0:12:54.624 Yeah, yeah. 0:12:54.844 --> 0:12:55.485 I'll tell you what, 0:12:55.784 --> 0:12:57.966 maybe an effective thing to do, 0:12:58.405 --> 0:12:59.466 we weren't planning this, 0:12:59.746 --> 0:13:00.628 but maybe an effective 0:13:00.648 --> 0:13:02.629 thing to do for your audience is, 0:13:03.159 --> 0:13:05.802 You throw a term out, any one of them, 0:13:06.182 --> 0:13:07.144 and then I'm on the hot 0:13:07.203 --> 0:13:08.245 seat to tell you how to 0:13:08.284 --> 0:13:09.025 apply it in rehab. 0:13:09.725 --> 0:13:11.368 This is completely untrained. 0:13:12.149 --> 0:13:13.230 Let's do an easy one or one 0:13:13.250 --> 0:13:14.010 that comes up a lot, 0:13:14.030 --> 0:13:15.511 but I think myself included, 0:13:15.532 --> 0:13:16.653 a lot of people might not 0:13:16.692 --> 0:13:17.394 know how to utilize it, 0:13:17.413 --> 0:13:18.455 which is gamification. 0:13:18.575 --> 0:13:20.456 Sounds cool, has the word game in it, 0:13:20.496 --> 0:13:21.518 but how do I use it? 0:13:21.953 --> 0:13:22.193 OK, 0:13:22.495 --> 0:13:23.816 so there's three big things in 0:13:23.836 --> 0:13:24.515 gamification. 0:13:24.556 --> 0:13:26.457 There's levels, points and rewards, 0:13:26.538 --> 0:13:27.778 but I'll make it super easy. 0:13:28.279 --> 0:13:30.100 So the easiest thing is to go for points. 0:13:30.461 --> 0:13:30.721 All right. 0:13:30.802 --> 0:13:32.383 So let's just say, for example, 0:13:32.442 --> 0:13:34.004 I sit somebody down on a 0:13:34.063 --> 0:13:36.606 recumbent elliptical or a 0:13:36.667 --> 0:13:37.967 stepper or whatever. 0:13:38.467 --> 0:13:39.589 And I say, you know, 0:13:39.769 --> 0:13:41.410 my goal is to have them do 0:13:41.451 --> 0:13:43.832 a high intensity intervals training. 0:13:44.133 --> 0:13:45.232 But if I sit there and say, 0:13:45.312 --> 0:13:46.053 you're going to need to do 0:13:46.094 --> 0:13:48.375 this for 30 seconds as hard as you can, 0:13:48.394 --> 0:13:49.075 and I want you to try to 0:13:49.095 --> 0:13:49.955 see if you can make the 0:13:49.975 --> 0:13:51.655 machine go up to 77 watts, 0:13:52.035 --> 0:13:55.817 they might feel some cortisol. 0:13:55.837 --> 0:13:57.018 They might feel some stress. 0:13:57.097 --> 0:13:58.918 They might feel some coercion. 0:13:59.219 --> 0:14:00.639 And they might feel like, gosh, this guy, 0:14:00.659 --> 0:14:01.440 I don't know how hard he 0:14:01.460 --> 0:14:01.899 wants me to work. 0:14:02.220 --> 0:14:03.780 What I'll use is gamification, though. 0:14:04.321 --> 0:14:04.822 So I'll say, 0:14:04.902 --> 0:14:05.881 I want you to just get 0:14:05.962 --> 0:14:07.124 comfortable with the device, 0:14:07.264 --> 0:14:10.326 use it a little bit and see how it goes. 0:14:10.667 --> 0:14:11.998 And then once they're 15, 0:14:11.998 --> 0:14:12.928 30 seconds into it, I'll say, 0:14:13.249 --> 0:14:14.970 just take 15 seconds to use 0:14:14.990 --> 0:14:16.270 it as hard as you think you can. 0:14:17.105 --> 0:14:18.544 And they record 34 watts. 0:14:19.365 --> 0:14:20.946 And then I say, okay, 0:14:20.985 --> 0:14:22.567 take it easy now for 30 seconds. 0:14:22.726 --> 0:14:23.647 And then when you hit the 0:14:24.106 --> 0:14:25.067 minute and a half mark, 0:14:26.048 --> 0:14:27.107 see how hard you can use it. 0:14:27.827 --> 0:14:28.989 Right there is gamification. 0:14:29.328 --> 0:14:30.609 They scored 34 watts. 0:14:30.769 --> 0:14:32.330 You and I both know they're 0:14:32.350 --> 0:14:33.190 going to try to look at 0:14:33.230 --> 0:14:34.929 that and see if they can beat 34 watts. 0:14:35.409 --> 0:14:36.270 Before you know it, 0:14:36.451 --> 0:14:37.711 they've taken themselves 0:14:37.850 --> 0:14:39.912 beyond the 77 watts that I 0:14:39.971 --> 0:14:41.652 told them I would have wanted to get to. 0:14:41.991 --> 0:14:43.273 And I never had to actually 0:14:43.312 --> 0:14:43.932 push that on them. 0:14:44.332 --> 0:14:45.514 I let them gamify because 0:14:45.553 --> 0:14:46.815 they look at points. 0:14:47.375 --> 0:14:47.634 Right. 0:14:47.774 --> 0:14:47.936 I mean, 0:14:47.975 --> 0:14:49.476 this is where like Peloton does a 0:14:49.517 --> 0:14:51.038 great does a great job is there. 0:14:51.298 --> 0:14:53.038 They're measuring different things. 0:14:53.119 --> 0:14:54.519 Do you ride Peloton at all, Mike? 0:14:54.980 --> 0:14:55.399 I don't. 0:14:55.460 --> 0:14:56.341 I'm very familiar. 0:14:56.461 --> 0:14:57.442 I ride my own bike. 0:14:57.481 --> 0:14:58.601 I'll leave it unnamed so I 0:14:58.621 --> 0:14:59.663 don't endorse anything. 0:15:00.364 --> 0:15:00.823 But yes, 0:15:00.884 --> 0:15:02.745 I ride an indoor bike and I take a 0:15:02.784 --> 0:15:04.666 look at, you know, my RPMs. 0:15:04.706 --> 0:15:05.886 I look at my power meter and 0:15:05.907 --> 0:15:07.168 I look at all that stuff. 0:15:07.227 --> 0:15:08.089 And, you know, 0:15:08.168 --> 0:15:10.070 and that's that's all gamification. 0:15:10.421 --> 0:15:11.741 They do a couple things, I think, 0:15:11.842 --> 0:15:12.442 well anyway. 0:15:12.462 --> 0:15:14.745 They do watts and they measure distance, 0:15:14.846 --> 0:15:17.769 obviously, perceived speed. 0:15:18.809 --> 0:15:20.051 And what they also do is 0:15:20.091 --> 0:15:21.033 they bring in people. 0:15:21.572 --> 0:15:23.956 So number one, the classes can be live. 0:15:24.035 --> 0:15:25.157 Social cohesion. 0:15:26.177 --> 0:15:27.178 You can see where you rank. 0:15:27.740 --> 0:15:30.022 And if I'm taking a class from last week, 0:15:30.763 --> 0:15:32.124 it's putting me in terms of 0:15:32.224 --> 0:15:34.504 Watts where other people 0:15:34.544 --> 0:15:36.926 were at that point in the 0:15:37.167 --> 0:15:39.207 ride in the race. 0:15:39.528 --> 0:15:41.188 What they also do is they have this thing. 0:15:41.229 --> 0:15:41.769 I thought it would have 0:15:41.788 --> 0:15:42.950 taken on a little more. 0:15:42.990 --> 0:15:44.149 It's called lane break. 0:15:44.711 --> 0:15:45.051 Okay. 0:15:45.311 --> 0:15:46.552 It's a little like Tron. 0:15:46.572 --> 0:15:48.592 It's like, it's like a six lane track, 0:15:48.932 --> 0:15:49.133 right? 0:15:49.153 --> 0:15:50.313 It's like a, it's like a track. 0:15:50.754 --> 0:15:52.754 And the way you switch lanes is your, 0:15:52.934 --> 0:15:54.355 is your resistance dial. 0:15:54.436 --> 0:15:55.376 So all the way to the left, 0:15:55.417 --> 0:15:57.477 you go to the far left lane, super easy. 0:15:57.498 --> 0:15:57.538 Um, 0:15:58.118 --> 0:15:59.118 And it'll tell you, 0:15:59.357 --> 0:16:00.619 you mentioned like in terms 0:16:00.658 --> 0:16:01.399 of the sprinting, 0:16:01.698 --> 0:16:03.239 there's three different kinds of things. 0:16:03.298 --> 0:16:04.039 There's gates. 0:16:04.399 --> 0:16:05.519 You've got to go through the gate. 0:16:05.539 --> 0:16:06.500 So I need you to be in lane 0:16:06.539 --> 0:16:07.600 three and hit this gate. 0:16:07.659 --> 0:16:08.860 If you miss it, you don't get the points. 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:11.802 There's sprints where it'll be like, 0:16:11.902 --> 0:16:13.422 I need you to go and do X 0:16:13.461 --> 0:16:14.782 number of watts before your 0:16:14.822 --> 0:16:16.982 bike passes through this thing. 0:16:17.403 --> 0:16:19.102 And then there's tempo where 0:16:19.123 --> 0:16:20.703 it actually says be between 0:16:20.703 --> 0:16:24.184 60 and 80 RPMs, not higher, not lower. 0:16:24.205 --> 0:16:24.284 Yeah. 0:16:25.345 --> 0:16:26.927 So it's not just as hard as you can. 0:16:27.047 --> 0:16:29.370 So I thought that lane break thing, 0:16:29.431 --> 0:16:29.870 the option, 0:16:29.890 --> 0:16:31.212 the feature is kind of buried. 0:16:31.312 --> 0:16:32.995 It's not on the homepage as well, 0:16:33.336 --> 0:16:34.216 but I tried that a few 0:16:34.277 --> 0:16:36.681 times and I was like, this is, this was, 0:16:36.721 --> 0:16:38.202 it was one of the better 0:16:38.582 --> 0:16:40.225 gamification things that I had seen. 0:16:40.245 --> 0:16:40.385 Yeah. 0:16:41.166 --> 0:16:41.606 And remember, 0:16:41.626 --> 0:16:43.347 what you're saying there is 0:16:43.408 --> 0:16:45.809 that people get, remember I told you, 0:16:45.870 --> 0:16:47.171 points, levels, and rewards. 0:16:47.311 --> 0:16:48.731 You get to be level, 0:16:48.812 --> 0:16:50.013 so you get to actually, 0:16:50.113 --> 0:16:51.234 you're qualified now to 0:16:51.313 --> 0:16:52.654 race with the elite racers. 0:16:53.155 --> 0:16:53.995 So that's a level. 0:16:54.397 --> 0:16:55.197 And if you think about it in 0:16:55.256 --> 0:16:57.219 rehabilitation, how do we apply it back? 0:16:57.698 --> 0:17:00.421 So we also like people to have streaks, 0:17:00.620 --> 0:17:02.903 and I'm sure they do that in Peloton, 0:17:02.962 --> 0:17:03.182 right? 0:17:03.543 --> 0:17:05.184 So sometimes I actually used 0:17:05.204 --> 0:17:07.306 to say to my patients, okay, 0:17:08.426 --> 0:17:09.387 let's see if we can get you 0:17:09.448 --> 0:17:10.409 on a fall-free streak. 0:17:11.269 --> 0:17:12.430 And every time you come in 0:17:12.450 --> 0:17:13.309 to start the session, 0:17:13.769 --> 0:17:14.691 hold up the number of 0:17:14.770 --> 0:17:16.070 fingers that represent the 0:17:16.090 --> 0:17:17.231 number of falls you had 0:17:17.672 --> 0:17:19.212 since our last session. 0:17:19.492 --> 0:17:21.294 And they were very prideful coming in. 0:17:21.473 --> 0:17:22.453 Zero, zero. 0:17:22.733 --> 0:17:24.414 And they, oh, and I say to them, hey, 0:17:24.634 --> 0:17:26.175 that's nine days in a row 0:17:26.236 --> 0:17:27.496 you've gone without a fall. 0:17:27.776 --> 0:17:29.376 So that's another way of gamifying. 0:17:29.436 --> 0:17:30.696 So it's just looking at 0:17:30.777 --> 0:17:31.678 streaks and that can be 0:17:31.718 --> 0:17:34.078 done in incontinence, you know, 0:17:34.118 --> 0:17:34.979 in so many different ways. 0:17:34.999 --> 0:17:36.680 So then anyway, gamification, 0:17:36.740 --> 0:17:37.980 we've somewhat tackled there. 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:39.060 We can move to another one if you want. 0:17:39.201 --> 0:17:39.981 How about nudge? 0:17:40.061 --> 0:17:40.721 What's nudge? 0:17:41.163 --> 0:17:43.163 So nudge is actually making 0:17:43.365 --> 0:17:44.905 a choice more 0:17:45.326 --> 0:17:47.407 geographically present or 0:17:47.587 --> 0:17:48.669 temporally present, 0:17:49.009 --> 0:17:50.369 making it more likely for 0:17:50.411 --> 0:17:51.290 you to choose it because 0:17:51.330 --> 0:17:52.172 it's right here right now. 0:17:52.632 --> 0:17:53.913 So I walk out of my 0:17:54.013 --> 0:17:55.555 workplace and there's a 0:17:55.615 --> 0:17:57.036 bunch of people exercising 0:17:57.115 --> 0:17:58.017 out in the courtyard. 0:17:58.517 --> 0:17:59.577 I don't have to drive. 0:17:59.617 --> 0:18:01.240 I don't have to swipe a membership badge. 0:18:01.940 --> 0:18:03.080 I can just walk right out 0:18:03.121 --> 0:18:03.902 there and it's available. 0:18:04.241 --> 0:18:06.284 It's a track that's close to my house. 0:18:06.844 --> 0:18:09.226 Nudge is easy, readily convenient. 0:18:09.567 --> 0:18:10.827 And an easy way that people 0:18:10.887 --> 0:18:11.868 think about this in their 0:18:11.949 --> 0:18:13.809 own lives is the doctor says, 0:18:13.849 --> 0:18:14.750 you need to start eating 0:18:14.851 --> 0:18:16.031 more healthy foods. 0:18:16.511 --> 0:18:17.532 And you go to the grocery 0:18:17.553 --> 0:18:18.773 aisle and you look at nuts 0:18:18.854 --> 0:18:20.115 and seeds and et cetera, 0:18:20.455 --> 0:18:22.176 and you completely have all 0:18:22.237 --> 0:18:24.058 this paradox of choice, choice, burden. 0:18:24.298 --> 0:18:25.099 You don't know what to choose. 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:27.361 But it's nudged if it's 0:18:27.621 --> 0:18:30.142 already in your pantry and 0:18:30.201 --> 0:18:31.862 you see it nicely labeled nuts, 0:18:32.001 --> 0:18:33.883 seeds and chips and et cetera. 0:18:34.262 --> 0:18:35.042 But it's even better. 0:18:35.103 --> 0:18:36.624 What happens if you go to a 0:18:36.683 --> 0:18:38.384 party or somebody else's house, 0:18:38.605 --> 0:18:39.785 no matter what the occasion is, 0:18:40.065 --> 0:18:41.846 and there's already foods 0:18:41.885 --> 0:18:42.685 out there on the table, 0:18:43.006 --> 0:18:44.967 you're nudged into 0:18:45.047 --> 0:18:46.387 consuming something healthy 0:18:46.428 --> 0:18:47.347 because it's present. 0:18:47.708 --> 0:18:48.868 It's immediately available. 0:18:48.969 --> 0:18:49.429 It's there. 0:18:49.828 --> 0:18:52.170 So nudge is something like this. 0:18:52.950 --> 0:18:53.810 I'm going to give you a home 0:18:53.891 --> 0:18:55.092 exercise program that's 0:18:55.152 --> 0:18:57.153 built within things that 0:18:57.193 --> 0:18:58.234 you do in your life. 0:18:59.375 --> 0:19:00.457 You tell me what you do. 0:19:00.576 --> 0:19:01.357 And I say, oh, 0:19:02.018 --> 0:19:03.038 when you stand up from the 0:19:03.118 --> 0:19:05.622 couch on a commercial break, 0:19:05.721 --> 0:19:07.462 do five repetitions of sit to stand. 0:19:07.542 --> 0:19:08.064 It's a nudge. 0:19:08.203 --> 0:19:08.884 It's right there. 0:19:09.644 --> 0:19:10.326 It's easy for you. 0:19:11.229 --> 0:19:12.650 Yeah, that's a good use. 0:19:12.710 --> 0:19:13.490 And I think it's good that 0:19:13.509 --> 0:19:14.150 we're talking about this 0:19:14.170 --> 0:19:15.171 just before Christmas when 0:19:15.230 --> 0:19:16.211 I will be at parties where 0:19:16.250 --> 0:19:17.211 there will be things that 0:19:17.612 --> 0:19:19.152 they wouldn't be there in my house, 0:19:19.612 --> 0:19:19.932 right? 0:19:20.212 --> 0:19:22.032 Because they are right there. 0:19:22.094 --> 0:19:23.653 They're geographically right there. 0:19:23.713 --> 0:19:24.855 And it's so easy. 0:19:24.875 --> 0:19:25.474 We get caught in that. 0:19:25.494 --> 0:19:25.714 All right. 0:19:25.994 --> 0:19:26.775 The last one of our 0:19:26.815 --> 0:19:28.215 impromptu sort of batting 0:19:28.256 --> 0:19:30.416 practice is confirmation bias. 0:19:30.797 --> 0:19:31.038 Okay, 0:19:31.357 --> 0:19:33.681 so confirmation bias is something 0:19:33.760 --> 0:19:35.022 that can be used to our 0:19:35.323 --> 0:19:36.444 advantage or our 0:19:36.605 --> 0:19:38.667 disadvantage in rehabilitation. 0:19:39.127 --> 0:19:40.549 It has several things that 0:19:40.589 --> 0:19:42.011 go into confirmation bias. 0:19:42.573 --> 0:19:43.433 One of the things that we 0:19:43.473 --> 0:19:44.394 like to look at that's a 0:19:44.516 --> 0:19:46.097 sub-subject is the halo 0:19:46.137 --> 0:19:47.419 effect and the horns effect. 0:19:47.440 --> 0:19:47.940 Okay. 0:19:49.416 --> 0:19:50.499 Confirmation bias. 0:19:50.878 --> 0:19:50.979 Oh, 0:19:51.058 --> 0:19:52.922 they must be the best physical therapy 0:19:52.961 --> 0:19:53.782 clinic in town. 0:19:53.863 --> 0:19:55.506 They've got seven locations. 0:19:55.726 --> 0:19:56.686 I want to go there. 0:19:57.248 --> 0:19:58.390 Confirmation bias. 0:19:58.769 --> 0:19:59.612 I think I'm going to have a 0:19:59.652 --> 0:20:02.055 great experience because they're popular. 0:20:02.095 --> 0:20:03.416 Their parking lot's full. 0:20:03.656 --> 0:20:05.159 That's again, confirmation bias. 0:20:05.599 --> 0:20:06.760 Their people are all dressed 0:20:06.800 --> 0:20:07.761 in the same uniform. 0:20:07.801 --> 0:20:09.923 The reception staff was nice to me. 0:20:10.443 --> 0:20:11.865 All of those things resonate 0:20:11.904 --> 0:20:13.507 within the halo effect of 0:20:13.547 --> 0:20:14.507 the confirmation bias. 0:20:15.048 --> 0:20:17.450 Because I think these attributes, 0:20:17.910 --> 0:20:19.551 then I automatically 0:20:19.692 --> 0:20:21.532 associate attributes that 0:20:21.573 --> 0:20:22.794 haven't been earned 0:20:23.694 --> 0:20:24.536 to that entity. 0:20:24.996 --> 0:20:25.955 My physical therapist 0:20:26.757 --> 0:20:28.097 automatically seems like 0:20:28.157 --> 0:20:29.038 they're giving me better 0:20:29.057 --> 0:20:32.019 information if they are A, well-dressed. 0:20:32.299 --> 0:20:35.561 The receptionist talked nicely to me. 0:20:35.922 --> 0:20:37.462 I found the place easily. 0:20:37.482 --> 0:20:39.805 The therapist brought me back on time. 0:20:40.404 --> 0:20:40.484 Oh, 0:20:40.704 --> 0:20:42.026 that's what tells me they're a great 0:20:42.066 --> 0:20:42.605 therapist. 0:20:43.267 --> 0:20:45.367 Then, oh, that was my best experience yet. 0:20:45.728 --> 0:20:47.108 I feel so much better after that. 0:20:48.787 --> 0:20:50.167 It's amazing how these things work. 0:20:50.189 --> 0:20:51.490 Have you ever heard how Red Bull, 0:20:51.509 --> 0:20:52.652 when they were trying to launch, 0:20:52.711 --> 0:20:54.354 how they use confirmation bias? 0:20:54.835 --> 0:20:56.156 Yes, yes, yes. 0:20:56.237 --> 0:20:57.919 So that's an interesting one, too. 0:20:58.400 --> 0:20:59.520 And see, that's the thing. 0:20:59.560 --> 0:21:00.762 There's so much placebo 0:21:00.803 --> 0:21:02.085 effect that goes into that, though, 0:21:02.105 --> 0:21:02.505 as well. 0:21:02.684 --> 0:21:02.846 Yeah. 0:21:03.326 --> 0:21:05.106 Did you hear the one about the cans? 0:21:05.527 --> 0:21:06.946 So the idea was this was 0:21:07.027 --> 0:21:09.387 using confirmation bias in public. 0:21:10.127 --> 0:21:11.388 So they were at this music 0:21:11.449 --> 0:21:13.009 festival somewhere, right? 0:21:13.469 --> 0:21:14.430 And they were trying to give 0:21:14.470 --> 0:21:15.230 their cans away. 0:21:15.410 --> 0:21:16.750 But what that does is says, well, 0:21:16.769 --> 0:21:17.550 if it's free, 0:21:17.971 --> 0:21:19.391 how good could it possibly be? 0:21:19.490 --> 0:21:20.511 So they didn't want to do that. 0:21:21.011 --> 0:21:22.152 So what they did was their 0:21:22.231 --> 0:21:23.393 marketing team took a bunch 0:21:23.432 --> 0:21:24.393 of their Red Bull cans, 0:21:25.032 --> 0:21:27.614 poured out the Red Bull, took the cans, 0:21:27.733 --> 0:21:28.673 crushed them, whatever, 0:21:28.814 --> 0:21:29.994 and they put them in the garbage. 0:21:30.654 --> 0:21:32.797 So while people were walking around, 0:21:32.856 --> 0:21:33.416 they were saying, 0:21:33.737 --> 0:21:36.179 this must be good because 0:21:36.479 --> 0:21:38.480 everybody's already had that. 0:21:39.000 --> 0:21:41.702 And imagine, though, trying to pitch that. 0:21:41.742 --> 0:21:42.643 Imagine you're a budding 0:21:42.702 --> 0:21:43.943 marketer who understands 0:21:43.983 --> 0:21:44.684 confirmation bias. 0:21:44.744 --> 0:21:45.224 You're smart. 0:21:45.244 --> 0:21:46.185 You have a background in psychology. 0:21:46.205 --> 0:21:47.686 You're like, so here's what I want to do. 0:21:48.146 --> 0:21:49.387 I want to pour it all out 0:21:49.708 --> 0:21:51.628 and throw it away and throw 0:21:51.669 --> 0:21:52.690 the cans in the garbage 0:21:52.710 --> 0:21:53.369 because I think that'll 0:21:53.390 --> 0:21:54.250 make people like it more. 0:21:54.490 --> 0:21:55.872 Your marketing director 0:21:55.892 --> 0:21:57.492 would look at you like you're insane. 0:21:57.512 --> 0:21:59.913 That story has been told and it's like, 0:22:00.174 --> 0:22:00.694 gosh, 0:22:01.515 --> 0:22:04.176 I would fall for that or I would be 0:22:04.237 --> 0:22:05.298 susceptible to that. 0:22:05.397 --> 0:22:05.678 Yeah. 0:22:05.877 --> 0:22:06.057 Yeah. 0:22:06.337 --> 0:22:07.019 And so, you know, 0:22:07.058 --> 0:22:10.101 that comes in line with frequency bias. 0:22:10.141 --> 0:22:10.861 And I know we don't want to 0:22:10.881 --> 0:22:11.801 go off on another term, 0:22:12.182 --> 0:22:13.623 but frequency bias or the bias. 0:22:13.968 --> 0:22:15.469 the Bader-Meinhof effect. 0:22:15.849 --> 0:22:16.329 Remember, 0:22:16.970 --> 0:22:18.551 whatever car you just bought 0:22:18.652 --> 0:22:20.333 recently or whatever pair 0:22:20.472 --> 0:22:22.074 of shoes you just bought recently, 0:22:22.394 --> 0:22:23.655 you automatically start 0:22:23.756 --> 0:22:25.457 seeing it all over the place. 0:22:25.917 --> 0:22:27.338 So that's frequency bias. 0:22:27.378 --> 0:22:28.599 And now if you see that Red 0:22:28.640 --> 0:22:30.060 Bull can and you see it 0:22:30.101 --> 0:22:32.041 over in that trash can, now you start, 0:22:32.563 --> 0:22:33.523 you don't even realize that 0:22:33.544 --> 0:22:34.884 you're starting to look for it. 0:22:35.224 --> 0:22:36.185 Oh my gosh, there's a banner. 0:22:36.266 --> 0:22:37.205 There was an ad for it. 0:22:37.547 --> 0:22:38.587 I saw that came up on my 0:22:38.627 --> 0:22:39.367 social media feed. 0:22:39.387 --> 0:22:40.128 They're everywhere. 0:22:40.669 --> 0:22:42.128 you weren't paying attention to it. 0:22:42.169 --> 0:22:43.289 But now as soon as it came 0:22:43.369 --> 0:22:44.529 on your attention radar, 0:22:44.829 --> 0:22:45.650 you see it everywhere. 0:22:45.750 --> 0:22:47.830 And that frequency bias is a 0:22:47.931 --> 0:22:49.211 complimentary concept. 0:22:49.471 --> 0:22:50.511 It's wild, right? 0:22:51.311 --> 0:22:53.712 And these things still work. 0:22:53.752 --> 0:22:54.393 They're still present, 0:22:54.532 --> 0:22:55.772 even if you are aware of them. 0:22:55.813 --> 0:22:56.593 That's why they're biased. 0:22:57.114 --> 0:22:58.134 Yes, this is true. 0:22:58.334 --> 0:22:58.574 Yep. 0:22:58.693 --> 0:22:58.874 Yeah. 0:22:58.894 --> 0:23:00.253 And that's what makes it so fascinating. 0:23:00.654 --> 0:23:02.295 And the ability to apply it 0:23:02.394 --> 0:23:04.675 into rehabilitation is one 0:23:04.695 --> 0:23:05.695 of the things that I think 0:23:06.076 --> 0:23:08.117 We talk about motivational interviewing. 0:23:08.157 --> 0:23:09.558 We talk about patient engagement. 0:23:09.578 --> 0:23:11.380 We talk about collaborative goal setting. 0:23:11.700 --> 0:23:12.760 We talk about autonomy and 0:23:12.820 --> 0:23:13.520 all these things. 0:23:14.001 --> 0:23:15.442 And all of that can 0:23:15.623 --> 0:23:18.545 strengthen the therapy experience. 0:23:18.585 --> 0:23:21.126 And why wouldn't we want it to, you know? 0:23:21.487 --> 0:23:23.067 So that's the thing is if 0:23:23.107 --> 0:23:25.170 you're giving great therapy, 0:23:25.710 --> 0:23:27.211 but somebody has a negative 0:23:27.250 --> 0:23:29.532 confirmation bias, a horn's effect, 0:23:30.053 --> 0:23:31.413 That detracts from their 0:23:31.515 --> 0:23:33.536 outcome and your reflection, 0:23:33.715 --> 0:23:35.317 their word of mouth, et cetera. 0:23:35.657 --> 0:23:36.878 So we need to leverage these 0:23:36.919 --> 0:23:38.240 things so that our therapy 0:23:38.259 --> 0:23:39.340 experience is given the 0:23:39.421 --> 0:23:40.883 credit for what it's truly do. 0:23:41.499 --> 0:23:41.798 Yeah. 0:23:42.058 --> 0:23:42.579 It's wild. 0:23:42.640 --> 0:23:43.440 I mean, if I was going to, 0:23:43.480 --> 0:23:44.580 I'm not going back to school. 0:23:44.661 --> 0:23:45.461 I've done that too many times, 0:23:45.760 --> 0:23:47.722 but if I was, psychology is definitely, 0:23:47.782 --> 0:23:48.242 I sort of like, 0:23:48.323 --> 0:23:49.624 I just study it amateurly 0:23:49.703 --> 0:23:51.545 and I just think it's fascinating. 0:23:51.625 --> 0:23:52.865 I think when I was younger, 0:23:52.964 --> 0:23:54.506 I thought psychology was like, it's like, 0:23:54.526 --> 0:23:55.227 there's no way you can 0:23:55.287 --> 0:23:56.647 predict what people do. 0:23:56.667 --> 0:23:57.768 And I think psychologists would say, 0:23:57.807 --> 0:23:58.848 we don't, that's not what we do. 0:23:59.388 --> 0:24:00.509 We just look at patterns and 0:24:00.549 --> 0:24:01.329 how people act. 0:24:01.349 --> 0:24:02.010 And then we try to work 0:24:02.070 --> 0:24:03.010 backwards to figure out 0:24:03.050 --> 0:24:04.872 like what causes that or why, 0:24:04.951 --> 0:24:06.653 what might cause that to 0:24:06.692 --> 0:24:07.933 happen and utilize that. 0:24:08.374 --> 0:24:09.434 Yeah, that's the whole thing. 0:24:09.494 --> 0:24:10.875 Cognitive behavioral therapy 0:24:11.255 --> 0:24:14.196 says this is your pattern of thinking. 0:24:14.757 --> 0:24:16.518 Can we neuroplastically help 0:24:16.637 --> 0:24:18.698 you diverge that stream 0:24:18.838 --> 0:24:20.898 into another tributary so 0:24:20.919 --> 0:24:22.200 you don't follow down that 0:24:22.259 --> 0:24:23.339 same pattern of thinking? 0:24:23.359 --> 0:24:24.141 Yeah. 0:24:24.441 --> 0:24:24.601 Yeah. 0:24:24.760 --> 0:24:26.301 So you mentioned at least 0:24:26.402 --> 0:24:27.343 once or twice in there. 0:24:27.383 --> 0:24:28.344 I know it comes up a lot, 0:24:28.364 --> 0:24:30.705 especially with the audience's fear. 0:24:30.806 --> 0:24:32.968 It's a common barrier in recovery, right? 0:24:33.028 --> 0:24:34.209 Even just to get someone to 0:24:34.249 --> 0:24:36.151 maybe even come to your clinic sometimes. 0:24:36.211 --> 0:24:37.332 How many times they must 0:24:37.372 --> 0:24:38.853 have overcome fear before 0:24:38.893 --> 0:24:40.054 they'll even see you. 0:24:40.634 --> 0:24:41.715 So how can physical 0:24:41.756 --> 0:24:42.477 therapists better 0:24:42.576 --> 0:24:44.538 understand this thing that 0:24:44.617 --> 0:24:46.380 is probably going to be present often, 0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:47.381 fear, 0:24:47.540 --> 0:24:49.182 and address it with their patients 0:24:49.282 --> 0:24:50.683 to get those better outcomes? 0:24:51.359 --> 0:24:52.480 That's a great question. 0:24:52.601 --> 0:24:53.580 I love the fact that you've 0:24:53.601 --> 0:24:54.461 brought that up too. 0:24:54.662 --> 0:24:55.241 For me, 0:24:55.402 --> 0:24:57.403 I think about the omnipresence of fear. 0:24:57.823 --> 0:24:58.804 And I think about the fact 0:24:58.864 --> 0:25:01.765 that it's fear of re-injury, ACL, 0:25:02.465 --> 0:25:04.287 fear of incontinence, 0:25:04.487 --> 0:25:05.928 fear of falling is the most 0:25:06.008 --> 0:25:08.108 widely studied, you know, 0:25:08.189 --> 0:25:09.690 fear of making an error, 0:25:10.009 --> 0:25:11.911 which can be again to the yips, 0:25:11.951 --> 0:25:13.352 the baseball player, the golfer, 0:25:13.372 --> 0:25:14.152 the titting a putt, 0:25:14.632 --> 0:25:16.232 the gymnast that's up in the air, 0:25:16.413 --> 0:25:17.294 fear of making an error. 0:25:17.433 --> 0:25:17.753 And then 0:25:18.213 --> 0:25:20.454 We also think about fear of 0:25:21.714 --> 0:25:23.935 a disease process, dementia. 0:25:23.996 --> 0:25:24.435 Oh my gosh, 0:25:24.455 --> 0:25:25.776 I forgot where I parked my car 0:25:25.855 --> 0:25:27.135 twice in the last month. 0:25:27.536 --> 0:25:28.537 So we think about fear of 0:25:28.817 --> 0:25:30.176 all these types of things, 0:25:30.217 --> 0:25:32.238 and that's a broad spectrum across six. 0:25:32.998 --> 0:25:34.357 The first part of your 0:25:34.438 --> 0:25:35.739 question should be answered 0:25:35.798 --> 0:25:36.499 as number one. 0:25:37.179 --> 0:25:38.660 Physical therapists need to 0:25:38.839 --> 0:25:39.980 improve their skills in 0:25:40.299 --> 0:25:42.260 recognizing fear and 0:25:42.280 --> 0:25:44.182 opening the discussion about fear. 0:25:44.281 --> 0:25:45.541 And it can be extremely 0:25:45.622 --> 0:25:47.823 simple as much as this. 0:25:48.083 --> 0:25:50.663 And it's in the realms of 0:25:50.723 --> 0:25:51.804 vicarious experiences. 0:25:52.124 --> 0:25:53.285 When I've worked with people... 0:25:54.265 --> 0:25:56.007 similar to you going through 0:25:56.047 --> 0:25:57.127 the same condition, 0:25:57.508 --> 0:25:58.888 they've expressed to me a 0:25:58.929 --> 0:26:01.270 degree of fear in terms of 0:26:01.310 --> 0:26:02.090 their mobility. 0:26:02.211 --> 0:26:04.512 Do you find yourself fearful 0:26:05.013 --> 0:26:06.275 as you move across your 0:26:06.315 --> 0:26:09.156 home and walk in comfortable places? 0:26:09.517 --> 0:26:11.058 And you could just start it like that. 0:26:11.219 --> 0:26:12.660 If we don't talk about fear, 0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:14.981 then it becomes the early 0:26:15.382 --> 0:26:16.041 1990s when we weren't 0:26:16.061 --> 0:26:17.282 supposed to talk about pain. 0:26:17.683 --> 0:26:19.384 And then all we did was talk about pain. 0:26:19.404 --> 0:26:20.286 And then people became 0:26:20.766 --> 0:26:20.865 Sure. 0:26:20.926 --> 0:26:21.106 Right. 0:26:32.901 --> 0:26:33.461 So, I mean, 0:26:33.561 --> 0:26:35.104 have you have you read Chris Voss? 0:26:35.243 --> 0:26:36.724 He was a former FBI. 0:26:37.165 --> 0:26:37.766 So, oh, 0:26:37.826 --> 0:26:39.347 so he was a former FBI hostage 0:26:39.387 --> 0:26:39.969 negotiator. 0:26:40.028 --> 0:26:40.950 And the amount of times I 0:26:40.990 --> 0:26:42.070 talk about him on my podcast, 0:26:42.090 --> 0:26:43.772 you would think he sponsors my show, 0:26:43.932 --> 0:26:44.493 but he doesn't. 0:26:44.753 --> 0:26:46.215 But I would take sponsorship from Chris. 0:26:46.715 --> 0:26:47.778 So he essentially said that 0:26:47.837 --> 0:26:48.438 the name of the book that 0:26:48.478 --> 0:26:49.338 he wrote was called Never 0:26:49.378 --> 0:26:50.099 Split the Difference. 0:26:50.421 --> 0:26:52.222 Negotiate like your life depends on it. 0:26:52.323 --> 0:26:53.763 I thought it was a book about negotiating, 0:26:53.784 --> 0:26:54.224 but it's not. 0:26:54.684 --> 0:26:55.506 It's about a lot of the 0:26:55.546 --> 0:26:56.346 things you're talking about. 0:26:56.366 --> 0:26:57.667 So what he'll say is the 0:26:57.708 --> 0:26:58.448 reason the book is called 0:26:58.488 --> 0:26:59.169 that is he's like, 0:26:59.189 --> 0:27:00.190 if I get called for a bank 0:27:00.250 --> 0:27:01.671 robbery and I'm on scene, I can't be like, 0:27:01.711 --> 0:27:02.751 hey, you have 10 hostages. 0:27:02.791 --> 0:27:04.772 Why don't you kill five and 0:27:04.813 --> 0:27:06.194 I'll take five and we'll call it a day. 0:27:06.234 --> 0:27:08.076 He's like, no, I can't do that. 0:27:08.135 --> 0:27:09.037 So neither should you. 0:27:09.596 --> 0:27:10.438 So what he'll talk about is 0:27:10.478 --> 0:27:11.939 things like tactical empathy. 0:27:12.058 --> 0:27:13.420 And you just displayed that, which is. 0:27:14.280 --> 0:27:15.241 It's, you know, 0:27:15.321 --> 0:27:17.005 I've worked with people just like you. 0:27:17.025 --> 0:27:19.788 I'm not I'm not accusing you of having. 0:27:19.948 --> 0:27:20.469 Exactly. 0:27:20.689 --> 0:27:22.991 I'm empathetic that this might be a thing. 0:27:23.011 --> 0:27:24.554 And I've opened the door for 0:27:24.594 --> 0:27:25.934 now them to walk through. 0:27:25.954 --> 0:27:26.916 Yeah, that's it. 0:27:27.257 --> 0:27:28.479 And his famous line or one 0:27:28.499 --> 0:27:30.000 of his lines is it sounds 0:27:30.039 --> 0:27:32.343 as if or it might be or comes across as. 0:27:33.064 --> 0:27:36.305 that you're reluctant to try this. 0:27:36.644 --> 0:27:37.884 And what that does is it 0:27:37.944 --> 0:27:38.704 leaves them an out. 0:27:39.005 --> 0:27:39.744 If you've ever been in an 0:27:39.904 --> 0:27:41.506 argument with a spouse or a friend, 0:27:41.766 --> 0:27:43.125 you got to leave them an out, right? 0:27:43.506 --> 0:27:44.665 Give them a chance to be like, well, 0:27:44.685 --> 0:27:45.826 that's actually not what I'm saying. 0:27:45.846 --> 0:27:46.905 You're trying to put me into 0:27:46.945 --> 0:27:47.987 a corner because when you 0:27:48.007 --> 0:27:48.866 put someone into a corner, 0:27:49.126 --> 0:27:50.826 they don't like it. 0:27:51.007 --> 0:27:51.926 Actually, no, that's not true. 0:27:52.027 --> 0:27:52.326 Okay, 0:27:52.446 --> 0:27:53.428 I'm just trying to figure out what 0:27:53.468 --> 0:27:53.907 that is. 0:27:54.288 --> 0:27:55.488 And it's amazing to listen 0:27:55.567 --> 0:27:57.228 to a hostage negotiator, 0:27:57.248 --> 0:27:58.969 why that would be valuable for clinicians, 0:27:59.409 --> 0:28:00.749 but it's terribly valuable 0:28:00.769 --> 0:28:01.048 for clinicians. 0:28:01.108 --> 0:28:02.289 Tactical empathy. 0:28:02.349 --> 0:28:03.191 I'm learning this. 0:28:03.290 --> 0:28:03.810 I love it. 0:28:04.172 --> 0:28:04.592 I love it. 0:28:04.672 --> 0:28:06.673 It sounds like an oxymoron. 0:28:06.733 --> 0:28:07.934 It's like tactical is very 0:28:08.494 --> 0:28:09.675 forward and aggressive and 0:28:09.796 --> 0:28:10.977 empathy is very heartfelt 0:28:11.096 --> 0:28:11.938 and compassionate. 0:28:12.198 --> 0:28:13.679 But he's like he's because 0:28:13.699 --> 0:28:14.940 he's like a lot of times I 0:28:15.099 --> 0:28:16.280 was just talking to a guy 0:28:16.340 --> 0:28:17.481 I've never met on the phone 0:28:17.582 --> 0:28:18.442 and they are having the 0:28:18.502 --> 0:28:19.983 worst day of their life right now. 0:28:20.464 --> 0:28:22.486 The FBI is outside and, you know, 0:28:22.506 --> 0:28:23.666 this isn't going to go well. 0:28:24.248 --> 0:28:25.828 So, you know, I could threaten them. 0:28:25.909 --> 0:28:26.829 But what's that going to do? 0:28:27.170 --> 0:28:28.089 Yeah, exactly. 0:28:28.410 --> 0:28:29.290 I need to understand. 0:28:29.310 --> 0:28:30.070 I'm also not going to give 0:28:30.090 --> 0:28:31.471 you a helicopter and $10 million. 0:28:31.510 --> 0:28:32.251 It's not happening. 0:28:32.271 --> 0:28:34.833 I'm sorry. 0:28:34.873 --> 0:28:35.992 I need to make a connection 0:28:36.813 --> 0:28:38.013 to figure out what makes 0:28:38.034 --> 0:28:39.733 this guy tick so I can try 0:28:39.753 --> 0:28:42.154 to help them make their own 0:28:42.214 --> 0:28:43.474 decision to walk out the 0:28:43.536 --> 0:28:45.135 front door with their hands in the air. 0:28:45.296 --> 0:28:46.817 And that is every chapter. 0:28:46.896 --> 0:28:47.836 Also, it's just a well-written book. 0:28:47.936 --> 0:28:49.076 Every chapter is like a 0:28:49.156 --> 0:28:51.377 story about a bank robbery or whatever. 0:28:51.637 --> 0:28:52.679 And then boom, how do I, 0:28:52.818 --> 0:28:53.778 what did I take from that 0:28:53.818 --> 0:28:54.578 that you can take? 0:28:54.618 --> 0:28:55.278 And it's a lesson. 0:28:55.318 --> 0:28:56.480 So it was really real well-written. 0:28:57.155 --> 0:28:57.695 I love that. 0:28:57.756 --> 0:28:59.217 I'm going to definitely look that up. 0:28:59.237 --> 0:29:02.179 You said Chris Voss, because I'll tell you, 0:29:02.618 --> 0:29:03.700 earlier this morning, 0:29:03.720 --> 0:29:05.840 I had to go through one of 0:29:05.881 --> 0:29:07.521 those mandatory educational 0:29:07.561 --> 0:29:08.582 things that we all have to 0:29:08.622 --> 0:29:09.803 do for our employers. 0:29:10.199 --> 0:29:11.940 And I had to go take a class 0:29:12.019 --> 0:29:14.180 that was online on 0:29:14.700 --> 0:29:16.181 basically de-escalation, 0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:17.701 workplace violence, and et cetera. 0:29:18.101 --> 0:29:18.862 We were just talking about 0:29:18.902 --> 0:29:19.942 the same exact thing. 0:29:20.422 --> 0:29:22.843 And you think about this in a burgeoning, 0:29:23.022 --> 0:29:24.482 developing relationship 0:29:24.522 --> 0:29:26.243 with me and a person that I 0:29:26.423 --> 0:29:28.284 am committed to rehabilitate. 0:29:28.604 --> 0:29:30.565 I want to demonstrate that. 0:29:30.865 --> 0:29:32.626 things that bring them into 0:29:32.646 --> 0:29:34.847 the relationship, I feel like I'm here. 0:29:34.887 --> 0:29:35.749 And so all those 0:29:35.868 --> 0:29:37.009 motivational interviewing 0:29:37.049 --> 0:29:38.451 and active listening things 0:29:39.051 --> 0:29:40.432 placed into an environment 0:29:40.472 --> 0:29:42.273 of awkwardness of, I don't know, 0:29:42.314 --> 0:29:42.974 is this person, 0:29:43.234 --> 0:29:44.316 do they know what they're doing? 0:29:44.375 --> 0:29:45.557 Are they going to be able to help me? 0:29:45.896 --> 0:29:47.097 I'm looking for a reason to 0:29:47.117 --> 0:29:48.699 either engage or to bail. 0:29:48.960 --> 0:29:50.320 Do I want to schedule more visits? 0:29:50.540 --> 0:29:51.260 And you want to give them 0:29:51.361 --> 0:29:52.602 every opportunity to say, 0:29:52.622 --> 0:29:54.824 I feel like I see you. 0:29:55.163 --> 0:29:55.825 Is this right? 0:29:55.924 --> 0:29:57.326 Am I seeing you correctly? 0:29:58.487 --> 0:29:58.807 And, you know, 0:29:58.866 --> 0:30:00.167 and then the other part of your question, 0:30:00.188 --> 0:30:01.208 we talk about fear. 0:30:02.628 --> 0:30:03.769 We have a lot of science 0:30:03.828 --> 0:30:06.390 with how to combat fear now, 0:30:06.890 --> 0:30:08.671 and it's not through ignoring things. 0:30:08.730 --> 0:30:08.990 Right. 0:30:09.651 --> 0:30:11.872 So our science for combating 0:30:11.912 --> 0:30:16.993 fear now largely comes into acceptance, 0:30:17.074 --> 0:30:19.474 commitment therapy and habituation. 0:30:19.855 --> 0:30:21.715 And you could call it exposure therapy, 0:30:22.175 --> 0:30:23.375 whatever you want to call it. 0:30:23.516 --> 0:30:25.116 But we in rehabilitation, 0:30:25.176 --> 0:30:27.238 we know it best as habituation. 0:30:28.038 --> 0:30:29.539 Successive approximation, 0:30:29.819 --> 0:30:32.804 small stimuli of that same 0:30:33.505 --> 0:30:37.250 threatening environment, situation, 0:30:37.710 --> 0:30:38.971 person, or condition, 0:30:39.393 --> 0:30:40.834 small stimuli that don't 0:30:40.913 --> 0:30:43.037 actually provoke me are 0:30:43.076 --> 0:30:44.358 healthy so that I can 0:30:44.538 --> 0:30:45.840 normalize my response. 0:30:46.925 --> 0:30:47.026 Yeah, 0:30:47.046 --> 0:30:48.967 you mentioned fear of falling being 0:30:49.167 --> 0:30:50.288 probably one of the most prominent, 0:30:50.307 --> 0:30:50.969 especially with older 0:30:51.028 --> 0:30:52.769 adults in the stuff in the 0:30:52.809 --> 0:30:53.611 work that I do. 0:30:53.990 --> 0:30:56.471 It's often feared more than death. 0:30:56.573 --> 0:30:57.633 That's public speaking. 0:30:58.314 --> 0:30:59.634 And I heard someone sort of 0:30:59.674 --> 0:31:00.474 reframe because a lot of 0:31:00.515 --> 0:31:01.455 times I'm standing there in 0:31:01.496 --> 0:31:02.395 the wings with someone 0:31:02.415 --> 0:31:03.497 who's about to go on stage. 0:31:03.737 --> 0:31:04.298 They do not. 0:31:04.798 --> 0:31:06.058 They want to have spoken. 0:31:06.098 --> 0:31:06.818 They don't want to speak. 0:31:07.038 --> 0:31:07.980 They want to be done. 0:31:08.380 --> 0:31:09.099 So then what do we do? 0:31:09.141 --> 0:31:10.080 We rush through it. 0:31:10.201 --> 0:31:10.800 We sweat. 0:31:10.840 --> 0:31:12.402 We get all the physiologic responses. 0:31:12.803 --> 0:31:14.143 And I heard someone recently 0:31:14.163 --> 0:31:15.804 and it changed how I sort 0:31:15.864 --> 0:31:18.665 of prepare people for this, which is, hey, 0:31:18.685 --> 0:31:19.246 are you nervous? 0:31:19.286 --> 0:31:21.307 Like, again, never mentioned pain, 0:31:21.346 --> 0:31:22.147 never mentioned nerves. 0:31:22.307 --> 0:31:23.028 But now we're like, 0:31:23.429 --> 0:31:24.568 are you feeling nerves? 0:31:24.608 --> 0:31:25.349 You feel anxiety? 0:31:26.029 --> 0:31:27.030 Yeah, I am. 0:31:27.291 --> 0:31:28.854 And a lot of times, again, 0:31:28.913 --> 0:31:30.015 the worst advice to give 0:31:30.035 --> 0:31:31.376 someone in a stressful situation is, hey, 0:31:31.416 --> 0:31:31.778 relax. 0:31:32.317 --> 0:31:33.098 Yeah, just ignore it. 0:31:33.400 --> 0:31:34.059 Does that ever work? 0:31:34.181 --> 0:31:35.923 Suppress it. 0:31:36.042 --> 0:31:37.644 What I heard this person say is, listen, 0:31:38.346 --> 0:31:39.446 you're feeling anxiety, 0:31:39.467 --> 0:31:40.308 and I understand why. 0:31:40.568 --> 0:31:42.530 This is an abnormal situation, right? 0:31:43.291 --> 0:31:44.913 um you wouldn't be feeling 0:31:44.952 --> 0:31:46.013 anxiety unless unless you 0:31:46.054 --> 0:31:46.993 kind of cared about how 0:31:47.013 --> 0:31:47.894 you're going to perform out 0:31:47.934 --> 0:31:49.315 there so that's great so I 0:31:49.355 --> 0:31:50.476 like where this anxiety is 0:31:50.516 --> 0:31:51.797 coming from and they said 0:31:51.836 --> 0:31:52.876 to try to treat it like 0:31:52.997 --> 0:31:54.718 judo and judo is famous for 0:31:54.738 --> 0:31:56.058 like I'm not gonna I'm 0:31:56.078 --> 0:31:57.099 gonna use your energy 0:31:57.160 --> 0:31:58.941 against you right I'm gonna 0:31:58.980 --> 0:31:59.740 do I'm gonna do like the 0:31:59.780 --> 0:32:00.561 miyagi I'm just gonna do a 0:32:00.582 --> 0:32:01.761 couple moves and your 0:32:01.842 --> 0:32:02.762 energy is actually gonna be 0:32:02.883 --> 0:32:04.344 countered and they said 0:32:04.604 --> 0:32:05.584 take I don't want you to 0:32:05.624 --> 0:32:06.204 try to get rid of that 0:32:06.244 --> 0:32:07.325 energy that nervous injury 0:32:07.345 --> 0:32:07.925 because it's probably not 0:32:07.945 --> 0:32:08.486 gonna work anyway 0:32:08.905 --> 0:32:09.105 Yeah. 0:32:09.445 --> 0:32:10.886 So I want you to use it. 0:32:11.347 --> 0:32:12.709 So I want you to go up there 0:32:12.749 --> 0:32:14.029 and I want you to use that energy, 0:32:14.069 --> 0:32:16.911 but see if you can control it like judo. 0:32:17.031 --> 0:32:18.432 And that sort of like, you know, hey, 0:32:18.451 --> 0:32:19.272 can we use this? 0:32:19.732 --> 0:32:20.913 Can we use this fear? 0:32:21.273 --> 0:32:21.994 You're paying attention. 0:32:22.015 --> 0:32:22.755 This is a big deal, 0:32:22.775 --> 0:32:23.935 but that's why we're here today. 0:32:23.976 --> 0:32:25.416 We're here for this and 0:32:25.436 --> 0:32:26.758 we're leading into it. 0:32:27.278 --> 0:32:28.358 So it's not just, hey, 0:32:28.378 --> 0:32:30.140 we talk about it and these words heal. 0:32:30.180 --> 0:32:31.020 That's not what we're saying. 0:32:31.040 --> 0:32:32.021 We're saying that this is 0:32:32.082 --> 0:32:33.162 part of the process, 0:32:33.221 --> 0:32:34.103 part of the larger process. 0:32:34.242 --> 0:32:34.403 Yeah. 0:32:34.682 --> 0:32:35.683 And what you did there is 0:32:35.703 --> 0:32:37.424 you normalize it is that's A, 0:32:39.145 --> 0:32:40.547 and experience that most 0:32:40.626 --> 0:32:41.988 people for their first time 0:32:42.229 --> 0:32:43.430 as they're a novice in 0:32:43.509 --> 0:32:45.171 speaking in public should 0:32:45.211 --> 0:32:46.471 experience that's great and 0:32:46.811 --> 0:32:48.292 then b you leveraged it and 0:32:48.353 --> 0:32:49.473 I love that that's that's 0:32:49.493 --> 0:32:50.914 great I get anxious because 0:32:50.954 --> 0:32:51.796 I'm worried about the 0:32:51.836 --> 0:32:52.477 performance I'm like 0:32:52.817 --> 0:32:53.537 especially I'm like shoot 0:32:53.557 --> 0:32:54.178 I'm supposed to be good at 0:32:54.218 --> 0:32:55.298 this I'm supposed to get on 0:32:55.358 --> 0:32:56.219 stage be really great at 0:32:56.259 --> 0:32:57.861 this now if I screw up what 0:32:57.881 --> 0:32:58.520 does that say about what 0:32:58.540 --> 0:32:59.442 kind of person it's because 0:32:59.481 --> 0:33:00.702 it's tied to your identity 0:33:00.823 --> 0:33:02.044 right because a lot of 0:33:02.064 --> 0:33:02.904 times I was coaching up 0:33:02.964 --> 0:33:04.726 scientists or researchers 0:33:04.746 --> 0:33:05.787 and it was like hey you 0:33:05.906 --> 0:33:07.448 just did the work like they 0:33:07.488 --> 0:33:08.528 want to hear from you and 0:33:08.949 --> 0:33:10.329 But I'm good at the work, 0:33:10.451 --> 0:33:11.431 not good at the speaking. 0:33:11.531 --> 0:33:13.512 All right, well, let's tailor your talk. 0:33:13.814 --> 0:33:14.855 This is why I need you to 0:33:14.875 --> 0:33:16.316 call me a month before your talk, 0:33:16.355 --> 0:33:17.978 not 10 minutes before your talk. 0:33:18.278 --> 0:33:19.058 Let's tailor your talk 0:33:19.098 --> 0:33:20.460 around what you're excited to talk about. 0:33:20.500 --> 0:33:22.662 Let's put that at the top of the queue. 0:33:22.682 --> 0:33:24.923 And then before you even 0:33:25.144 --> 0:33:26.525 notice that you're nervous up there, 0:33:26.545 --> 0:33:27.705 you'll be talking about 0:33:27.767 --> 0:33:28.948 things you like talking about. 0:33:29.067 --> 0:33:30.288 And that's why people are in the audience. 0:33:30.689 --> 0:33:33.589 You do such a nice job of helping people, 0:33:34.351 --> 0:33:34.611 you know, 0:33:35.010 --> 0:33:37.291 speak passionately without feeling, 0:33:37.852 --> 0:33:39.252 you know, I guess, 0:33:39.333 --> 0:33:40.854 frightened about the setting, 0:33:40.894 --> 0:33:43.414 the environment and the audience, etc. 0:33:43.734 --> 0:33:44.536 I want to know behind the 0:33:44.576 --> 0:33:45.435 scenes because I've never 0:33:45.455 --> 0:33:46.355 done one of these. 0:33:46.395 --> 0:33:47.616 These are one of my this is 0:33:47.656 --> 0:33:49.877 on my bucket list, which is a TED talk. 0:33:49.938 --> 0:33:51.019 You did TED talk and I'll 0:33:51.058 --> 0:33:52.358 put the link to that in the show note. 0:33:52.378 --> 0:33:53.559 Like how did it come about? 0:33:53.660 --> 0:33:55.000 How they I'm interested in 0:33:55.019 --> 0:33:57.141 the prep process because 0:33:57.181 --> 0:33:58.201 I'll tell people all the time. 0:33:59.660 --> 0:34:01.280 you're going to go give a 90 0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:02.702 minute presentation at CSM 0:34:02.742 --> 0:34:03.963 and you're putting a couple 0:34:04.003 --> 0:34:05.184 hours of preparation into it. 0:34:05.224 --> 0:34:06.244 I'm like, I got news for you. 0:34:06.786 --> 0:34:07.646 Ted talks are typically, 0:34:07.686 --> 0:34:09.628 I think 17 minutes or that. 0:34:09.907 --> 0:34:11.269 And you have a clock ticking 0:34:11.289 --> 0:34:11.849 in front of you. 0:34:11.889 --> 0:34:12.490 Yes, you do. 0:34:12.570 --> 0:34:12.731 Right. 0:34:13.590 --> 0:34:14.052 And then I'm like, 0:34:14.192 --> 0:34:15.132 and you're going to wing it, 0:34:15.172 --> 0:34:16.213 but this person's doing a 0:34:16.514 --> 0:34:19.456 hot skilled 17 minutes and 0:34:19.476 --> 0:34:20.956 they've likely put months into it. 0:34:21.016 --> 0:34:23.159 So curtain, how'd this work? 0:34:23.599 --> 0:34:23.820 Yeah. 0:34:24.239 --> 0:34:25.201 So, um, 0:34:28.023 --> 0:34:29.264 I was able to engage in a 0:34:29.324 --> 0:34:30.724 TED Talk that was hosted at 0:34:30.764 --> 0:34:31.686 my own hometown. 0:34:31.746 --> 0:34:32.487 So that was good. 0:34:32.547 --> 0:34:33.047 That's easy. 0:34:33.086 --> 0:34:34.407 I don't have to travel, etc. 0:34:35.048 --> 0:34:36.130 I knew, I think, 0:34:36.369 --> 0:34:38.010 six months in advance that 0:34:38.132 --> 0:34:39.793 my talk was going to be accepted. 0:34:39.893 --> 0:34:42.295 So you make an application 0:34:42.394 --> 0:34:43.175 and you're accepted. 0:34:43.635 --> 0:34:44.476 And largely, 0:34:44.536 --> 0:34:45.958 there's some luck to do with that. 0:34:46.077 --> 0:34:47.719 But if your theme is 0:34:48.179 --> 0:34:48.978 commensurate with the 0:34:49.039 --> 0:34:51.260 larger theme of that TED Talk, 0:34:51.320 --> 0:34:52.581 that's going to be helpful as well. 0:34:53.262 --> 0:34:54.282 Once you get accepted, 0:34:54.362 --> 0:34:56.903 then at least my experience 0:34:57.023 --> 0:34:58.925 is you are given an 0:34:58.965 --> 0:35:00.626 opportunity to work with the coaches, 0:35:00.706 --> 0:35:01.726 which are the producers and 0:35:01.746 --> 0:35:02.788 the hosts of the TED Talk. 0:35:03.387 --> 0:35:05.610 And so you actually formulate your talk. 0:35:05.670 --> 0:35:07.994 You come in, present it in front of them. 0:35:08.114 --> 0:35:09.235 They've got all the cameras 0:35:09.315 --> 0:35:10.117 out there and they're 0:35:10.177 --> 0:35:11.179 sitting as though they're 0:35:11.219 --> 0:35:12.360 all in their director's chairs, 0:35:12.400 --> 0:35:12.900 et cetera. 0:35:13.402 --> 0:35:14.403 And they're putting you on 0:35:14.443 --> 0:35:16.425 the spot to see how you do 0:35:16.505 --> 0:35:18.730 in the quasi environment. 0:35:19.530 --> 0:35:20.429 And then they give you 0:35:20.469 --> 0:35:21.811 direct feedback right there. 0:35:21.871 --> 0:35:23.371 And then you come back and do it again. 0:35:23.530 --> 0:35:24.992 And then you come back and do it again. 0:35:25.472 --> 0:35:27.291 And it shapes itself up nicely. 0:35:27.572 --> 0:35:29.313 You get the automaticity to it. 0:35:29.652 --> 0:35:31.134 You have enough repetitions. 0:35:31.253 --> 0:35:32.773 You have comfort with the stage. 0:35:33.273 --> 0:35:35.094 All of that is, you know, 0:35:35.215 --> 0:35:36.255 but at that point, 0:35:36.275 --> 0:35:37.856 when I gave that talk in 2020, 0:35:37.856 --> 0:35:39.275 I had already been talking 0:35:39.675 --> 0:35:42.016 professionally since 1994. 0:35:42.016 --> 0:35:42.876 So I don't want to say it 0:35:43.016 --> 0:35:44.438 ever sounds easy because 0:35:44.478 --> 0:35:45.498 it's a different stage. 0:35:46.117 --> 0:35:47.159 But I'll say two things. 0:35:47.199 --> 0:35:47.719 Number one, 0:35:47.739 --> 0:35:50.182 I had 26 years experience going in. 0:35:50.302 --> 0:35:51.043 That's great. 0:35:51.483 --> 0:35:52.364 But number two, 0:35:53.226 --> 0:35:53.786 the quote is 0:35:53.887 --> 0:35:56.128 misappropriated to Abraham 0:35:56.208 --> 0:35:58.751 Lincoln most frequently and 0:35:58.791 --> 0:35:59.612 to many others. 0:35:59.853 --> 0:36:00.893 It's, you know, 0:36:01.355 --> 0:36:03.097 give me a day to talk about 0:36:03.197 --> 0:36:05.018 something and I'm ready right now. 0:36:06.231 --> 0:36:06.632 OK, 0:36:07.132 --> 0:36:09.655 give me an hour to talk about something 0:36:09.695 --> 0:36:10.976 and I need two hours to prepare. 0:36:11.436 --> 0:36:12.996 Give me 15 minutes to talk 0:36:13.036 --> 0:36:14.297 about something and I need 0:36:14.318 --> 0:36:15.219 a day to prepare. 0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:17.519 You know, and, you know, 0:36:17.559 --> 0:36:18.501 that's that's the whole 0:36:18.561 --> 0:36:19.922 thing is that you're going 0:36:19.942 --> 0:36:21.983 to talk impromptu, unstructured. 0:36:22.264 --> 0:36:23.405 You got all the time in the world. 0:36:23.445 --> 0:36:24.144 That's one thing. 0:36:24.465 --> 0:36:25.746 But literally, Jimmy, 0:36:25.865 --> 0:36:28.068 I probably put 25 hours of practice. 0:36:29.855 --> 0:36:31.394 into practicing that speech 0:36:31.514 --> 0:36:32.856 for 15 minutes I'm 0:36:32.896 --> 0:36:35.315 satisfied with it um but 0:36:35.376 --> 0:36:36.356 I'll always look for rooms 0:36:36.376 --> 0:36:37.916 for improvement yeah I 0:36:37.956 --> 0:36:38.936 don't doubt it and and 0:36:39.137 --> 0:36:40.577 that's the funny part is 0:36:41.197 --> 0:36:42.536 people will get a 90 minute 0:36:42.556 --> 0:36:43.858 block at csm and I'm not 0:36:43.878 --> 0:36:44.737 knocking our profession 0:36:44.757 --> 0:36:45.878 this is this is everywhere 0:36:46.257 --> 0:36:47.577 and the funny part is and 0:36:47.597 --> 0:36:48.798 this is what I i like I 0:36:48.818 --> 0:36:49.878 want to grab the person 0:36:49.898 --> 0:36:50.798 whoever the people are that 0:36:50.838 --> 0:36:52.318 design csm I'm like I need 0:36:52.318 --> 0:36:53.360 15 minutes to tell you why 0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:53.940 I think you're doing it 0:36:53.980 --> 0:36:54.860 backwards here's why 0:36:55.820 --> 0:36:57.021 So in radio, 0:36:58.240 --> 0:36:59.501 when FM was a little stronger 0:36:59.541 --> 0:37:00.983 than podcasting now, right? 0:37:01.884 --> 0:37:03.023 The morning show led the 0:37:03.043 --> 0:37:04.664 radio station because they 0:37:04.684 --> 0:37:05.505 do more of the talking. 0:37:05.545 --> 0:37:06.385 They knew the audience was a 0:37:06.405 --> 0:37:07.327 little more hyper-focused 0:37:07.367 --> 0:37:08.507 in terms of a larger audience. 0:37:08.967 --> 0:37:12.088 So if you are a budding radio guy like me, 0:37:12.349 --> 0:37:13.389 you want to get some 0:37:13.489 --> 0:37:14.670 minutes on the morning show. 0:37:14.690 --> 0:37:16.291 You want to get some exposure, right? 0:37:17.152 --> 0:37:19.032 So instead of me just saying, hey, 0:37:19.172 --> 0:37:20.693 I've got a great bit, Mike. 0:37:20.733 --> 0:37:22.275 You're the morning show host, right? 0:37:22.903 --> 0:37:23.943 And you go, all right, Jimmy, 0:37:24.324 --> 0:37:25.445 come in tomorrow at 7.30. 0:37:25.445 --> 0:37:26.465 That doesn't happen. 0:37:26.925 --> 0:37:27.266 No way. 0:37:27.286 --> 0:37:28.126 Because Mike is like, 0:37:28.146 --> 0:37:29.666 the reason my show is great 0:37:29.746 --> 0:37:31.608 is because I have these 0:37:32.248 --> 0:37:34.509 hurdles that I want the best to show up. 0:37:34.548 --> 0:37:35.228 If you've got something. 0:37:35.248 --> 0:37:36.389 So you're in the hallway. 0:37:36.409 --> 0:37:37.050 You're like, pitch. 0:37:37.650 --> 0:37:39.670 And I'm like, hey, Taylor Swift, 0:37:39.690 --> 0:37:40.990 Travis Kelsey, something just happened. 0:37:41.010 --> 0:37:41.572 Here's the thing. 0:37:41.592 --> 0:37:43.371 And here's what I want to do. 0:37:43.731 --> 0:37:44.773 I need 15 minutes. 0:37:44.992 --> 0:37:45.472 I pitched. 0:37:45.492 --> 0:37:46.474 I told you how much I need. 0:37:46.934 --> 0:37:47.094 Mm-mm. 0:37:47.914 --> 0:37:48.454 I pitch. 0:37:48.855 --> 0:37:49.835 You're doing the math in 0:37:49.876 --> 0:37:50.956 your head because you know 0:37:50.996 --> 0:37:52.117 the audience so well. 0:37:52.157 --> 0:37:52.478 You're like, 0:37:52.777 --> 0:37:54.139 I can give you three minutes for that. 0:37:54.639 --> 0:37:55.880 That's exactly right. 0:37:56.219 --> 0:37:57.742 You're pitching to Lorne Michaels. 0:37:58.161 --> 0:37:59.083 Do you think you're telling 0:37:59.163 --> 0:38:00.664 Lorne that you need 12 minutes? 0:38:00.864 --> 0:38:01.364 Not a chance. 0:38:01.423 --> 0:38:03.646 You are pitching because 0:38:04.226 --> 0:38:06.288 time is the currency. 0:38:06.748 --> 0:38:07.007 Yeah. 0:38:07.108 --> 0:38:08.489 And you're saying that is good. 0:38:08.789 --> 0:38:09.150 That's not 20. 0:38:09.489 --> 0:38:10.411 That's not 90 minutes. 0:38:10.451 --> 0:38:10.630 Good. 0:38:11.010 --> 0:38:12.331 That's 12 minutes. 0:38:12.632 --> 0:38:13.914 So it amazes me. 0:38:14.514 --> 0:38:16.195 when we apply for these things, 0:38:16.215 --> 0:38:16.855 and I understand there's a 0:38:16.914 --> 0:38:18.436 logistical element to it, right? 0:38:18.456 --> 0:38:20.336 We want to fit as many things in. 0:38:20.458 --> 0:38:20.978 My way, though, 0:38:20.998 --> 0:38:21.757 would actually give more 0:38:21.818 --> 0:38:22.639 people an opportunity to 0:38:22.679 --> 0:38:23.478 talk at the same amount of time. 0:38:23.498 --> 0:38:24.079 I think you're right. 0:38:24.260 --> 0:38:24.539 Yeah. 0:38:24.780 --> 0:38:25.099 Which is, 0:38:25.561 --> 0:38:26.481 what do you... Because I've done 0:38:26.521 --> 0:38:28.121 presentations where I've submitted, hey, 0:38:28.161 --> 0:38:31.003 I want to talk at your event. 0:38:31.423 --> 0:38:32.184 And they've gone, great, 0:38:32.244 --> 0:38:33.465 you got 90 minutes. 0:38:33.505 --> 0:38:34.346 And I'm like, I can't... 0:38:35.222 --> 0:38:36.782 without stretching this so 0:38:36.862 --> 0:38:38.744 far that I break this rubber band, 0:38:38.903 --> 0:38:40.143 I can't make this 90 minutes. 0:38:40.443 --> 0:38:40.684 Yeah. 0:38:41.005 --> 0:38:42.605 It's just, I'll just be repeating. 0:38:42.784 --> 0:38:44.706 I would be going in circles 0:38:44.885 --> 0:38:46.507 after minute 42. 0:38:46.507 --> 0:38:47.467 So I'm like, I need, 0:38:47.947 --> 0:38:49.668 I need 32 minutes to do this. 0:38:49.829 --> 0:38:51.028 And then I can do 15 minutes 0:38:51.588 --> 0:38:54.110 of Q and a maybe, but they're like, 0:38:54.170 --> 0:38:56.251 you have to fill 90 and it just blows. 0:38:56.391 --> 0:38:57.532 It breaks my heart. 0:38:57.552 --> 0:38:57.831 Cause I'm like, 0:38:58.052 --> 0:39:00.552 give someone else the microphone. 0:39:00.733 --> 0:39:01.333 I don't need 90. 0:39:02.204 --> 0:39:03.405 Yeah, that's so good. 0:39:03.885 --> 0:39:04.547 And so I'm going to 0:39:04.606 --> 0:39:08.208 timestamp this as December 0:39:08.228 --> 0:39:11.351 14th of 2023 when I'm 0:39:11.431 --> 0:39:12.552 hearing you for the first 0:39:12.612 --> 0:39:15.934 time make this pivot of how we do CSM. 0:39:16.233 --> 0:39:17.155 And I'm just going to watch 0:39:17.215 --> 0:39:18.556 to see what year it 0:39:18.655 --> 0:39:19.956 actually becomes your model. 0:39:20.056 --> 0:39:20.757 I love that. 0:39:20.998 --> 0:39:23.498 I've spoken so many years at CSM, 0:39:23.778 --> 0:39:25.420 and I really like your 0:39:25.481 --> 0:39:26.201 effort there because I 0:39:26.221 --> 0:39:26.721 think you're right. 0:39:27.001 --> 0:39:29.543 We could get a lot more programming in. 0:39:29.563 --> 0:39:31.023 Same time, same cost. 0:39:31.405 --> 0:39:31.965 Oh, that's good. 0:39:32.324 --> 0:39:32.905 But it's also, 0:39:32.985 --> 0:39:34.746 are you familiar with Parkinson's law? 0:39:35.927 --> 0:39:36.728 Parkinson's law? 0:39:36.748 --> 0:39:37.108 I'm not. 0:39:37.208 --> 0:39:37.409 Wow. 0:39:37.789 --> 0:39:38.010 Okay. 0:39:38.090 --> 0:39:40.512 Parkinson's law is the time 0:39:40.552 --> 0:39:42.112 it takes to complete a task 0:39:42.233 --> 0:39:43.695 will expand or contract 0:39:43.894 --> 0:39:44.815 based on the amount of time 0:39:44.835 --> 0:39:46.137 you're given to complete the task. 0:39:46.217 --> 0:39:47.036 So it's like you tell your 0:39:47.077 --> 0:39:49.398 kid you got a week to clean your room. 0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:51.581 They get done on day six, hour 23. 0:39:51.621 --> 0:39:53.822 But if you say you don't 0:39:53.862 --> 0:39:55.664 clean that room in the next 24 hours, 0:39:55.885 --> 0:39:56.704 you got 24 hours. 0:39:57.025 --> 0:39:58.947 They get it done in 23 and a half hours. 0:39:59.086 --> 0:39:59.307 Yeah. 0:39:59.387 --> 0:40:00.469 And that goes along with like, 0:40:01.248 --> 0:40:03.108 If you give me six months to write a talk, 0:40:03.208 --> 0:40:04.349 I'll do it in the last week. 0:40:04.550 --> 0:40:04.730 I mean, 0:40:04.769 --> 0:40:06.269 how many times do you go to CSM and 0:40:06.289 --> 0:40:07.190 someone says, well, 0:40:07.210 --> 0:40:07.891 I was putting my slides 0:40:07.931 --> 0:40:08.811 together on the plane. 0:40:09.030 --> 0:40:09.690 And that's cute. 0:40:10.010 --> 0:40:11.911 The first hundred times you hear it. 0:40:12.652 --> 0:40:13.871 Dude, I paid to come here. 0:40:14.072 --> 0:40:15.771 Like a lot of fun and effort. 0:40:15.871 --> 0:40:17.293 I'm hanging on your words. 0:40:17.733 --> 0:40:20.193 So my talk, not to pitch, 0:40:20.353 --> 0:40:21.032 I didn't think I was going 0:40:21.052 --> 0:40:21.653 to pitch my talk, 0:40:21.673 --> 0:40:23.954 but I'm in the Academy of Science, 0:40:24.554 --> 0:40:26.394 or sorry, Education and Research. 0:40:27.215 --> 0:40:27.394 Hang on. 0:40:27.974 --> 0:40:28.394 research. 0:40:28.474 --> 0:40:29.396 I just gave like several. 0:40:29.416 --> 0:40:29.615 All right. 0:40:29.715 --> 0:40:30.255 I'm in research. 0:40:30.335 --> 0:40:31.916 I'm with Sheila Schindler Ivins, 0:40:32.137 --> 0:40:32.898 who is a researcher. 0:40:33.338 --> 0:40:33.737 Yeah. 0:40:33.978 --> 0:40:34.378 She's like, 0:40:34.559 --> 0:40:35.898 I think you should come talk here. 0:40:35.998 --> 0:40:36.619 And I'm like, Sheila, 0:40:36.639 --> 0:40:37.340 walk me through this. 0:40:37.380 --> 0:40:37.760 And she's like, 0:40:37.780 --> 0:40:39.181 you have people who know stuff. 0:40:39.800 --> 0:40:40.541 I go, okay. 0:40:40.942 --> 0:40:41.362 And she goes, 0:40:41.641 --> 0:40:42.963 but they don't have the skill. 0:40:43.543 --> 0:40:44.764 It's not their primary skill 0:40:45.023 --> 0:40:48.005 to explain the stuff everywhere. 0:40:48.585 --> 0:40:50.407 So you do all this work, 0:40:50.626 --> 0:40:51.768 you get published. 0:40:51.788 --> 0:40:52.447 Yeah. 0:40:52.728 --> 0:40:54.068 And that's your end zone? 0:40:54.108 --> 0:40:54.728 You're done? 0:40:54.768 --> 0:40:55.608 And then you just go back 0:40:55.648 --> 0:40:57.150 and receive another kickoff, right? 0:40:57.489 --> 0:40:57.889 No. 0:40:58.130 --> 0:40:58.451 Yes. 0:40:58.510 --> 0:40:59.871 You've hit the end zone, 0:40:59.911 --> 0:41:01.831 and now it's time to kick the extra point, 0:41:01.851 --> 0:41:04.012 which is how do I kick this extra point, 0:41:04.072 --> 0:41:06.034 which is the knowledge into the stands. 0:41:06.554 --> 0:41:07.755 But if you're not given the tools, 0:41:07.795 --> 0:41:09.034 the training, and time to do it, 0:41:09.175 --> 0:41:09.876 how can we fault 0:41:09.936 --> 0:41:11.556 researchers for not doing it? 0:41:11.596 --> 0:41:12.516 Of course they're not going to do it. 0:41:12.536 --> 0:41:13.597 They don't have the tools or any time. 0:41:14.038 --> 0:41:14.938 So I'm going to go teach 0:41:14.978 --> 0:41:16.679 people in however long I have, 0:41:16.699 --> 0:41:17.418 because Sheila said, well, 0:41:17.438 --> 0:41:18.119 how long do you need? 0:41:18.159 --> 0:41:18.920 I was like, I don't know. 0:41:18.960 --> 0:41:20.239 You haven't given me my task yet. 0:41:20.340 --> 0:41:21.541 I don't know the audience well enough. 0:41:22.070 --> 0:41:22.971 So I want her to keep 0:41:23.030 --> 0:41:25.432 pushing me between now and CSM. 0:41:26.373 --> 0:41:27.273 What do they actually care about? 0:41:27.353 --> 0:41:28.634 I can go pontificate on 0:41:28.773 --> 0:41:30.215 communication theory, yada, yada. 0:41:30.235 --> 0:41:31.394 But if that's going to fall on deaf ears, 0:41:31.414 --> 0:41:32.275 I don't want to say it. 0:41:32.896 --> 0:41:34.416 So we're working together to 0:41:34.496 --> 0:41:36.577 satisfy her because she's a researcher. 0:41:36.657 --> 0:41:37.797 And then I'll say, okay, 0:41:37.998 --> 0:41:39.318 you're the middle of my bell curve. 0:41:39.358 --> 0:41:41.780 If I satisfy you, I'll satisfy as many, 0:41:41.800 --> 0:41:43.581 you know, however many I can. 0:41:44.221 --> 0:41:45.422 And if I recall correctly, 0:41:45.461 --> 0:41:46.742 she's at a University of Wisconsin, 0:41:46.782 --> 0:41:47.021 right? 0:41:47.041 --> 0:41:47.943 I believe so. 0:41:48.567 --> 0:41:48.786 Yeah. 0:41:49.206 --> 0:41:50.788 So she already does a great 0:41:50.847 --> 0:41:52.028 job translating because I'm 0:41:52.108 --> 0:41:53.228 pretty certain that I get 0:41:53.329 --> 0:41:55.909 an occasional newsletter from her. 0:41:56.351 --> 0:41:57.471 She does a great job with that. 0:41:57.710 --> 0:41:58.572 And I think that'll be 0:41:58.632 --> 0:41:59.871 exceptional that you'll be 0:41:59.931 --> 0:42:02.333 able to compliment that so nicely. 0:42:02.574 --> 0:42:03.193 I'll look forward to 0:42:03.253 --> 0:42:06.335 attending that if I have the opportunity. 0:42:06.574 --> 0:42:07.916 And I'm going to give you 21 0:42:07.916 --> 0:42:09.396 minutes for it maximum right now. 0:42:09.496 --> 0:42:09.757 Good. 0:42:09.777 --> 0:42:10.356 See? 0:42:10.976 --> 0:42:11.838 Think about that. 0:42:12.458 --> 0:42:14.018 If I say I'm going to teach 0:42:14.097 --> 0:42:15.559 a really great lesson that 0:42:15.659 --> 0:42:17.358 someone is also going to be 0:42:17.398 --> 0:42:18.318 able to digest, 0:42:18.659 --> 0:42:21.059 because if I this is this 0:42:21.119 --> 0:42:22.739 is the analogy that I that 0:42:22.780 --> 0:42:24.980 I say I could be the most efficient, 0:42:25.000 --> 0:42:26.240 cost effective third grade 0:42:26.280 --> 0:42:27.400 teacher that's ever existed. 0:42:27.621 --> 0:42:28.340 I could teach the whole damn 0:42:28.380 --> 0:42:29.340 syllabus in a week and a half. 0:42:29.621 --> 0:42:30.460 Not a kid in the room will 0:42:30.481 --> 0:42:31.481 understand what the hell I'm saying, 0:42:32.001 --> 0:42:32.882 but I've done it. 0:42:32.981 --> 0:42:34.202 So the goal of communication 0:42:34.262 --> 0:42:35.561 is not to have communicated. 0:42:36.001 --> 0:42:37.141 The goal of communication is 0:42:37.202 --> 0:42:38.262 to achieve understanding 0:42:38.302 --> 0:42:39.382 for the audience to achieve 0:42:39.402 --> 0:42:39.902 understanding. 0:42:40.123 --> 0:42:40.922 And that means you say 0:42:40.983 --> 0:42:43.005 something and 60% of the room gets it. 0:42:43.824 --> 0:42:44.125 40% didn't. 0:42:44.144 --> 0:42:44.666 So, okay, 0:42:45.166 --> 0:42:46.527 I'm seeing some looks on your faces. 0:42:46.567 --> 0:42:47.726 Let me say this a different way. 0:42:48.307 --> 0:42:49.807 Okay, I'm seeing a couple. 0:42:49.927 --> 0:42:51.809 Let me come one-on-one to a couple of you. 0:42:52.309 --> 0:42:54.411 So that's one-to-many. 0:42:54.650 --> 0:42:55.972 If you're doing one-to-many, 0:42:56.112 --> 0:42:57.393 could you craft a message 0:42:57.413 --> 0:42:59.134 where a lot of people get 0:42:59.173 --> 0:42:59.833 it the first time? 0:42:59.914 --> 0:43:00.114 Yes, 0:43:00.173 --> 0:43:01.914 it's called a TED Talk because you've 0:43:01.954 --> 0:43:03.416 refined it, refined it, refined it, 0:43:03.456 --> 0:43:03.835 refined it. 0:43:04.416 --> 0:43:05.516 But the thing about mass 0:43:05.556 --> 0:43:07.157 communication now is, I mean, 0:43:07.177 --> 0:43:09.284 when did you do that talk in 2020? 0:43:09.284 --> 0:43:09.945 Yeah, January of 20. 0:43:10.664 --> 0:43:14.128 Ballpark, how many views has it gotten? 0:43:14.248 --> 0:43:15.909 Ballpark is probably only 0:43:15.989 --> 0:43:16.509 something in the 0:43:16.528 --> 0:43:18.130 neighborhood of 12,000 or 13,000. 0:43:18.130 --> 0:43:21.052 I introduced it at one of 0:43:21.092 --> 0:43:23.355 the worst times that could ever be done. 0:43:25.856 --> 0:43:27.157 It got introduced in March 0:43:27.217 --> 0:43:29.338 of 2020 after doing it in January. 0:43:29.358 --> 0:43:30.940 I was like, okay, 0:43:31.219 --> 0:43:32.161 you guys are all on to 0:43:32.221 --> 0:43:33.661 different topics right now. 0:43:33.681 --> 0:43:35.744 You were competing with Tiger King. 0:43:36.257 --> 0:43:37.099 Oh, yeah, yeah. 0:43:37.219 --> 0:43:37.759 Which is different. 0:43:37.838 --> 0:43:38.099 Yes. 0:43:38.518 --> 0:43:39.380 But, you know, 0:43:40.079 --> 0:43:41.221 I work with a lot of organizations, 0:43:41.260 --> 0:43:42.460 help them launch podcasts 0:43:42.501 --> 0:43:44.001 or YouTube channels, and people will say, 0:43:44.021 --> 0:43:45.063 yeah, we're getting, you know, 0:43:45.063 --> 0:43:46.503 500 downloads a month. 0:43:46.583 --> 0:43:48.764 And I'm like, go to your local theater, 0:43:49.445 --> 0:43:49.565 right? 0:43:49.585 --> 0:43:51.025 Because it's also specific, right? 0:43:51.126 --> 0:43:51.226 Like, 0:43:51.246 --> 0:43:52.327 most of the stuff I do is healthcare. 0:43:52.887 --> 0:43:53.867 Go to your local theater in 0:43:53.887 --> 0:43:55.628 your town that holds 500 0:43:55.628 --> 0:43:57.510 people and then picture 500 people 0:43:57.510 --> 0:44:00.190 500 of the right people, 0:44:00.351 --> 0:44:01.251 like 500 physical 0:44:01.371 --> 0:44:02.992 therapists or 500 neuro 0:44:03.072 --> 0:44:03.793 physical therapists. 0:44:04.313 --> 0:44:05.594 They're listening, reading, 0:44:05.855 --> 0:44:07.275 watching every month. 0:44:07.856 --> 0:44:08.257 So it's like, 0:44:08.536 --> 0:44:09.336 and the funny part with 0:44:09.496 --> 0:44:10.878 especially YouTube is that 0:44:10.918 --> 0:44:12.579 thing's got 12,000 views now. 0:44:13.300 --> 0:44:14.940 It only takes one little 0:44:15.061 --> 0:44:16.442 nudge on that ridiculous 0:44:16.661 --> 0:44:19.043 algorithm to become a hockey stick. 0:44:19.083 --> 0:44:20.043 And next thing you know, 0:44:20.063 --> 0:44:21.344 it's got a million. 0:44:21.364 --> 0:44:23.467 I was reviewing my YouTube data. 0:44:23.626 --> 0:44:24.586 I did not, 0:44:24.947 --> 0:44:26.489 I pushed off and resisted 0:44:26.509 --> 0:44:27.568 YouTube because I'm a radio 0:44:27.608 --> 0:44:28.250 guy and I just want, 0:44:28.590 --> 0:44:29.771 to do the voice right now my 0:44:29.791 --> 0:44:30.550 buddies are like you gotta 0:44:30.570 --> 0:44:31.831 do it's just youtube right 0:44:32.411 --> 0:44:35.193 yeah I got 1500 views on 0:44:35.373 --> 0:44:37.074 one video on a couple 0:44:37.094 --> 0:44:38.115 videos last night between 0:44:38.315 --> 0:44:39.115 one and two o'clock in the 0:44:39.157 --> 0:44:40.717 morning I cannot tell you 0:44:40.777 --> 0:44:42.539 why but that is not what I 0:44:42.559 --> 0:44:43.739 would have guessed in the 0:44:43.778 --> 0:44:44.920 last 24 hours I would have 0:44:44.940 --> 0:44:46.860 had a bunch of views but I 0:44:46.920 --> 0:44:49.463 did youtube for six eight months with 0:44:50.063 --> 0:44:50.443 Nothing. 0:44:50.864 --> 0:44:53.867 10, 12 views, and then one thing pops. 0:44:54.288 --> 0:44:55.349 It's Netflix and chill. 0:44:55.469 --> 0:44:56.670 I find a show. 0:44:56.690 --> 0:44:57.751 Oh, what's that? 0:44:57.811 --> 0:44:59.132 Now I go back and I binge 0:44:59.293 --> 0:45:01.775 the first 12 seasons that didn't pop. 0:45:01.835 --> 0:45:03.998 So the internet's wild with that. 0:45:04.237 --> 0:45:04.838 It is, yeah. 0:45:04.918 --> 0:45:05.840 I'm fascinated by it. 0:45:06.099 --> 0:45:07.141 But something else that 0:45:07.161 --> 0:45:08.623 fascinates me about our 0:45:08.682 --> 0:45:09.724 conversation here is you 0:45:09.764 --> 0:45:10.885 talk about being able to 0:45:11.346 --> 0:45:12.306 read the audience, 0:45:12.365 --> 0:45:14.606 and then reposition 0:45:14.646 --> 0:45:16.186 according to the faces you're seeing. 0:45:16.586 --> 0:45:18.327 I think we actually need to 0:45:18.748 --> 0:45:20.547 have some way of doing the 0:45:20.608 --> 0:45:21.527 same type of thing when 0:45:21.568 --> 0:45:22.407 we're doing a remote 0:45:22.447 --> 0:45:23.387 continuing education. 0:45:23.768 --> 0:45:24.648 I mean, Jimmy, right now, 0:45:24.668 --> 0:45:28.108 I probably give 40% of the 0:45:28.289 --> 0:45:30.929 day long or as small as 0:45:31.090 --> 0:45:32.949 three hour long webinars 0:45:33.409 --> 0:45:34.971 that I give will actually 0:45:34.990 --> 0:45:36.411 be delivered from the very 0:45:36.490 --> 0:45:37.690 chair that I'm sitting in 0:45:37.851 --> 0:45:39.572 right here in Las Vegas, Nevada. 0:45:42.105 --> 0:45:43.947 not being able to see all of 0:45:44.007 --> 0:45:45.489 those faces across the screen, 0:45:45.530 --> 0:45:47.552 because if I've got my PowerPoint up, 0:45:47.652 --> 0:45:49.315 I need to pin my video so I 0:45:49.355 --> 0:45:50.516 can only see my video. 0:45:50.876 --> 0:45:52.179 I can't see the other day. 0:45:52.239 --> 0:45:54.583 I talked to 1700 people on a 0:45:54.643 --> 0:45:56.224 webinar that I was delivering. 0:46:00.322 --> 0:46:02.105 That was a three-hour webinar. 0:46:02.625 --> 0:46:04.067 I talked to 1,700 people 0:46:04.146 --> 0:46:05.588 across the world on that, 0:46:05.889 --> 0:46:07.391 but I didn't get to see any of them. 0:46:07.871 --> 0:46:09.873 So it's very difficult for 0:46:09.994 --> 0:46:11.675 me as an engager, 0:46:12.056 --> 0:46:13.338 as a person that likes to 0:46:13.498 --> 0:46:14.659 interact and see, 0:46:15.059 --> 0:46:16.081 it's very difficult for me 0:46:16.161 --> 0:46:16.802 to be able to see 0:46:17.954 --> 0:46:20.077 Am I hitting this message okay? 0:46:20.318 --> 0:46:20.518 I mean, 0:46:20.539 --> 0:46:22.320 I'm getting flooded with questions. 0:46:22.420 --> 0:46:22.981 That's good. 0:46:23.041 --> 0:46:24.483 That's one objective sign. 0:46:24.864 --> 0:46:26.407 I can see that I'm engaging people. 0:46:26.447 --> 0:46:28.028 And I look at the fervor of the questions. 0:46:28.068 --> 0:46:29.351 Yeah, they're interested. 0:46:29.391 --> 0:46:30.793 They want to know more, et cetera. 0:46:30.833 --> 0:46:31.313 That's great. 0:46:32.402 --> 0:46:33.864 But sometimes you can just 0:46:33.905 --> 0:46:35.766 hit an audience of 0:46:35.847 --> 0:46:36.927 individuals at a different 0:46:36.987 --> 0:46:38.851 sector or a different country, 0:46:39.311 --> 0:46:41.454 and their approach is not 0:46:41.494 --> 0:46:42.454 to ask questions. 0:46:42.934 --> 0:46:43.356 So I'm like, 0:46:43.936 --> 0:46:45.297 this is going to be hard for 0:46:45.338 --> 0:46:47.099 me to stay engaged here for 0:46:47.119 --> 0:46:49.163 the next seven hours and 15 minutes. 0:46:49.443 --> 0:46:50.143 How do we do that? 0:46:50.922 --> 0:46:53.362 So there's a thing that I coined. 0:46:53.643 --> 0:46:55.423 It's called empty room syndrome. 0:46:55.844 --> 0:46:59.065 So I would teach bartenders, 0:46:59.945 --> 0:47:01.786 supermarket checkout counter people, 0:47:02.005 --> 0:47:03.547 car salesmen how to become broadcasters. 0:47:03.887 --> 0:47:05.847 You would find radio people everywhere. 0:47:05.907 --> 0:47:06.507 They need to be people. 0:47:07.487 --> 0:47:09.588 And the idea was in between 0:47:09.688 --> 0:47:10.909 Pearl Jam and Nickelback, 0:47:11.070 --> 0:47:12.951 you would say something witty or funny, 0:47:13.130 --> 0:47:13.251 right? 0:47:13.271 --> 0:47:14.331 You would try to interject 0:47:14.452 --> 0:47:15.592 in between songs. 0:47:16.132 --> 0:47:17.193 And a lot of times what I 0:47:17.273 --> 0:47:19.594 kept seeing people do, different people, 0:47:19.653 --> 0:47:20.974 so it must be a thing, right? 0:47:21.014 --> 0:47:23.115 Psychology, is they kept trying, 0:47:23.396 --> 0:47:25.157 they would hit the punchline, 0:47:25.257 --> 0:47:25.958 their zinger, 0:47:26.878 --> 0:47:28.239 And then they'd hit it. 0:47:28.320 --> 0:47:29.340 They tried to hit it again. 0:47:29.360 --> 0:47:30.942 Or maybe they'd go around 0:47:30.961 --> 0:47:32.003 the block a third time. 0:47:32.023 --> 0:47:33.304 I called it going around the block. 0:47:33.384 --> 0:47:34.324 And I still laugh. 0:47:34.385 --> 0:47:34.746 I forget it. 0:47:35.005 --> 0:47:35.186 Sure. 0:47:35.545 --> 0:47:36.967 And I had to remind them 0:47:37.507 --> 0:47:39.550 that if what you said was funny, 0:47:40.150 --> 0:47:40.731 they laughed. 0:47:40.931 --> 0:47:41.572 You couldn't hear them 0:47:41.612 --> 0:47:42.632 because you're in a room by 0:47:42.652 --> 0:47:43.653 yourself talking into a 0:47:43.693 --> 0:47:45.376 microphone and they're out there. 0:47:46.617 --> 0:47:47.538 If they didn't laugh, 0:47:47.597 --> 0:47:48.639 you saying it a second time 0:47:48.818 --> 0:47:49.500 ain't going to fix it. 0:47:50.001 --> 0:47:51.463 And if they did laugh the first time, 0:47:51.543 --> 0:47:52.724 you just ruined it by 0:47:52.784 --> 0:47:54.485 saying it a second or a third time. 0:47:54.706 --> 0:47:56.108 I would call it empty room syndrome. 0:47:56.407 --> 0:48:00.432 But that hurt me as a guy who interacts. 0:48:00.572 --> 0:48:01.393 So as you were saying this, 0:48:01.414 --> 0:48:02.295 I was nodding left. 0:48:02.416 --> 0:48:03.516 Here's how I solved it. 0:48:05.382 --> 0:48:06.983 The budget was not going to 0:48:07.003 --> 0:48:08.045 let me to have a co-host. 0:48:08.105 --> 0:48:09.045 I was the afternoon guy. 0:48:09.106 --> 0:48:10.568 Afternoon guys are in literacy solo. 0:48:10.907 --> 0:48:11.688 Didn't say anything. 0:48:11.708 --> 0:48:13.190 And there was always like 0:48:13.291 --> 0:48:14.391 six or seven colleges 0:48:14.452 --> 0:48:15.574 around where I was in radio 0:48:15.614 --> 0:48:16.875 for the longest in 0:48:16.894 --> 0:48:17.775 Northeast Pennsylvania. 0:48:18.135 --> 0:48:19.318 So I would put out the word 0:48:19.378 --> 0:48:20.719 for interns all the time. 0:48:21.500 --> 0:48:23.081 I will teach you whatever you want. 0:48:23.442 --> 0:48:24.483 I just need you to stand 0:48:24.523 --> 0:48:25.503 there for a couple hours 0:48:25.603 --> 0:48:26.485 and hang out with me. 0:48:26.644 --> 0:48:27.425 There you go. 0:48:27.626 --> 0:48:29.126 I would have a cycle of interns. 0:48:29.166 --> 0:48:29.807 Who's going to be on there? 0:48:30.288 --> 0:48:30.989 It literally was, 0:48:31.048 --> 0:48:32.730 can you make eye contact with me? 0:48:33.391 --> 0:48:34.472 And if I say something, 0:48:34.512 --> 0:48:35.353 it was even better if the 0:48:35.393 --> 0:48:37.313 person didn't just laugh 0:48:37.353 --> 0:48:38.775 all the time because I had to pardon it. 0:48:39.155 --> 0:48:39.356 Yeah. 0:48:39.556 --> 0:48:40.657 And it's amazing what eye 0:48:40.717 --> 0:48:42.619 contact and body language can do. 0:48:43.099 --> 0:48:43.599 Even me. 0:48:43.719 --> 0:48:45.242 So you mentioned COVID. 0:48:45.262 --> 0:48:45.481 Yeah. 0:48:45.961 --> 0:48:47.742 I did everything just audio. 0:48:47.983 --> 0:48:48.943 And then COVID sort of 0:48:48.963 --> 0:48:50.922 brought about everything 0:48:50.963 --> 0:48:52.324 Zoom and Teams and this. 0:48:52.364 --> 0:48:53.224 And then I figured out how 0:48:53.244 --> 0:48:54.063 to hook up my audio 0:48:54.083 --> 0:48:55.605 equipment to this camera 0:48:55.644 --> 0:48:57.744 thing and just making eye 0:48:57.804 --> 0:49:00.385 contact with you here and you nodding. 0:49:00.425 --> 0:49:01.766 I'm not wondering, am I boring him? 0:49:01.786 --> 0:49:02.286 Is he bored? 0:49:02.306 --> 0:49:02.907 Is he want to hang up? 0:49:02.927 --> 0:49:03.286 Are we done? 0:49:04.047 --> 0:49:05.068 I didn't have to worry about 0:49:05.088 --> 0:49:05.668 that anymore because I 0:49:05.688 --> 0:49:07.190 could see you smile or make 0:49:07.289 --> 0:49:09.032 eye contact or when you 0:49:09.072 --> 0:49:09.731 want to interrupt. 0:49:09.791 --> 0:49:10.813 Oh, 0:49:10.833 --> 0:49:12.474 you wave your finger and you lean in 0:49:12.494 --> 0:49:14.356 because that's what people do. 0:49:14.715 --> 0:49:17.358 And it's amazing how our brains are wired, 0:49:17.438 --> 0:49:18.458 but it's also not amazing 0:49:18.478 --> 0:49:19.820 because we're animals and 0:49:19.840 --> 0:49:21.442 we're wired this way. 0:49:21.461 --> 0:49:22.061 Oh, that's right. 0:49:22.161 --> 0:49:22.802 Not weird at all. 0:49:23.567 --> 0:49:23.766 Yeah. 0:49:23.987 --> 0:49:25.188 And that's the thing is that 0:49:25.228 --> 0:49:27.568 I think we don't teach this 0:49:27.628 --> 0:49:28.849 in physical therapy school 0:49:28.909 --> 0:49:30.409 because across the things that I've done, 0:49:30.530 --> 0:49:31.409 continuing education, 0:49:31.469 --> 0:49:32.190 I've also been an 0:49:32.311 --> 0:49:36.092 academician on a few different realms. 0:49:36.492 --> 0:49:38.112 And I don't know that we're 0:49:38.213 --> 0:49:40.253 doing that education in 0:49:40.574 --> 0:49:41.514 physical therapy because we 0:49:41.534 --> 0:49:43.994 have to cram so much content in. 0:49:44.014 --> 0:49:45.976 Are we actually teaching the 0:49:46.096 --> 0:49:47.876 people that are going to be 0:49:47.936 --> 0:49:49.317 representing our profession 0:49:49.617 --> 0:49:50.657 to be communicators? 0:49:50.677 --> 0:49:51.097 Yeah. 0:49:51.257 --> 0:49:53.179 to be able to read the nonverbals, 0:49:53.539 --> 0:49:55.681 to be able to pause, to wait a second. 0:49:55.922 --> 0:49:57.822 You just asked way too many 0:49:57.882 --> 0:49:58.943 different questions within 0:49:59.083 --> 0:50:01.246 one paragraph for this individual. 0:50:01.525 --> 0:50:02.286 Read the nonverbals. 0:50:02.306 --> 0:50:03.226 Because some people, 0:50:03.608 --> 0:50:04.748 if they're not receiving you well, 0:50:04.829 --> 0:50:05.389 they light up. 0:50:05.668 --> 0:50:06.190 And some people, 0:50:06.210 --> 0:50:07.329 if they're not receiving you well, 0:50:07.630 --> 0:50:08.411 they turn it down. 0:50:08.431 --> 0:50:09.811 You've got to be able to know that. 0:50:09.972 --> 0:50:10.693 And what do you do? 0:50:11.032 --> 0:50:12.875 So thanks for the radio 0:50:12.914 --> 0:50:13.795 segue and the setup. 0:50:13.875 --> 0:50:15.797 So I'm piloting this in 2024. 0:50:15.936 --> 0:50:17.557 And because you're in 0:50:17.577 --> 0:50:18.838 education and we're recording, 0:50:18.978 --> 0:50:20.199 why not just do a real thing? 0:50:21.400 --> 0:50:22.981 I do my show live at PT 0:50:23.001 --> 0:50:24.081 programs from now from, 0:50:24.222 --> 0:50:24.882 from time to time. 0:50:24.922 --> 0:50:25.043 Right. 0:50:25.063 --> 0:50:25.503 It's fun. 0:50:25.543 --> 0:50:27.083 Live studio audience, yada, yada. 0:50:27.284 --> 0:50:28.184 And we yuck it up sound 0:50:28.224 --> 0:50:29.465 effects and all night. 0:50:29.985 --> 0:50:30.144 Yeah. 0:50:30.465 --> 0:50:31.246 I'm usually there. 0:50:31.326 --> 0:50:31.965 If I fly, 0:50:32.065 --> 0:50:33.327 I'm there the whole day and I'm 0:50:33.387 --> 0:50:34.007 sitting there going, 0:50:34.266 --> 0:50:35.827 I bet you I could like teach something. 0:50:35.847 --> 0:50:36.668 Like, wouldn't that be fun? 0:50:36.688 --> 0:50:38.949 I don't have a, I'm not an education, 0:50:38.969 --> 0:50:40.230 but like there's something I could teach. 0:50:40.389 --> 0:50:42.990 So I'm putting together sort of a module. 0:50:43.030 --> 0:50:44.092 I don't know how long it's going to be. 0:50:44.192 --> 0:50:44.992 It's only going to be as 0:50:45.032 --> 0:50:45.871 long as it needs to be though. 0:50:45.891 --> 0:50:46.652 I'll tell you that much. 0:50:46.873 --> 0:50:47.052 Right. 0:50:47.253 --> 0:50:48.653 Parkinson's law. 0:50:49.275 --> 0:50:50.737 And the course that I'm coming up with, 0:50:50.757 --> 0:50:51.277 because you come up with 0:50:51.297 --> 0:50:52.038 the headline first, 0:50:52.057 --> 0:50:53.079 because we learned start 0:50:53.099 --> 0:50:53.699 with the end in mind, 0:50:54.579 --> 0:50:57.704 is Science Isn't Finished 0:50:57.724 --> 0:50:58.543 Until It's Understood. 0:50:58.724 --> 0:50:59.445 That's the title. 0:51:00.204 --> 0:51:01.144 Because it's not done until 0:51:01.164 --> 0:51:01.525 you understand. 0:51:01.545 --> 0:51:02.606 So just just because Mike 0:51:02.706 --> 0:51:04.005 knows it and he said it to 0:51:04.045 --> 0:51:05.166 me doesn't mean I understand it. 0:51:05.385 --> 0:51:06.045 You're not done. 0:51:06.065 --> 0:51:08.126 The onus is still on you to 0:51:08.266 --> 0:51:10.047 read that nonverbal to go. 0:51:10.067 --> 0:51:10.447 I don't. 0:51:10.688 --> 0:51:11.168 Do you understand? 0:51:11.188 --> 0:51:12.228 Can you can you give that 0:51:12.268 --> 0:51:13.027 back to me or whatever? 0:51:13.047 --> 0:51:14.248 A lot of tips and tricks and tools. 0:51:14.309 --> 0:51:14.548 Right. 0:51:14.748 --> 0:51:16.228 The sub headline is so the 0:51:16.449 --> 0:51:17.389 title is science isn't 0:51:17.409 --> 0:51:18.309 finished until it's understood. 0:51:18.570 --> 0:51:19.949 Why are these soft skills so damn hard? 0:51:20.668 --> 0:51:21.028 Yeah. 0:51:21.289 --> 0:51:22.429 Because we call them soft skills. 0:51:22.449 --> 0:51:23.550 They must be easy. 0:51:24.050 --> 0:51:24.490 And, you know, 0:51:24.530 --> 0:51:25.431 you speak English and the 0:51:25.471 --> 0:51:26.871 patient speaks English. 0:51:26.911 --> 0:51:28.932 So where's the disconnect? 0:51:28.992 --> 0:51:29.213 It's like, 0:51:29.632 --> 0:51:31.114 have you ever interviewed someone before? 0:51:31.134 --> 0:51:31.173 No. 0:51:31.954 --> 0:51:34.096 Do you know the bad way to do it? 0:51:34.335 --> 0:51:35.856 Are there right and wrong ways to do it? 0:51:35.936 --> 0:51:36.916 Is there only one way? 0:51:37.137 --> 0:51:37.396 No. 0:51:37.536 --> 0:51:38.518 Are there right and wrong ways? 0:51:38.657 --> 0:51:38.938 No, there's... 0:51:39.478 --> 0:51:40.797 landmines you can step on or 0:51:40.858 --> 0:51:41.978 things that are better so 0:51:42.378 --> 0:51:43.639 so my goal is when I do 0:51:43.938 --> 0:51:44.858 these live things if I'm 0:51:45.079 --> 0:51:47.219 already on campus like hey 0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:48.460 could I host an elective 0:51:48.500 --> 0:51:49.541 for a couple hours where 0:51:49.581 --> 0:51:50.721 like yeah I'm gonna use 0:51:50.800 --> 0:51:52.240 chris voss as my textbook 0:51:52.561 --> 0:51:54.161 I'm gonna use movie clips 0:51:54.181 --> 0:51:56.362 from the movie inception or 0:51:56.742 --> 0:51:57.983 uh or you know good morning 0:51:58.043 --> 0:51:59.603 vietnam like why are you 0:51:59.663 --> 0:52:00.483 doing that it's because 0:52:00.603 --> 0:52:01.804 they're highlighting really 0:52:01.844 --> 0:52:04.023 great skills can I use 0:52:04.083 --> 0:52:05.344 multimedia to teach that 0:52:05.364 --> 0:52:05.965 the answer is yes 0:52:06.570 --> 0:52:07.971 Yeah, yeah, absolutely. 0:52:08.291 --> 0:52:08.811 I love that. 0:52:08.891 --> 0:52:11.672 And I'm always resistant to 0:52:13.034 --> 0:52:15.574 pitch anything or to plug anything. 0:52:15.614 --> 0:52:17.115 I don't have a book for sale, et cetera. 0:52:17.637 --> 0:52:20.117 But on an unnamed continuing 0:52:20.157 --> 0:52:23.480 education provider site in January, 0:52:23.960 --> 0:52:25.141 I'm actually teaching a 0:52:25.240 --> 0:52:25.981 course that's actually 0:52:26.021 --> 0:52:26.942 called the soft skills. 0:52:27.322 --> 0:52:27.902 Is it really? 0:52:28.282 --> 0:52:28.882 Yes, it is, 100%. 0:52:28.983 --> 0:52:31.485 And so it's a three segment 0:52:31.605 --> 0:52:33.266 course that looks at the 0:52:33.346 --> 0:52:34.447 initial examination, 0:52:35.666 --> 0:52:37.507 progress examination, treatment, 0:52:37.927 --> 0:52:39.407 home exercise program, 0:52:39.487 --> 0:52:41.527 delivery slash discharge management. 0:52:41.827 --> 0:52:42.967 And we look at those three 0:52:42.987 --> 0:52:44.268 across three courses 0:52:44.648 --> 0:52:46.108 because it's a passion of mine. 0:52:46.369 --> 0:52:47.289 You can say where it's from. 0:52:47.349 --> 0:52:47.849 It's okay. 0:52:48.228 --> 0:52:48.829 It's MedBridge. 0:52:49.130 --> 0:52:50.050 That's what I figured. 0:52:50.110 --> 0:52:51.469 When you said unnamed, I was like, 0:52:51.510 --> 0:52:51.769 come on. 0:52:51.809 --> 0:52:52.030 Yeah. 0:52:52.210 --> 0:52:52.831 Yeah. 0:52:52.891 --> 0:52:53.811 So I'm doing that. 0:52:54.090 --> 0:52:55.650 I think I go up there and I 0:52:55.731 --> 0:52:57.751 actually film in studio. 0:52:58.807 --> 0:53:00.168 on January 9th. 0:53:00.568 --> 0:53:01.429 So it probably won't be 0:53:01.509 --> 0:53:03.650 released until early March or so. 0:53:04.411 --> 0:53:05.891 And I'm so excited because 0:53:05.951 --> 0:53:08.172 I've got patient experience 0:53:08.211 --> 0:53:09.753 where I'm not just talking bullet points. 0:53:09.793 --> 0:53:10.693 This is what you do. 0:53:11.152 --> 0:53:12.213 I've actually created 0:53:13.074 --> 0:53:14.054 interactive experiences 0:53:14.094 --> 0:53:15.275 where we've got models and 0:53:15.315 --> 0:53:17.536 I actually display, all right, 0:53:17.695 --> 0:53:19.456 here's how you show vicarious. 0:53:19.476 --> 0:53:21.217 Here's how you show tactical empathy, 0:53:21.277 --> 0:53:21.998 those types of things. 0:53:22.757 --> 0:53:23.978 Uh, you know, those, uh, you know, 0:53:24.298 --> 0:53:25.539 the analogies of what I 0:53:25.579 --> 0:53:26.539 just learned from you, et cetera. 0:53:26.559 --> 0:53:27.541 It's vital, man, 0:53:27.780 --> 0:53:29.782 because you could know so much, 0:53:30.302 --> 0:53:32.262 but if you can't communicate it, you know, 0:53:32.342 --> 0:53:33.764 I mean, I, somebody said it best. 0:53:33.864 --> 0:53:34.443 You could write the, 0:53:34.543 --> 0:53:35.204 you could have the greatest 0:53:35.224 --> 0:53:36.244 song ever written in your head, 0:53:36.784 --> 0:53:38.206 but if you can't get it out, 0:53:38.226 --> 0:53:38.965 it doesn't matter. 0:53:39.786 --> 0:53:39.987 Yep. 0:53:40.347 --> 0:53:40.847 Doesn't matter. 0:53:40.867 --> 0:53:41.806 You got all the ball to all 0:53:41.827 --> 0:53:42.648 the way to the one yard 0:53:42.668 --> 0:53:43.527 line and you couldn't punch 0:53:43.568 --> 0:53:44.248 it in because you couldn't 0:53:44.289 --> 0:53:44.829 communicate it. 0:53:45.202 --> 0:53:45.782 Yeah, yeah. 0:53:46.043 --> 0:53:48.146 And related to that is they 0:53:48.166 --> 0:53:48.927 don't care how much you 0:53:48.967 --> 0:53:50.268 know until they know how much you care. 0:53:50.730 --> 0:53:53.713 So, you know, that ability to be able to 0:53:54.827 --> 0:53:57.547 listen and display empathy, 0:53:57.628 --> 0:54:00.108 communicate it in a very realistic, 0:54:00.248 --> 0:54:01.748 non-pandering manner. 0:54:02.429 --> 0:54:04.429 And one of the secrets that 0:54:04.449 --> 0:54:06.168 I'll tell you that I've had 0:54:06.268 --> 0:54:09.949 over 33 years is somehow I 0:54:10.030 --> 0:54:11.550 figure out a way to learn 0:54:11.731 --> 0:54:13.550 something about an 0:54:13.590 --> 0:54:14.791 individual that they've 0:54:14.851 --> 0:54:16.431 told me that I don't put in 0:54:16.472 --> 0:54:17.371 their medical record. 0:54:18.152 --> 0:54:19.773 And then I play that again 0:54:19.853 --> 0:54:21.675 for them either later that 0:54:21.735 --> 0:54:24.097 session or what really floors them. 0:54:24.536 --> 0:54:25.918 If I bring that up to them a 0:54:25.978 --> 0:54:28.119 couple sessions from now, wait a second, 0:54:28.159 --> 0:54:29.561 you must have been listening to me. 0:54:29.961 --> 0:54:31.543 How did you remember that my 0:54:31.583 --> 0:54:33.023 husband and I were going to 0:54:33.103 --> 0:54:34.945 my grandson's baseball 0:54:34.985 --> 0:54:36.306 tournament in Tennessee 0:54:36.427 --> 0:54:37.668 over the weekend and you 0:54:37.788 --> 0:54:38.548 asked me about it? 0:54:39.028 --> 0:54:39.309 Boom. 0:54:39.909 --> 0:54:40.030 Well, 0:54:40.050 --> 0:54:42.012 I think there's secrets to patient 0:54:42.032 --> 0:54:42.512 engagement. 0:54:42.652 --> 0:54:44.114 I think it was Oprah that 0:54:44.195 --> 0:54:46.077 said people want to be seen, heard, 0:54:46.117 --> 0:54:46.737 and understood. 0:54:46.818 --> 0:54:49.099 And if you can, I see you, I hear you, 0:54:49.239 --> 0:54:49.860 I understand you, 0:54:49.920 --> 0:54:50.782 or I attempt to understand. 0:54:50.802 --> 0:54:51.262 And this is like, 0:54:51.282 --> 0:54:52.903 and I had my buddy who's a 0:54:52.923 --> 0:54:54.166 psychologist on once. 0:54:54.226 --> 0:54:54.666 And I said, 0:54:54.706 --> 0:54:56.188 pick a topic that healthcare 0:54:56.208 --> 0:54:57.329 providers understand. 0:54:57.728 --> 0:54:59.088 mess up or don't get right 0:54:59.108 --> 0:55:00.289 when treating patients and 0:55:00.329 --> 0:55:01.510 he's a psychologist who 0:55:01.650 --> 0:55:03.112 educates psychology 0:55:03.152 --> 0:55:05.152 students at thomas 0:55:05.193 --> 0:55:06.373 jefferson university so he 0:55:06.474 --> 0:55:07.875 also treats health care 0:55:07.894 --> 0:55:10.217 providers on campus and he 0:55:10.257 --> 0:55:11.436 said empathy and sympathy 0:55:11.797 --> 0:55:13.539 and I go well yeah they're 0:55:13.559 --> 0:55:14.980 like the same and he goes 0:55:15.420 --> 0:55:16.460 you know how words work two 0:55:16.481 --> 0:55:17.161 different words means two 0:55:17.181 --> 0:55:17.802 different meanings they 0:55:17.822 --> 0:55:18.342 might be similar but 0:55:18.362 --> 0:55:19.503 they're not the same and he 0:55:19.523 --> 0:55:21.224 sort of described it as I 0:55:21.264 --> 0:55:22.704 can never have sympathy for 0:55:22.724 --> 0:55:23.726 someone who's given birth 0:55:24.266 --> 0:55:25.786 because I have never given birth. 0:55:26.065 --> 0:55:27.467 I can have empathy for it, 0:55:27.806 --> 0:55:28.887 but it's got to stop there. 0:55:28.927 --> 0:55:30.666 Cause if I'm like, I know how, Oh, 0:55:31.047 --> 0:55:31.568 it's pain. 0:55:31.608 --> 0:55:32.427 I know how that feels. 0:55:32.807 --> 0:55:34.547 You know, I broke my finger once. 0:55:34.728 --> 0:55:36.449 I will get in the face. 0:55:36.869 --> 0:55:38.108 It's going to go a long way. 0:55:38.268 --> 0:55:39.969 Mother be like, you do, you know, nothing. 0:55:40.010 --> 0:55:41.949 Cause I don't, but I can say, listen, 0:55:42.050 --> 0:55:44.471 I imagine that's really, really difficult, 0:55:44.530 --> 0:55:45.150 traumatic. 0:55:45.431 --> 0:55:47.911 And I just amazingly, you know, 0:55:48.030 --> 0:55:49.512 a lot that's empathy. 0:55:50.152 --> 0:55:50.371 And I, 0:55:51.353 --> 0:55:52.896 If you can show, I mean, empathy, 0:55:52.936 --> 0:55:53.637 the bar is lower. 0:55:53.677 --> 0:55:54.639 Maybe you do have the same 0:55:54.679 --> 0:55:56.744 experience as someone and that's sympathy, 0:55:57.164 --> 0:55:58.226 but empathy, we can, 0:55:58.507 --> 0:55:59.929 that's a skill you can hone. 0:55:59.949 --> 0:56:00.650 And that's really what he 0:56:00.670 --> 0:56:02.233 was sort of like really 0:56:02.273 --> 0:56:03.235 pushing and communicating. 0:56:03.715 --> 0:56:03.894 Yeah. 0:56:04.094 --> 0:56:07.896 And if you fit a third concept in there, 0:56:08.617 --> 0:56:10.036 you have a way to be able 0:56:10.077 --> 0:56:11.297 to take someone out of a 0:56:11.356 --> 0:56:13.797 potential catastrophization 0:56:13.878 --> 0:56:14.719 cycle because you have 0:56:14.759 --> 0:56:15.818 vicarious experiences. 0:56:16.418 --> 0:56:18.059 I've worked with people that 0:56:18.360 --> 0:56:20.340 have had a similar experience as yours. 0:56:20.400 --> 0:56:22.900 It's not the same and you're an individual, 0:56:23.161 --> 0:56:25.121 but here's been my experience. 0:56:25.242 --> 0:56:26.422 Do you believe that this 0:56:26.521 --> 0:56:27.623 course that I'm suggesting 0:56:27.682 --> 0:56:30.123 for you might also be healthy for you? 0:56:30.284 --> 0:56:31.463 It's worked for these individuals. 0:56:31.864 --> 0:56:34.545 Because it actually helps to recognize, 0:56:34.885 --> 0:56:36.507 put us in the context, but also says, 0:56:36.748 --> 0:56:37.288 here's how we're going to 0:56:37.307 --> 0:56:38.309 get out of this context. 0:56:38.628 --> 0:56:39.230 Here's how we're going to 0:56:39.250 --> 0:56:41.030 move forward with this work for you. 0:56:41.512 --> 0:56:44.333 This is also like the 0:56:44.373 --> 0:56:46.976 parallels between communication, 0:56:47.556 --> 0:56:48.097 healthcare. 0:56:48.916 --> 0:56:49.898 Donald Miller wrote a book 0:56:49.918 --> 0:56:51.119 called Building the Story Brand, 0:56:51.139 --> 0:56:51.559 where he's like, 0:56:51.579 --> 0:56:53.681 when you write an ad that 0:56:53.721 --> 0:56:55.561 tells everybody how great you are, 0:56:56.182 --> 0:56:57.844 they want to say, cool story, bro. 0:56:57.943 --> 0:56:58.644 Like, good for you. 0:56:59.451 --> 0:57:00.753 But if you write an ad where 0:57:00.893 --> 0:57:03.737 I'm the hero and that you're the Yoda, 0:57:03.757 --> 0:57:05.619 you're the guide that can help me become, 0:57:05.699 --> 0:57:07.802 go from where I am to where I want to go, 0:57:07.983 --> 0:57:08.784 I'll pay attention to you. 0:57:09.186 --> 0:57:10.768 So in a classic one that's 0:57:10.788 --> 0:57:12.851 in plain sight is Nike's saying, 0:57:12.891 --> 0:57:13.771 if you want to be an athlete, 0:57:13.791 --> 0:57:15.074 you know what you have to do? 0:57:15.094 --> 0:57:15.414 Just do it. 0:57:15.862 --> 0:57:16.342 Just do it. 0:57:16.681 --> 0:57:17.581 We don't really make sneakers. 0:57:17.601 --> 0:57:18.503 They don't really sell sneakers. 0:57:18.543 --> 0:57:19.503 They sell the chance, 0:57:19.722 --> 0:57:21.202 the path to becoming an athlete, 0:57:21.302 --> 0:57:22.543 whatever that means to you. 0:57:22.724 --> 0:57:22.963 Right. 0:57:23.023 --> 0:57:24.483 So it's super subtle. 0:57:24.563 --> 0:57:26.144 And it's like, well, that's a trick. 0:57:26.204 --> 0:57:27.204 And I go, it is, 0:57:27.405 --> 0:57:28.666 but it's also not because 0:57:28.706 --> 0:57:30.405 if I'm ET and they're like, well, 0:57:30.425 --> 0:57:31.465 I'm an Ironman and I can do 0:57:31.505 --> 0:57:33.226 this and I can do this and I can do this. 0:57:33.726 --> 0:57:34.407 It's like, all right, well, 0:57:34.427 --> 0:57:35.766 this sounds like it's your story. 0:57:35.806 --> 0:57:37.427 Where do I fit in your story? 0:57:37.447 --> 0:57:37.527 Yeah. 0:57:37.907 --> 0:57:39.528 And I put it in context of relationships, 0:57:39.548 --> 0:57:39.768 you know, 0:57:40.028 --> 0:57:41.128 and I try to make it funny and 0:57:41.148 --> 0:57:42.028 poke fun at myself because 0:57:42.048 --> 0:57:43.130 that's the easiest way to endear. 0:57:43.150 --> 0:57:43.849 I'm like, you know, 0:57:43.929 --> 0:57:44.829 freshman year of college, 0:57:44.869 --> 0:57:46.170 I had some first dates, 0:57:46.190 --> 0:57:47.451 but no second dates, Mike. 0:57:47.471 --> 0:57:48.431 I couldn't figure out why. 0:57:48.931 --> 0:57:50.092 I told every girl I went out 0:57:50.112 --> 0:57:50.931 with that I was the captain 0:57:50.972 --> 0:57:51.992 of the hockey team and I 0:57:52.032 --> 0:57:53.552 was super smart and how 0:57:53.632 --> 0:57:54.652 great I was on the radio. 0:57:54.893 --> 0:57:55.614 No second dates. 0:57:56.612 --> 0:57:57.855 sophomore, junior, senior year, 0:57:57.934 --> 0:57:58.896 I asked a lot of questions 0:57:58.956 --> 0:58:00.079 about them and what was 0:58:00.119 --> 0:58:00.920 important to them. 0:58:00.960 --> 0:58:02.282 And I just listened a lot, 0:58:02.523 --> 0:58:03.485 a lot more second dates. 0:58:03.744 --> 0:58:04.626 Why do you think that is? 0:58:04.827 --> 0:58:05.989 And when you put it in that context, 0:58:06.009 --> 0:58:07.030 it's like, well, obviously I go, 0:58:07.311 --> 0:58:08.213 patient care is the same way. 0:58:09.255 --> 0:58:10.536 It's another human that's hearing you. 0:58:11.262 --> 0:58:12.523 Yeah, that's exactly right. 0:58:12.623 --> 0:58:15.407 I love that experience that 0:58:15.447 --> 0:58:16.728 you relate back to your 0:58:16.768 --> 0:58:18.369 dating experiences as well. 0:58:18.831 --> 0:58:19.291 And, you know, 0:58:19.331 --> 0:58:20.893 the thing that happens to us 0:58:21.012 --> 0:58:23.054 in rehabilitation is that 0:58:23.494 --> 0:58:26.137 sometimes we're so busy in 0:58:26.418 --> 0:58:28.320 educating and informing and 0:58:28.440 --> 0:58:29.862 blowing ourselves up and I 0:58:29.902 --> 0:58:30.822 know how to do this. 0:58:31.382 --> 0:58:32.724 that we actually miss the 0:58:32.764 --> 0:58:34.405 fact that we've disengaged the person. 0:58:34.465 --> 0:58:36.025 So what happens is they go 0:58:36.065 --> 0:58:37.005 up to the front desk, 0:58:37.065 --> 0:58:38.487 they follow our instructions, 0:58:38.786 --> 0:58:39.807 they schedule two times a 0:58:39.827 --> 0:58:41.007 week for the next four weeks, 0:58:41.268 --> 0:58:42.748 and then they proceed to no 0:58:42.829 --> 0:58:44.130 show that next experience 0:58:44.409 --> 0:58:45.231 because they knew they 0:58:45.251 --> 0:58:46.090 weren't going to come back. 0:58:46.331 --> 0:58:47.891 But, you know, whatever. 0:58:48.331 --> 0:58:49.293 I don't think this is it. 0:58:49.353 --> 0:58:51.074 Doc, can you send me to somebody else? 0:58:51.454 --> 0:58:51.753 You know, 0:58:51.914 --> 0:58:53.635 and we're confused and we say 0:58:53.655 --> 0:58:54.376 they're noncompliant. 0:58:54.914 --> 0:58:55.114 Right. 0:58:55.474 --> 0:58:55.715 Yeah. 0:58:55.936 --> 0:58:57.215 I've got a terrible caseload. 0:58:57.235 --> 0:58:58.717 They're noncompliant and et cetera. 0:58:58.737 --> 0:59:00.197 And that's what my whole soft skill, 0:59:01.137 --> 0:59:02.199 you know, course is about. 0:59:02.318 --> 0:59:03.699 It's not about the person. 0:59:04.019 --> 0:59:05.201 It's about what you're doing 0:59:05.260 --> 0:59:06.721 to find the individual. 0:59:07.262 --> 0:59:08.681 And, you know, you know, 0:59:09.382 --> 0:59:11.043 you talk about Yoda, et cetera. 0:59:11.083 --> 0:59:13.565 And you talk about Nike and, you know, 0:59:13.625 --> 0:59:14.746 and all of that is in there. 0:59:14.786 --> 0:59:16.206 Just giving the individual 0:59:16.387 --> 0:59:17.306 some limitless 0:59:17.367 --> 0:59:19.907 possibilities of where I can take you. 0:59:20.007 --> 0:59:21.208 Show me where you want to go 0:59:22.090 --> 0:59:22.710 and let's do it. 0:59:23.130 --> 0:59:24.012 Let's make this about you. 0:59:24.152 --> 0:59:24.431 All right, Mike, 0:59:24.452 --> 0:59:25.652 you ready to play three questions? 0:59:25.934 --> 0:59:26.474 Let's do it. 0:59:26.534 --> 0:59:28.155 I'm ready for any three questions. 0:59:28.275 --> 0:59:30.378 With three questions on the PT Pinecast. 0:59:30.398 --> 0:59:30.777 All right. 0:59:30.797 --> 0:59:32.739 Three questions from our friends at ATI. 0:59:32.760 --> 0:59:33.440 They're leading the charge 0:59:33.480 --> 0:59:34.501 in PT clinical research 0:59:34.521 --> 0:59:35.782 with more than 900 clinics 0:59:35.822 --> 0:59:36.762 achieving top marks in 0:59:36.824 --> 0:59:38.565 CMS's merit-based incentive program. 0:59:38.585 --> 0:59:39.686 They're the team to join for 0:59:39.726 --> 0:59:40.367 career growth. 0:59:40.447 --> 0:59:44.471 Explore opportunities at atipt.com. 0:59:44.550 --> 0:59:44.771 All right. 0:59:44.871 --> 0:59:45.791 Three questions. 0:59:46.012 --> 0:59:46.612 First one. 0:59:48.514 --> 0:59:51.019 Let's go... Fun fact. 0:59:51.059 --> 0:59:52.461 If you could have any superpower, 0:59:52.501 --> 0:59:53.324 what would it be and why? 0:59:54.085 --> 0:59:55.146 Ooh, superpower. 0:59:55.807 --> 0:59:57.010 So let's go with... 0:59:59.639 --> 1:00:01.219 I'm going to go with omniscience. 1:00:01.880 --> 1:00:03.481 I'm going to go with the 1:00:03.541 --> 1:00:05.422 ability to know all. 1:00:05.681 --> 1:00:06.483 Oh, know all. 1:00:06.943 --> 1:00:08.262 Yeah, yeah. 1:00:08.384 --> 1:00:10.224 So because I, 1:00:10.445 --> 1:00:11.485 and I believe I've used the 1:00:11.525 --> 1:00:13.545 term correctly, being omniscient. 1:00:14.847 --> 1:00:16.288 You'll have to fact check me 1:00:16.347 --> 1:00:16.907 on that though. 1:00:17.307 --> 1:00:18.548 Because I think that I can 1:00:18.688 --> 1:00:22.590 keep myself healthy, safe, 1:00:23.010 --> 1:00:24.211 help other people around me, 1:00:24.532 --> 1:00:25.771 help my patients even 1:00:25.831 --> 1:00:27.152 better if I'm omniscient. 1:00:27.172 --> 1:00:27.954 So I'm going to go with that 1:00:27.994 --> 1:00:28.693 as my superpower. 1:00:28.932 --> 1:00:30.273 It feels like, you know, Professor X, 1:00:30.333 --> 1:00:31.713 Charles Xavier was a little omniscient. 1:00:31.753 --> 1:00:32.594 Yeah, there you go. 1:00:32.653 --> 1:00:32.835 Yeah. 1:00:32.855 --> 1:00:33.375 All right. 1:00:33.394 --> 1:00:34.454 Let's look backwards. 1:00:34.735 --> 1:00:35.835 What's the most memorable 1:00:35.876 --> 1:00:37.315 piece of advice that you've 1:00:37.416 --> 1:00:39.577 received from a mentor or colleague? 1:00:39.597 --> 1:00:40.458 What's something you thought 1:00:40.538 --> 1:00:41.498 you were like this stuck? 1:00:42.273 --> 1:00:48.117 Okay, so in about 1997 or 1998, 1:00:48.117 --> 1:00:50.639 I was applying for a 1:00:50.719 --> 1:00:53.039 position within the 1:00:53.099 --> 1:00:55.041 hospital organization that I was working, 1:00:55.681 --> 1:00:56.983 and the vice president of 1:00:57.023 --> 1:00:58.483 the hospital was interviewing me, 1:00:58.603 --> 1:00:59.143 and he says, 1:00:59.925 --> 1:01:02.927 I wish you all the good luck 1:01:03.086 --> 1:01:04.387 that hard work can earn. 1:01:06.242 --> 1:01:07.443 And that has stuck with me. 1:01:07.463 --> 1:01:08.704 And that gentleman remains a 1:01:08.744 --> 1:01:09.925 friend of mine to today. 1:01:10.505 --> 1:01:12.405 So I understand from that, 1:01:13.346 --> 1:01:15.007 there's really not so much 1:01:15.047 --> 1:01:16.668 of a good thing as good luck. 1:01:17.208 --> 1:01:18.268 Let's see you earn it. 1:01:18.307 --> 1:01:19.588 Let's see your work ethic. 1:01:19.688 --> 1:01:21.269 And then that'll put the 1:01:21.730 --> 1:01:23.291 afforded opportunities in 1:01:23.371 --> 1:01:24.831 front of you that you think are lucky. 1:01:24.971 --> 1:01:26.052 So I think that's what I'm 1:01:26.072 --> 1:01:26.452 going to go with. 1:01:26.771 --> 1:01:27.932 I heard a quote similar. 1:01:27.992 --> 1:01:28.452 It was, 1:01:28.572 --> 1:01:30.813 luck is the dying prayer of the man 1:01:30.853 --> 1:01:31.855 who believes that success 1:01:31.894 --> 1:01:32.755 happens by accident. 1:01:33.405 --> 1:01:34.106 Ah, there you go. 1:01:34.126 --> 1:01:35.626 Yeah, I totally get that. 1:01:35.827 --> 1:01:35.987 Yeah. 1:01:36.007 --> 1:01:36.467 All right. 1:01:36.586 --> 1:01:37.626 Unexpected choice. 1:01:37.726 --> 1:01:39.106 If you had to completely 1:01:39.688 --> 1:01:40.608 switch professions, 1:01:40.628 --> 1:01:42.168 you had to choose a different profession. 1:01:42.208 --> 1:01:42.728 What would it be? 1:01:42.768 --> 1:01:43.547 What intrigues you? 1:01:45.208 --> 1:01:46.849 If I had to switch right now, 1:01:47.268 --> 1:01:48.250 it would be different than 1:01:48.309 --> 1:01:49.050 what if I had to switch 1:01:49.070 --> 1:01:50.110 because I tried to become a 1:01:50.150 --> 1:01:51.030 major league baseball 1:01:51.050 --> 1:01:52.411 player that didn't work. 1:01:52.570 --> 1:01:54.090 And I can't look back at that now. 1:01:54.630 --> 1:01:56.952 So one of the things that I 1:01:57.072 --> 1:01:58.134 really like that you talk 1:01:58.173 --> 1:01:59.594 about is psychologist. 1:02:00.016 --> 1:02:01.817 So I probably would look that direction. 1:02:02.237 --> 1:02:04.420 Behavioral economist would 1:02:04.460 --> 1:02:05.561 probably be my other things 1:02:06.001 --> 1:02:07.061 because I tell a lot of 1:02:07.121 --> 1:02:08.523 people over the course of 1:02:09.543 --> 1:02:10.885 the 30 years that I've been 1:02:11.686 --> 1:02:13.067 teaching on a continuing 1:02:13.086 --> 1:02:14.969 education basis is I'm not 1:02:15.068 --> 1:02:16.269 actually sure how good of a 1:02:16.309 --> 1:02:17.431 physical therapist I am. 1:02:18.376 --> 1:02:19.795 I think I'm actually really 1:02:19.835 --> 1:02:21.556 good at listening to people 1:02:22.277 --> 1:02:24.177 and helping them become the 1:02:24.237 --> 1:02:25.998 best that they can be with 1:02:26.059 --> 1:02:27.878 the tools that they think 1:02:27.938 --> 1:02:29.579 and the direction pathway 1:02:29.960 --> 1:02:31.079 that they think is going to 1:02:31.119 --> 1:02:31.699 take them there. 1:02:31.960 --> 1:02:34.420 I think that I can help to maximize people, 1:02:34.820 --> 1:02:35.802 but I'm not certain that 1:02:35.822 --> 1:02:37.202 I'm a great physical therapist. 1:02:37.601 --> 1:02:39.963 So the psychology and 1:02:40.043 --> 1:02:41.563 behavioral economy actually 1:02:41.623 --> 1:02:42.583 fit nicely for me there. 1:02:42.983 --> 1:02:43.204 Yeah. 1:02:43.244 --> 1:02:44.144 I think it's really interesting. 1:02:44.164 --> 1:02:44.304 Yeah. 1:02:44.324 --> 1:02:46.184 I mean, if I had to pick another degree, 1:02:46.224 --> 1:02:47.146 that one would just be fun, 1:02:47.166 --> 1:02:48.646 but it is fun to just read these books. 1:02:48.706 --> 1:02:50.086 Like, like someone like Adam Grant, 1:02:50.106 --> 1:02:51.947 which I talk about a lot, 1:02:52.327 --> 1:02:53.728 he makes it very relatable. 1:02:53.827 --> 1:02:55.489 Like he is talking about these ideas, 1:02:55.528 --> 1:02:57.469 like Daniel Kahneman talks about things, 1:02:57.510 --> 1:02:59.351 but I mean, he's super high level. 1:02:59.371 --> 1:03:01.050 I need to like read a chapter, 1:03:01.170 --> 1:03:03.632 put it down again with Adam Grant. 1:03:03.672 --> 1:03:04.672 He sort of knows he's 1:03:04.713 --> 1:03:05.532 talking to people like me 1:03:05.552 --> 1:03:06.132 who are a little slow. 1:03:06.172 --> 1:03:06.472 Yeah. 1:03:06.753 --> 1:03:06.954 Yeah. 1:03:07.014 --> 1:03:07.353 All right. 1:03:07.373 --> 1:03:07.954 Three questions. 1:03:08.014 --> 1:03:08.974 Last thing we do on the show, 1:03:08.994 --> 1:03:10.255 Mike is the parting shot. 1:03:10.655 --> 1:03:12.396 this is the parting shot all 1:03:12.436 --> 1:03:13.416 right parting shot last 1:03:13.436 --> 1:03:14.235 chance for a mic drop 1:03:14.255 --> 1:03:14.876 moment it's 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do that so find them 1:03:39.793 --> 1:03:42.099 online at ortho pt.org mike 1:03:42.119 --> 1:03:42.902 what's your parting shot 1:03:44.134 --> 1:03:45.454 My parting shot is I want 1:03:45.514 --> 1:03:46.856 therapists to think about 1:03:46.996 --> 1:03:48.817 dual tasking in that 1:03:48.896 --> 1:03:50.157 context that I framed it 1:03:50.197 --> 1:03:51.378 about 40 minutes ago as a 1:03:51.438 --> 1:03:53.480 constraint so that we can 1:03:53.619 --> 1:03:56.081 tie up your attention and 1:03:56.121 --> 1:03:57.603 that we allow people to be 1:03:57.663 --> 1:04:01.204 able to learn things formidably, fully, 1:04:01.326 --> 1:04:02.585 and in a procedural manner 1:04:03.126 --> 1:04:04.527 because we haven't caused 1:04:04.568 --> 1:04:06.068 them to constantly think about it. 1:04:06.108 --> 1:04:07.208 So I think if you think 1:04:07.228 --> 1:04:08.309 about it in that analogy, 1:04:08.389 --> 1:04:09.291 that can be helpful. 1:04:09.630 --> 1:04:11.871 yeah uh links to uh to find 1:04:11.911 --> 1:04:13.032 out more about mike I'll be 1:04:13.052 --> 1:04:14.233 looking for that uh that 1:04:14.293 --> 1:04:15.532 soft skills course because 1:04:15.572 --> 1:04:16.414 why are these soft skills 1:04:16.474 --> 1:04:17.614 so damn hard on medbridge 1:04:18.094 --> 1:04:18.954 and I want to see that 1:04:19.034 --> 1:04:20.054 youtube video pop off so 1:04:20.074 --> 1:04:20.956 I'm gonna put the link in 1:04:20.996 --> 1:04:22.755 the uh the the bio okay 1:04:22.795 --> 1:04:23.697 let's see what happens all 1:04:23.717 --> 1:04:24.976 right thank you for finally 1:04:24.996 --> 1:04:26.038 connecting with me after we 1:04:26.137 --> 1:04:27.117 uh we hit and missed we 1:04:27.137 --> 1:04:27.898 glanced at each other but 1:04:28.097 --> 1:04:29.059 we finally did it it was it 1:04:29.099 --> 1:04:30.219 was uh even better than I 1:04:30.259 --> 1:04:31.659 imagined and I learned so 1:04:31.719 --> 1:04:32.619 much thank you so much 1:04:32.679 --> 1:04:33.701 jimmy I appreciate it all 1:04:33.721 --> 1:04:34.280 right they say the best 1:04:34.340 --> 1:04:35.360 conversations happen at 1:04:35.420 --> 1:04:36.802 happy hour thanks for coming ours